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Yes, we had a wonderful conversion with that.
the things i found are:
1. his conversation with guy who want to share his wife.
2. twitter DM with escorts or NTR guys.
i see he trying to book them.

His excuse is like these.
1. i was betting with that guy try to see whether he is real or not.
2. online me is just a fake. it's porn to me. booking was a false promise to soothing that poor girl since she couldn't get any client that date.

He promise he wont use any site like this or twitter.

I love him and try my best to understand so badly but this is so hard to understand for me. Most of part i believe what he saying though im suffering as well, thinking about that he may have urge to seeking other girls unconsciously.

Only i can imagine is i just order or get a girl for him which he said he don't want it.

I am tired to hear apologize or detail motivation which is out of any sense.

Could you why he act like this with any guy view?
 
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I think nobody here can give you a satisfying answer because we don't know you or your husband. Never a good idea to ask for relationship advice from strangers on the internet 😅
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i know i probably end up gathering empty guessing or opinions. . . expecting may give me a different view from users of this site like him 🤔 i dunno 😂 i know im pretty dumb and not nice to doing this.
 
Well I’d just join this site and meet-up with the guys here. Then show him the pics. Seriously though, there are many reasons use why guys use this site. Some are single and busy, hence they go here to get escorts or look for reviews. Some have trouble in the married life (sexless marriage, going through divorce, they still love each other but no more sexual attraction towards one another) Most if us are just perverts. Anyway, talk it out with him and see if you can find a solution. Good luck.
 
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Wow, first I thought you got married to a guy whom you met in TAG and was angry why we were not invited to the wedding.

Your husband was probably here for the same reasons most of us are; consciously seeking girls to have sex with. That means he is not getting enough at home, it's not exciting enough or he just wants more variety. All of that is very normal to me.

Maybe you guys could have a discussion about open marriage, trying couple kissa or something similar.
 
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Well, I can tell you were posting 10 days ago yourself, was this before or after you found your husband posting?



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Well I’d just join this site and meet-up with the guys here. Then show him the pics. Seriously though, there are many reasons use why guys use this site. Some are single and busy, hence they go here to get escorts or look for reviews. Some have trouble in the married life (sexless marriage, going through divorce, they still love each other but no more sexual attraction towards one another) Most if us are just perverts. Anyway, talk it out with him and see if you can find a solution. Good luck.
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thank you. i will try my best😊😊
 
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Wow, first I thought you got married to a guy whom you met in TAG and was angry why we were not invited to the wedding.

Your husband was probably here for the same reasons most of us are; consciously seeking girls to have sex with. That means he is not getting enough at home, it's not exciting enough or he just wants more variety. All of that is very normal to me.

Maybe you guys could have a discussion about open marriage, trying couple kissa or something similar.
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thank you. yes, i think something is not enough or me cant satisfying him very much. . . i will try something he may like, thank you.
 
yuri03 said:
Yes, we had a wonderful conversion with that.
the things i found are:
1. his conversation with guy who want to share his wife.
2. twitter DM with escorts or NTR guys.
i see he trying to book them.

His excuse is like these.
1. i was betting with that guy try to see whether he is real or not.
2. online me is just a fake. it's porn to me. booking was a false promise to soothing that poor girl since she couldn't get any client that date.

He promise he wont use any site like this or twitter.

I love him and try my best to understand so badly but this is so hard to understand for me. Most of part i believe what he saying though im suffering as well, thinking about that he may have urge to seeking other girls unconsciously.

Only i can imagine is i just order or get a girl for him which he said he don't want it.

I am tired to hear apologize or detail motivation which is out of any sense.

Could you why he act like this with any guy view?
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I’m going to sound harsh but true friends tell the bitter truth:
  • Online him wasn’t fake, it’s his true self.
  • “I booked the poor girl because she didn’t have clients at the time” This is the funniest excuse I’ve heard in a while. Not only your husband is incapable of making up a plausible excuse but he’s also avoiding a confrontation with you. He doesn’t want to own up to what he did.

He promise he wont use any site like this or twitter.
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%100 he will do it again.

I love him and try my best to understand so badly but this is so hard to understand for me.
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Girl.. deep down you know he’s lying. If you’re uncomfortable with any of this, just dump him and move on. Remember statistically marriage improves the quality of life for men, whereas it’s the opposite for women. (Exceptions happen of course) Being a single woman is better than being with someone who thinks you’re dumb enough to believe these low effort lies. I don’t even care about cheating in a marriage, but it’s obvious he has zero respect for you and he’s already breaking your self esteem. Not every woman is into open marriage or threesomes. If you try to “satisfy” him while he’s blatantly lying to you.. it will break you.
 
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One more thing: I didn’t understand if he wants to share his wife with other men or wants other men to share their wives with him.

If he wants to share you without your consent, even think about it without your knowledge, you need to run. And probably TAG management needs to be notified because I’m sure this is pimping.. Lots of guys do that to their wives and then receive a payment from the guys without the wife’s knowledge.. that’s human trafficking my dear, you need to be careful.
 
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Simonka said:
One more thing: I didn’t understand if he wants to share his wife with other men or wants other men to share their wives with him.

If he wants to share you without your consent, even think about it without your knowledge, you need to run. And probably TAG management needs to be notified because I’m sure this is pimping.. Lots of guys do that to their wives and then receive a payment from the guys without the wife’s knowledge.. that’s human trafficking my dear, you need to be careful.
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thank you for your honest opinion. yes, i know this is not acceptable behavior even he telling me the truth.

Also you are right that sometime i worry that he may not say a true or lie himself.

Since i have been dealt with so many liars and cheaters before the marriage, i made a rule of myself that i only believe action of them not sweat words.
It is so difficult that i have to making him as an exception.

i know this would sounds very naive or pathetic little girl but i marry with him.
my oath would be valid til my death.

he cook, comb my hair, kiss me every day.
he did one very bad mistake but i will forgive this time no matter what the truth is.

the pimping thing that you worried, that's a misunderstanding. sorry for my bad english. i meant he was seeking other milf.

i have seen guys drugged girls and sell to shops, pimping, using, bragging how did he made money from pussy to the others.

i know.
i know how human can be like that.

thank you for your worry though. it makes my heart warm 😊😊

i will try my best. wish your life is always happy.
 
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yuri03 said:
he did one very bad mistake
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You mean the mistake was he got caught? Because anything else it was not the first time.
 
yuri03 said:
thank you for your honest opinion. yes, i know this is not acceptable behavior even he telling me the truth.

Also you are right that sometime i worry that he may not say a true or lie himself.

Since i have been dealt with so many liars and cheaters before the marriage, i made a rule of myself that i only believe action of them not sweat words.
It is so difficult that i have to making him as an exception.

i know this would sounds very naive or pathetic little girl but i marry with him.
my oath would be valid til my death.

he cook, comb my hair, kiss me every day.
he did one very bad mistake but i will forgive this time no matter what the truth is.

the pimping thing that you worried, that's a misunderstanding. sorry for my bad english. i meant he was seeking other milf.

i have seen guys drugged girls and sell to shops, pimping, using, bragging how did he made money from pussy to the others.

i know.
i know how human can be like that.

thank you for your worry though. it makes my heart warm 😊😊

i will try my best. wish your life is always happy.
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Just curious : are you sure he’s not on this site anymore? I mean , you two could start some kind of couple’s therapy on TAG . We have the best specialists here !
 
Frenchy said:
Just curious : are you sure he’s not on this site anymore? I mean , you two could start some kind of couple’s therapy on TAG . We have the best specialists here !
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i dont think so.
i dont mind if he gonna keeping his words or not. there is gonna consequence of his behavior, that is it.
 
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yuri03 said:
i dont think so.
i dont mind if he gonna keeping his words or not. there is gonna consequence of his behavior, that is it.
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Well , what was his alias here? Would be interesting to check the log history
 
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im a network and security engineer. he use my internet. if i want to look, i can do by myself 😊
thanks though.
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Well my BS detector is starting to wake up here (not that I think a lady cannot be a network engineer , I actually know some very smart ones). Other reason. But thanks though 😊
 
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Frenchy said:
Well my BS detector is starting to wake up here (not that I think a lady cannot be a network engineer , I actually know some very smart ones). Other reason. But thanks though 😊
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i know you just want to help me. 👌👌
 
yuri03 said:
thank you for your honest opinion. yes, i know this is not acceptable behavior even he telling me the truth.

Also you are right that sometime i worry that he may not say a true or lie himself.

Since i have been dealt with so many liars and cheaters before the marriage, i made a rule of myself that i only believe action of them not sweat words.
It is so difficult that i have to making him as an exception.

i know this would sounds very naive or pathetic little girl but i marry with him.
my oath would be valid til my death.

he cook, comb my hair, kiss me every day.
he did one very bad mistake but i will forgive this time no matter what the truth is.

the pimping thing that you worried, that's a misunderstanding. sorry for my bad english. i meant he was seeking other milf.

i have seen guys drugged girls and sell to shops, pimping, using, bragging how did he made money from pussy to the others.

i know.
i know how human can be like that.

thank you for your worry though. it makes my heart warm 😊😊

i will try my best. wish your life is always happy.
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I wish you happiness too. You sound like a kind and intelligent woman please remember that.
 
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