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Question:
Often I hear male ask me “ you are beautifully and you are single? Why?”

What actually mean when male ask why you are single?

I personally think is a dumb question, everybody timing is different and if someone is single it's because didn’t find the right partner or choose to be single.
 

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sugarcatwhite said:
What actually mean when male ask why you are single?
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One thing women have trouble understanding is that most men mean exactly what they say when they say it. There is no hidden meaning to the question. The most complex thought going through the male brain when he first encounters a female he's attracted to is, "Don't say something stupid!". He's not planning his questions or trying to get some secret out of you. He's just saying anything he can to get you talking so he doesn't have to because the more he talks the more likely he is to say something stupid that drives you away.

Depends on the circumstances too though. Once a man has moved you mentally into a category other than potential mate he could just be nosy or genuinely curious about why you are single right now, maybe mistakenly assuming you choose to be.
 
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Just say you're looking for someone equally awesome. In the end, honestly it doesn't matter. You don't need to justify yourself to anyone. I don't think it's an annoying question, per se (it's usually a compliment because u are goodlooking) then again, people rarely ask, because I'm pretty clear up-front that I'm not really very interested in anyone on a much personal level unless I feel attracted towards that person or we have things in common.

If it's annoying and just want them to stfu just say you don't like sharing food.
 
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TAG Manager said:
Because people are nosy....

Like guys that ask escorts why they do this job or why they ask sugar babies why they are doing the SB thing, etc.

The right answer is “none of your business”.
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If the question is asked in an insinuating manner then yes, it’s rude.. but some clients are just curious to know about my life as an escort :) I don’t mind to answer compelling questions if the person conversing with me is simply curious about my unique insight.

But anything regarding my marital status, relationships etc. is a bit too personal..
 
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TAG Manager said:
Because people are nosy....

Like guys that ask escorts why they do this job or why they ask sugar babies why they are doing the SB thing, etc.

The right answer is “none of your business”.
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Another one "When was the last time you had sex?" .....

(btw i dont see emoji icon to use)
 
wraithfive said:
One thing women have trouble understanding is that most men mean exactly what they say when they say it. There is no hidden meaning to the question. The most complex thought going through the male brain when he first encounters a female he's attracted to is, "Don't say something stupid!". He's not planning his questions or trying to get some secret out of you. He's just saying anything he can to get you talking so he doesn't have to because the more he talks the more likely he is to say something stupid that drives you away.

Depends on the circumstances too though. Once a man has moved you mentally into a category other than potential mate he could just be nosy or genuinely curious about why you are single right now, maybe mistakenly assuming you choose to be.
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Very well explained. Quote of the day , thanks.
 
It could be worse. Imagine reversing the gender roles. Take my situation, for example.

I'm in a long-term relationship but not married so no ring on my finger. In the profession I work in, I also keep as much of my personal life as private as possible so it can't be used against me. Then, I'm a relatively decent looking guy, excellent physical shape and when I'm working I always try to dress very well. Then, I may be a raunchy, degenerate piece of shit but I'm also a gifted actor and can come off very, very presentable if I have to. And then, for whatever reason I happen to have several female friends who are very attractive and we often attend events together.

So, an unmarried, well-spoken Asian male who dresses well, keeps in top physical shape and attends public events with tall, pretty, blonde female platonic friends? Yeah, exactly. People assume I'm the fucking oriental Kevin Spacey. I only found out recently that at a bar I used to frequent after work for about two years until they closed, all of the female staff and the gay male bartender assumed I was gay.

And that seriously fucks me up at public events when there might be opportunities pick up women. I can make women I meet laugh all night but it's good for shit if they think they're having a chuckle with a really funny gay guy.

On the other hand, if you look like a queer in America then you're a hunk in Japan. And I have noticed, on multiple occasions, when I'm at events with my blonde friend and walking through venues with large numbers of Japanese tourists, I have noticed a few very attractive Japanese girls, obviously there on vacation with other female friends, making direct eye contact with me and smiling/smirking with that "come hither" look. Obviously, they're wondering what this Japanese-looking guy does so phenomenally well to be able to score such a woman. Maybe I grew up next to a reactor or in downtown Hiroshima and pack 17cm? Or maybe I'm just filthy rich. Unfortunately, in the role I play at most of these events I'm unable to just stop and flirt with tourists, but I always regret not being able to get the girl's number, get her back to my apartment, get all of her clothes off and then whip out my bank statement and pull down my pants and give her the letdown of a lifetime.
 
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Keihan Chikan said:
It could be worse. Imagine reversing the gender roles. Take my situation, for example.

I'm in a long-term relationship but not married so no ring on my finger. In the profession I work in, I also keep as much of my personal life as private as possible so it can't be used against me. Then, I'm a relatively decent looking guy, excellent physical shape and when I'm working I always try to dress very well. Then, I may be a raunchy, degenerate piece of shit but I'm also a gifted actor and can come off very, very presentable if I have to. And then, for whatever reason I happen to have several female friends who are very attractive and we often attend events together.

So, an unmarried, well-spoken Asian male who dresses well, keeps in top physical shape and attends public events with tall, pretty, blonde female platonic friends? Yeah, exactly. People assume I'm the fucking oriental Kevin Spacey. I only found out recently that at a bar I used to frequent after work for about two years until they closed, all of the female staff and the gay male bartender assumed I was gay.

And that seriously fucks me up at public events when there might be opportunities pick up women. I can make women I meet laugh all night but it's good for shit if they think they're having a chuckle with a really funny gay guy.

On the other hand, if you look like a queer in America then you're a hunk in Japan. And I have noticed, on multiple occasions, when I'm at events with my blonde friend and walking through venues with large numbers of Japanese tourists, I have noticed a few very attractive Japanese girls, obviously there on vacation with other female friends, making direct eye contact with me and smiling/smirking with that "come hither" look. Obviously, they're wondering what this Japanese-looking guy does so phenomenally well to be able to score such a woman. Maybe I grew up next to a reactor or in downtown Hiroshima and pack 17cm? Or maybe I'm just filthy rich. Unfortunately, in the role I play at most of these events I'm unable to just stop and flirt with tourists, but I always regret not being able to get the girl's number, get her back to my apartment, get all of her clothes off and then whip out my bank statement and pull down my pants and give her the letdown of a lifetime.
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Lol! Now that was a funny (if not exactly happy) ending
 
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Keihan Chikan said:
It could be worse. Imagine reversing the gender roles. Take my situation, for example.

I'm in a long-term relationship but not married so no ring on my finger. In the profession I work in, I also keep as much of my personal life as private as possible so it can't be used against me. Then, I'm a relatively decent looking guy, excellent physical shape and when I'm working I always try to dress very well. Then, I may be a raunchy, degenerate piece of shit but I'm also a gifted actor and can come off very, very presentable if I have to. And then, for whatever reason I happen to have several female friends who are very attractive and we often attend events together.

So, an unmarried, well-spoken Asian male who dresses well, keeps in top physical shape and attends public events with tall, pretty, blonde female platonic friends? Yeah, exactly. People assume I'm the fucking oriental Kevin Spacey. I only found out recently that at a bar I used to frequent after work for about two years until they closed, all of the female staff and the gay male bartender assumed I was gay.

And that seriously fucks me up at public events when there might be opportunities pick up women. I can make women I meet laugh all night but it's good for shit if they think they're having a chuckle with a really funny gay guy.

On the other hand, if you look like a queer in America then you're a hunk in Japan. And I have noticed, on multiple occasions, when I'm at events with my blonde friend and walking through venues with large numbers of Japanese tourists, I have noticed a few very attractive Japanese girls, obviously there on vacation with other female friends, making direct eye contact with me and smiling/smirking with that "come hither" look. Obviously, they're wondering what this Japanese-looking guy does so phenomenally well to be able to score such a woman. Maybe I grew up next to a reactor or in downtown Hiroshima and pack 17cm? Or maybe I'm just filthy rich. Unfortunately, in the role I play at most of these events I'm unable to just stop and flirt with tourists, but I always regret not being able to get the girl's number, get her back to my apartment, get all of her clothes off and then whip out my bank statement and pull down my pants and give her the letdown of a lifetime.
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So the moral of the story is to stop working out, get fat, dress like a slob, and stop going to gay bars? That is what works for me.
 
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wraithfive said:
So the moral of the story is to stop working out, get fat, dress like a slob, and stop going to gay bars? That is what works for me.
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That's it? Dang, I never knew before that I am pretty much nailing this life thing down. Thanks to TAG for making me feel good about myself!
 
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Keihan Chikan said:
It could be worse. Imagine reversing the gender roles. Take my situation, for example.

I'm in a long-term relationship but not married so no ring on my finger. In the profession I work in, I also keep as much of my personal life as private as possible so it can't be used against me. Then, I'm a relatively decent looking guy, excellent physical shape and when I'm working I always try to dress very well. Then, I may be a raunchy, degenerate piece of shit but I'm also a gifted actor and can come off very, very presentable if I have to. And then, for whatever reason I happen to have several female friends who are very attractive and we often attend events together.

So, an unmarried, well-spoken Asian male who dresses well, keeps in top physical shape and attends public events with tall, pretty, blonde female platonic friends? Yeah, exactly. People assume I'm the fucking oriental Kevin Spacey. I only found out recently that at a bar I used to frequent after work for about two years until they closed, all of the female staff and the gay male bartender assumed I was gay.

And that seriously fucks me up at public events when there might be opportunities pick up women. I can make women I meet laugh all night but it's good for shit if they think they're having a chuckle with a really funny gay guy.

On the other hand, if you look like a queer in America then you're a hunk in Japan. And I have noticed, on multiple occasions, when I'm at events with my blonde friend and walking through venues with large numbers of Japanese tourists, I have noticed a few very attractive Japanese girls, obviously there on vacation with other female friends, making direct eye contact with me and smiling/smirking with that "come hither" look. Obviously, they're wondering what this Japanese-looking guy does so phenomenally well to be able to score such a woman. Maybe I grew up next to a reactor or in downtown Hiroshima and pack 17cm? Or maybe I'm just filthy rich. Unfortunately, in the role I play at most of these events I'm unable to just stop and flirt with tourists, but I always regret not being able to get the girl's number, get her back to my apartment, get all of her clothes off and then whip out my bank statement and pull down my pants and give her the letdown of a lifetime.
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What? You told us before that you jerk off to tranny porn. You are gay. And now that I am at it, @Frenchy, you’re gay too. You ask your SB to butt fuck you with a strap-on. These are gay activities by my standards. It’s ok. I have nothing against gay people, especially lesbians.
 
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warubuta said:
What? You told us before that you jerk off to tranny porn. You are gay. And now that I am at it, @Frenchy, you’re gay too. You ask your SB to butt fuck you with a strap-on. These are gay activities by my standards. It’s ok. I have nothing against gay people, especially lesbians.
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Jerking off to tranny porn; depends on the porn. Im guessing you would categorise watching a regular guy fuck a regular girl as ‘not gay’ right? How about a tranny fucking a regular girl? Its still a biological male fucking a biological female, its just in this porn, there is one extra set of tits.

I just ask as recently i found the ‘shemale with female’ caregory on pornhub.

Getting fucked by a girl with a strap on; depends on the strap on... if its a dildo that looks like a cock yeah thats gay. If its a little peg thing, i dont see how that is much different to getting a finger up the bum from in a massage, as all of us here have done.

Again i just ask as i want to know what to do if Emi returns at Asian Feeling and brings out some ‘accesories’ when she reaches the happy ending part.
 
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Durg50 said:
Jerking off to tranny porn; depends on the porn. Im guessing you would categorise watching a regular guy fuck a regular girl as ‘not gay’ right? How about a tranny fucking a regular girl? Its still a biological male fucking a biological female, its just in this porn, there is one extra set of tits.

I just ask as recently i found the ‘shemale with female’ caregory on pornhub.

Getting fucked by a girl with a strap on; depends on the strap on... if its a dildo that looks like a cock yeah thats gay. If its a little peg thing, i dont see how that is much different to getting a finger up the bum from in a massage, as all of us here have done.

Again i just ask as i want to know what to do if Emi returns at Asian Feeling and brings out some ‘accesories’ when she reaches the happy ending part.
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Not to mention that there are Trans Males too. I have a former sugar baby who transitioned after our arrangement ended. We still stay in touch and hook up from time to time. I don't consider that gay even though he is well a "he" now with a guys name and stuff. At the end of the day it's still a dick in a vagina.

How did we get here from "Why are you single?"
 
warubuta said:
You ask your SB to butt fuck you with a strap-on.
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I remember back in the day when one pink salon lady asked me if I'd like a finger in there. I was quite baffled and asked if that's a request she gets often?

She answered: "60% of my customers ask me to do it. The remaining 40% of is too shy to ask".

Durg50 said:
Getting fucked by a girl with a strap on; depends on the strap on... if its a dildo that looks like a cock yeah thats gay.
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But what if she pegs you doggie style and you don't know what kind of a strap-on she uses? You might end up eternally in a confused state where you don't know if you are gay or not.

Still I conclude that the word gay means happy originally. There is a reason for that, right? And that reason is your prostate.
 
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warubuta said:
What? You told us before that you jerk off to tranny porn. You are gay. And now that I am at it, @Frenchy, you’re gay too. You ask your SB to butt fuck you with a strap-on. These are gay activities by my standards. It’s ok. I have nothing against gay people, especially lesbians.
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Then you and my gay cousins agree on something. And then I though having four dozen pairs of dress shoes and wingtips was normal.
 
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