What I’ve learned in 2018

[Majestyk]

So it’s another New Year’s Eve.

Woke up this morning in a contemplative mood. I hope this thread will allow my fellow TAG members to share some of the good, bad and bittersweet lessons we’ve learned this year.

I’m getting old, but the first thing that came to mind is that I will never again celebrate a lady’s birthday in Tokyo. I swear, every single one of the ladies who I’ve treated with dinner on their birthday this year later dumped me faster than you can say “Sweet Child ‘O Mine”.

Lesson learned. Moving on. Cheers!

 

[User#6517]

That’s not very nice.. I’m sorry to hear that.

 

[TAG_Member]

Very strange.. Where did you take them, what did you buy them and what did you say to them?

 

[Ocean]

So it’s another New Year’s Eve.

Woke up this morning in a contemplative mood. I hope this thread will allow my fellow TAG members to share some of the good, bad and bittersweet lessons we’ve learned this year.

I’m getting old, but the first thing that came to mind is that I will never again celebrate a lady’s birthday in Tokyo. I swear, every single one of the ladies who I’ve treated with dinner on their birthday this year later dumped me as fast as you can say “Sweet Child ‘O Mine”.

Lesson learned. Moving on. Cheers!

Maybe because the only time you offered to pay for dinner was once a year?

 

[Frenchy]

So it’s another New Year’s Eve.

Woke up this morning in a contemplative mood. I hope this thread will allow my fellow TAG members to share some of the good, bad and bittersweet lessons we’ve learned this year.

I’m getting old, but the first thing that came to mind is that I will never again celebrate a lady’s birthday in Tokyo. I swear, every single one of the ladies who I’ve treated with dinner on their birthday this year later dumped me as fast as you can say “Sweet Child ‘O Mine”.

Lesson learned. Moving on. Cheers!

Maybe they do the same trick to each guy they meet (« oh its my bday this week honey » . « Oh so you’re Capricorn? » . « Yes, and next month I will be Aquarius »)

 

[Frenchy]

What I’ve learned in 2018?
Anger , Jealousy and Resentment are useless
But I thought I had learnt it in 2017 and the years before too...

 

[User#8628]

Very strange.. Where did you take them, what did you buy them and what did you say to them?

Saizaria perhaps?

 

[Ken1988]

Saizaria perhaps?

Having seen his pics of fine dining in Japan, I'm convinced that Majestyk is the last person to step into a Saizeriya. However, maybe, sharing a calculated "worst" dining experiences at a Saizeriya with a lady can be also a memorable experience in Tokyo...but I don't know. I'm sorry to hear about his having been dumped.

As for myself, one of the lessons learned in 2018 is: "Don't forget an umbrella for a date in Kabukicho in summer afternoon."

 

[MikeH]

Maybe they do the same trick to each guy they meet (« oh its my bday this week honey » . « Oh so you’re Capricorn? » . « Yes, and next month I will be Aquarius »)

I actually used to do that back in the day when massage girls would ask my age. I would go "I am XX years old and as it happens today is my birthday". (XX being something that I just totally made up)

That got surprisingly many girls go "I should not be doing this but as it's your birthday, just don't tell anyone".

In real life I have no idea if all of those presents would have been in the menu anyway, but at least it made it feel more special.

 

[Frenchy]

I actually used to do that back in the day when massage girls would ask my age. I would go "I am XX years old and as it happens today is my birthday". (XX being something that I just totally made up)

That got surprisingly many girls go "I should not be doing this but as it's your birthday, just don't tell anyone".

In real life I have no idea if all of those presents would have been in the menu anyway, but at least it made it feel more special.

You’re a bad, bad man Mikey .

 

[Viggagadye]

I learned that I should do more p4p.

 

[Yuriko]

Because they were escorts?

 

[Majestyk]

Because they were escorts?

No, these particular ladies are not.

With escorts in Tokyo, it’s a whole different set of issues.

C’est la vie.

 

[MikeH]

You’re a bad, bad man Mikey .

And that's when I am at my best!

 

[Yuriko]

No, these particular ladies are not.

With escorts in Tokyo, it’s a whole different set of issues.

C’est la vie.

Oh,,,sorry to hear that! Please imagine your successful dates before you go to bed. Don't think abt what if, bad traumatic scenes. Winning scenes mindset transformation may help trigger successful dates in your real life in the near future! Good luck!!

 

[steve969696]

You’d think I should have figured this out by now. — but I learned that apparent chemistry (whether real or well acted) and passionate DFK and connection are more important than the sex itself.

Came home to me in several ways:

1. Expensive escort in London with light DFK and no real connection. Ended up in bottom 5 for the year despite near perfect BBBJ and FS.

2. Two of my top five were CBJ. Did not think this was possible! But the kissing and the passion. Wow. Total GFE. Would not trade for anything.

3. My “sort of sugar baby” experience. Just being together, dining, dancing, kissing and generally acting “in love” for several days and nights was tops for the year. (Sex was great too but just a part of it).

So yes, all these 50 something years later I am still learning. My sincere thanks to all the ladies in this line of work who make us old dudes still feel the thrill of a younger life. You are the best!

 

[User#8628]

I learned that I should do more p4p.

Great new year’s resolution!

 

[Simonka]

2018 is the year I’ve started escorting.

Young Simona would have never guessed she would become an escort someday, because where I come from, an escort is the bottom of the barrel. Women are expected to get married, have children and live monogamous lives. Exploring our sexuality is limited to the marital bed. Women are conditioned to think that their body is a temple, little do they know that it’s actually an amusement park and they should enjoy the ride.

I’ve met many kind souls as an escort. (Lord knows I also had a handful of.. interesting experiences) Working in this industry made me realize women’s beauty comes in different forms as I’ve met and had duos with amazing business minded women who are strong and beautiful.

Like beauty, kindness is often a hidden gem and not as apparent as it seems to be. A lot of ‘nice’ people in public can be the exact opposite behind closed doors — especially when they are not under the surveillance of society anymore. As an escort, I’ve met many gentleman who respected my boundaries and enjoyed their sexuality within the limits of our mutual consent. This is a pure form of kindness to me.

I’ve touched different bodies and met a spectrum of personalities. The more people I’ve met the more I realized pleasure can come in many forms and it’s pointless to be fixated on a single body part or certain looks. Many times I was pleasantly surprised.

Most importantly now I know escorts are not only amazing in bed, but great conversation starters, listeners, and strong businesswomen as well.

Today I had my last amazing client of 2018. Thanks for accepting me into this wonderful community and putting up with my goofy personality Hope you have a happy new year everyone !

 

[Simonka]

Having seen his pics of fine dining in Japan, I'm convinced that Majestyk is the last person to step into a Saizeriya. However, maybe, sharing a calculated "worst" dining experiences at a Saizeriya with a lady can be also a memorable experience in Tokyo...but I don't know. I'm sorry to hear about his having been dumped.

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I don’t know about Saizeriya but family restaurants are not that bad in Tokyo

 

[Majestyk]

2018 is the year I’ve started escorting.

Young Simona would have never guessed she would become an escort someday, because where I come from, an escort is the bottom of the barrel. Women are expected to get married, have children and live monogamous lives. Exploring our sexuality is limited to the marital bed. Women are conditioned to think that their body is a temple, little do they know that it’s actually an amusement park and they should enjoy the ride.

I’ve met many kind souls as an escort. (Lord knows I also had a handful of.. interesting experiences) Working in this industry made me realize women’s beauty comes in different forms as I’ve met and had duos with amazing business minded women who are strong and beautiful.

Like beauty, kindness is often a hidden gem and not as apparent as it seems to be. A lot of ‘nice’ people in public can be the exact opposite behind closed doors — especially when they are not under the surveillance of society anymore. As an escort, I’ve met many gentleman who respected my boundaries and enjoyed their sexuality within the limits of our mutual consent. This is a pure form of kindness to me.

I’ve touched different bodies and met a spectrum of personalities. The more people I’ve met the more I realized pleasure can come in many forms and it’s pointless to be fixated on a single body part or certain looks. Many times I was pleasantly surprised.

Most importantly now I know escorts are not only amazing in bed, but great conversation starters, listeners, and strong businesswomen as well.

Today I had my last amazing client of 2018. Thanks for accepting me into this wonderful community and putting up with my goofy personality Hope you have a happy new year everyone !

I am in awe of your very heartfelt post, @Simonka.
Thank you so much for sharing what you’ve learned in 2018.
I wish you more success, peace and wisdom in 2019. Cheers!

 

[Ken1988]

I don’t know about Saizeriya but family restaurants are not that bad in Tokyo

At the very end of 2018, I should like to confess that I’ve been to Saizeriya a few times for drink. It’s not that bad place to have a glass of red wine with mozzarella cheese for a few hundred yen.

As to p4p, I would like to thank all escorts and SBs I met this year - all of whom were gracefully patient with me in bed. It was my pleasure, literally, that I had those opportunities for connections with great bodies and personalities. I’ve learned something from each encounter, which improved the quality of my life in many ways.

Happy new year!

 

[Majestyk]

At the very end of 2018, I should like to confess that I’ve been to Saizeriya a few times for drink. It’s not that bad place to have a glass of red wine with mozzarella cheese for a few hundred yen.

As to p4p, I would like to thank all escorts and SBs I met this year - all of whom were gracefully patient with me in bed. It was my pleasure, literally, that I had those opportunities for connections with great bodies and personalities. I’ve learned something from each encounter, which improved the quality of my life in many ways.

Happy new year!

I’m all for enjoying a glass of wine with some cheese wherever my travels take me.
@Ken1988, I wish you more excellent P4P adventures in 2019 so you can write another exceptional review.
I still remember the one you wrote about @Simonka in July, especially that part about “her muscle strength, from the tongue to the pelvic floor”. I like that.

 

[jhingy567]

2018 was a crappy year for me.

Things i've learned:
Lack of sleep eventually catches up to you, as does loneliness.
You can't outrun a bad diet.


I wish you all a happy New Year.

 

[Majestyk]

One of my favorite films released four years ago was JOHN WICK. The titular hero, a retired gun for hire, was described by his main adversary as “a man of focus, commitment and sheer will”.

So decades since my glory days in university, I found myself in John Wick mode in 2018. I was focused on engaging in romantic liaisons and selected P4P encounters in Tokyo. That commitment meant I had to be disciplined in my diet and exercise routine, which was nearly impossible because of the 16-hour days my work entails.

What I’ve learned is that it can be done through sheer will. In spite of the times I physically underperformed, I was determined to improve. The fine ladies I met in Tokyo made sure that I kept the faith, or at least that’s what I felt. I was at my sharpest this recent trip in December. It was all good.

There were a mix of failures, heartaches, happy accidents and home runs the past 12 months, but I learned from them all. I’m so grateful to each and everyone of the ladies who hurt me, challenged me, molested me, laughed with me, surprised me and loved me this past year.

Life is too short to stay on the sidelines. So I got back into the game. How sweet it is.

 

[Majestyk]

✨Happy New Year, TAG comrades!✨