Hey guys,
After talking with some expats as well as my own observations. I have come to this conclusion which I think its very important to understanding the Anglosphere culture, this includes all the English speaking countries not just America.
For example to succeed in Online dating it seems that you would have to be an Ivy League student:
-He has to ride motorcycles
-He has to play guitar
-He has know how to prepare drinks(mixology)
-He has to be classy of him in his suit from his six figure job.
-All his pictures need to be "natural" and not posed.
On top of that, you also have to be "witty" and master texting in which there's "plausible deniability" to not make her feel like bad if she hooks up with you.
Some gurus even go a step further and advocate on getting tatoos. What's worrisome in the minds of most Gurus "no one deserves to get laid" unless they have mastered all of the above and more.
Most Anglo guys seem to accept this as the norm:
It seems Puritanism/Evangelism/Feminism has convinced many of these guys that this is the only way forward.
To them to get laid is to "ascent" or "become validated" or they talk about "genuine desire." Many of these guys will do anything to get laid and including paying thousands of dollars to gurus and coaches.
Moreover, it seems a whole "industry" has developed where they are "dangling the carrot" where you need to pay more money to "self-improve" otherwise you are not going to "unloser" yourself.
My view: I think that the value of sex is overinflated given that in many places around the world you can have sex for less than $200 dollars. Moreover, you can also get into relationships with women in many other countries only through Cold Approaching. I have approached Eastern Europe girls and went on dates and didn't have to do as much.
After talking with some expats as well as my own observations. I have come to this conclusion which I think its very important to understanding the Anglosphere culture, this includes all the English speaking countries not just America.
For example to succeed in Online dating it seems that you would have to be an Ivy League student:
-He has to ride motorcycles
-He has to play guitar
-He has know how to prepare drinks(mixology)
-He has to be classy of him in his suit from his six figure job.
-All his pictures need to be "natural" and not posed.
On top of that, you also have to be "witty" and master texting in which there's "plausible deniability" to not make her feel like bad if she hooks up with you.
Some gurus even go a step further and advocate on getting tatoos. What's worrisome in the minds of most Gurus "no one deserves to get laid" unless they have mastered all of the above and more.
Most Anglo guys seem to accept this as the norm:
It seems Puritanism/Evangelism/Feminism has convinced many of these guys that this is the only way forward.
To them to get laid is to "ascent" or "become validated" or they talk about "genuine desire." Many of these guys will do anything to get laid and including paying thousands of dollars to gurus and coaches.
Moreover, it seems a whole "industry" has developed where they are "dangling the carrot" where you need to pay more money to "self-improve" otherwise you are not going to "unloser" yourself.
My view: I think that the value of sex is overinflated given that in many places around the world you can have sex for less than $200 dollars. Moreover, you can also get into relationships with women in many other countries only through Cold Approaching. I have approached Eastern Europe girls and went on dates and didn't have to do as much.