White Men of Japan

[Lars Lust]

Meet the Charisma Man archenemy.

I did some googling the other week and a Tumblr blog caught my eye. Here’s a 26-year old American girl (“call me Ari or Alice”) with an attitude. She clearly has a background as sex worker in Kabukicho and as hostess, but it seems she has left that behind now. She answers questions from her female readership about working in Kirari, the mysterious host world, and other such things.

She's funny. She writes well, is knowledgeable and entertaining - with a big attitude. I liked reading her posts. Well, that was until yesterday, I suppose. Yesterday the post below popped up on my screen.

I would hope I’m one of the “normal dudes”. But probably small chance. Reluctantly, I would have to put myself in category 2.

What about the other esteemed (white) TAG gentlemen? To which group do you belong?


k-u-r-a-g-e

anonymous asked:

What are the white men in Japan like? Good or bad experiences?

HmmMM. I know a few decent, normal dudes.

That said, a go out of my way to avoid white men in general. They fall into these categories:

1. Condescending ass who will insist that Japan treats all people equally if you try hard enough, sexism doesn’t exist, and he started his business will absolutely nothing but a small loan and the expensive college education his daddy bought him.

2. “I just like Japanese women.” Ugly, socially inept fuck who could never get a date in any other country, but Japanese girls date him because he’s a 〜*white man*〜.

3. Otaku. Socially inept. Wants to compare dicks with every other foreigner they meet. “I’ve been in Japan THIS long.” “I speak THIS well!” etc.

4. Drunk British or Australian man in shorts and flip flops who will make inappropriate sexual comments, grab Japanese women, take up three seats on the train, and tell you to “Get the fuck out of my way you fat cunt.”

5. Entitled white boy. Totally offended that you don’t want to be friends, expects to be treated like a Japanese, totally wasn’t his fault that he got fired from his last two jobs because he can’t shut his mouth when his opinion isn’t needed.

A lot of times they’re a combination of two or more of these. It’s never a pleasant interaction.

 

[MikeH]

I would hope I’m one of the “normal dudes”. But probably small chance. Reluctantly, I would have to put myself in category 2.

Apparently there are no normal dudes here at all. Just suck it up, all white guys are losers.

I am definitely and firmly in the same category as you are. The others don't fit at all, but the second with only one small correction; I can get a date in any Asian country, not only in Japan. Because I am a ~*white man*~.

It seems that my only way to get any better is to concentrate on becoming "socially inept good fuck" so that's what I am focusing now!

 

[e-smile]

Meet the Charisma Man archenemy.

I did some googling the other week and a Tumblr blog caught my eye. Here’s a 26-year old American girl (“call me Ari or Alice”) with an attitude. She clearly has a background as sex worker in Kabukicho and as hostess, but it seems she has left that behind now. She answers questions from her female readership about working in Kirari, the mysterious host world, and other such things.

She's funny. She writes well, is knowledgeable and entertaining - with a big attitude. I liked reading her posts. Well, that was until yesterday, I suppose. Yesterday the post below popped up on my screen.

I would hope I’m one of the “normal dudes”. But probably small chance. Reluctantly, I would have to put myself in category 2.

What about the other esteemed (white) TAG gentlemen? To which group do you belong?


k-u-r-a-g-e

anonymous asked:

What are the white men in Japan like? Good or bad experiences?

HmmMM. I know a few decent, normal dudes.

That said, a go out of my way to avoid white men in general. They fall into these categories:

1. Condescending ass who will insist that Japan treats all people equally if you try hard enough, sexism doesn’t exist, and he started his business will absolutely nothing but a small loan and the expensive college education his daddy bought him.

2. “I just like Japanese women.” Ugly, socially inept fuck who could never get a date in any other country, but Japanese girls date him because he’s a 〜*white man*〜.

3. Otaku. Socially inept. Wants to compare dicks with every other foreigner they meet. “I’ve been in Japan THIS long.” “I speak THIS well!” etc.

4. Drunk British or Australian man in shorts and flip flops who will make inappropriate sexual comments, grab Japanese women, take up three seats on the train, and tell you to “Get the fuck out of my way you fat cunt.”

5. Entitled white boy. Totally offended that you don’t want to be friends, expects to be treated like a Japanese, totally wasn’t his fault that he got fired from his last two jobs because he can’t shut his mouth when his opinion isn’t needed.

A lot of times they’re a combination of two or more of these. It’s never a pleasant interaction.

You don't attract flies with vinegar.

Although those categories exists there are many other type of men and she just "somehow" didn't meet them.

 

[MossBoss]

I don't know why you want to give her air time to be honest. She seems to have a chip on her shoulder. Probably annoyed she can't get a date.

If someone made a list of reasons why they dislike foreign females in Japan, they would rightly be called a sexist and worse.

 

[MikeH]

She seems to have a chip on her shoulder.

Show me a white girl in Japan with no chip on her shoulder and I'll show you our Alice

 

[User#8628]

Haha, i've read some of her blog as well, and its NOT the same Alice as me, to clarify. Haha!
(I realize Alice is a very common name, and that's exactly why i picked it. I thought it wouldn't be good to have a very obvious, showy working name but rather a name that guys can call me without bursting out laughing.)

I think her list is a bit exaggerated and not very recognizable.

Yeah, there seem to be some yellow fever people here but if it works out and they like the Japanese and the Japanese like them, its not directly a problem.

The drunk, sekuhara gaijin are a thing though, if i walk past golden gai for example i find white guys to be very loud and rude, but i guess thats normal for a bar district.

I would actually claim the opposite of her, instead of meeting guys who say that Japan does not treat them racist and they blend in so well, i more often seem to meet white guys who make a huge fuzz about how racist Japan is and the things people say to them and the things they cant do because of being a foreigner. I had one white guy in a bar rant the whole evening to me how all Japanese are liars for not being direct and how he was sick of it and wanted to go home. That was about my first encounter with a white guy in Japan and i've met more of those types like that afterwards.

 

[Sudsy]

Meet the Charisma Man archenemy.

Might want to remove that link, there's some grade A malware there.

 

[Pansexual latina]

I find this pretty damn funny. I wouldn't take it too seriously though.

 

[NormalGuy]

Wants to negatively portray every white man, yea, has a whole potato field on her shoulder.

 

[MikeH]

I find this pretty damn funny. I wouldn't take it too seriously though.

I have actually never read her blog and most probably never will but just going with Lars's message here I pretty much know how it is. Seen that way too many times and to be honest I don't find people or blogs like that funny at all.

It seems everyone nowadays uses the opportunities internet brings us just to spread their own malice and spite all around. Why can't you use it for good things and post for example reviews of escorts in Tokyo like normal people?

 

[MikeH]

Wants to negatively portray every white man, yea, has a whole potato field on her shoulder.

She must be the first white girl living in Asia who does it. Oh, wait...

 

[Frenchy]

Hmmmmmm did you find my female equivalent?

 

[namae]

Shouldn't be too hard to track her down and give her the love she needs.

Keep an eye out for her on Seeking an Arrangement @Frenchy - she is 26, American, and Item 4 above suggests she is overweight.

 

[Frenchy]

Shouldn't be too hard to track her down and give her the love she needs.

Keep an eye out for her on Seeking an Arrangement @Frenchy - she is 26, American, and Item 4 above suggests she is overweight.

Yeah clearly she needs to get a better image of white men in Japan , I'm sure she will fall in love with me...

 

[Garcian]

Interesting topic.

In general, the idea of talking about "white" people is pointless. People with light skin can be found anywhere, from Iceland to South Africa.
On another note, I find it degrading towards Japanese girls to claim that they are willing to date anybody as long as they are white.

So, a person like this Alice apparently has some huge issues, stereotyping everyone around her.
We have 2017, time to realize that all characters can be found in all countries and (of course) all colors, races, ethnic groups, whatever you wanna call it.

To answer the original question:

Group 2, I guess. But with an exception: I just like women that are unlike "Alice".

 

[Frenchy]

Interesting topic.

In general, the idea of talking about "white" people is pointless. People with light skin can be found anywhere, from Iceland to South Africa.
On another note, I find it degrading towards Japanese girls to claim that they are willing to date anybody as long as they are white.

So, a person like this Alice apparently has some huge issues, stereotyping everyone around her.
We have 2017, time to realize that all characters can be found in all countries and (of course) all colors, races, ethnic groups, whatever you wanna call it.

Yeah! Reminds me the immortal quote of Austin Powers' dad...

 

[Garcian]

Yeah! Reminds me the immortal quote of Austin Powers' dad...

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I love it!

 

[MikeH]

In general, the idea of talking about "white" people is pointless. People with light skin can be found anywhere, from Iceland to South Africa.

Yeah sure, but then they are all socially inept, drunk, entitled, condescending asses. I mean if they are male.

Except for the gays, obviously. Gays are cute. And maybe the vegans, at least if they vape and are into white girls with daddy issues.

 

[zecarioca]

It seems everyone nowadays uses the opportunities internet brings us just to spread their own malice and spite all around.

“Social media gives legions of idiots the right to speak when they once only spoke at a bar after a glass of wine, without harming the community. Then they were quickly silenced, but now they have the same right to speak as a Nobel Prize winner. It’s the invasion of the idiots.” (Umberto Eco)

 

[roots reggae]

Stereotypes, stereotypes, stereotypes, stereotypes,stereotypes !!!!!!

Outrageous, outrageous, outrageous, outrageous,outrageous !!!!!

Hell hath no fury like a gaggle of white men indignant over stereotyping.

 

[User#8628]

It seems everyone nowadays uses the opportunities internet brings us just to spread their own malice and spite all around.

Ugh, this is very true.

 

[Lukes]

... and tell you to “Get the fuck out of my way you fat cunt.”

And this is how you know it's all personal for her with little basis in reality. She got called a fat cunt on a train and now all white men are the devil

We're talking about an immature 26 year old girl here with what I assume is a blog, not a respected author or social commentator. Her words are as empty as her head if she's really willing to generalize about white men (or any men) so casually.

 

[MikeH]

Hell hath no fury like a gaggle of white men indignant over stereotyping.

You always become like that every summer when you get little suntan on your bike trips. Just believe me when I say that being a brown cyclist doesn't put you in any minority groups and thus don't guarantee slim girls! Come the winter and you are again as ugly meat eating heterosexual ignorant white guy like any of us.

 

[Frenchy]

“Social media gives legions of idiots the right to speak when they once only spoke at a bar after a glass of wine, without harming the community. Then they were quickly silenced, but now they have the same right to speak as a Nobel Prize winner. It’s the invasion of the idiots.” (Umberto Eco)

Well count me on the social media defenders side here. Of course a lot of it is crass , or boring or even dangerous (and when it is there must be some anti-defamation / anti-bullying laws, granted). But first nobody is obliged to read that stuff , and second the periods when the common people (not just the idiots) didn't have the right to speak were not necessarily the best in history's mankind either. Eco sounds very elitist , even borderline dictatorial , in this statement .

 

[Frenchy]

You always become like that every summer when you get little suntan on your bike trips. Just believe me when I say that being a brown cyclist doesn't put you in any minority groups and thus don't guarantee slim girls! Come the winter and you are again as ugly meat eating heterosexual ignorant white guy like any of us.

What? Roots Reggae is not a naturally brown Rasta man with a huge dick smoking ganja and banging cuties in a hammock?
So disappointed !