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What is love for you?
Related to my post about what is sex for you? I also had a conversation with the same girl about what is love for her, during the same session. I can’t recall exactly how we get into this topic of what love is. What I recall was, she asked me if I have ever been in love.
Without thinking I just reply yes, actually I am currently in love with this girl. The sad news is she doesn’t love me back but that’s fine. I am still having sex with her anyway. She has got a boyfriend, and I don’t really care. In fact, I am currently in love in a different way with many girls and all of them are possibly having relationships with other guys too.
Her follow-up question was equally interesting.
What’s love for you, how do you know if you are in love with someone?
Again, without thinking much I just tell her
Love has no reason, you just know 愛には理由がないです
It sounds cliche, but that’s just how I feel above love these days. It is just something that happens to you. There are probably reasons why you feel love for someone but you just cannot describe it.
This seems to bring back some of her past. She told me that a guy used to tell her that he love her. When she asked for a reason, the guy couldn’t say exactly why. It seems she didn’t really like that answer so she was saying to him, it must be something like the way I look, the way I say things, the way I act, etc. Tell me something. His reply was “You don’t understand, Your description of love is so childish”
I don’t think that her way of thinking is childish, but I also do understand his feeling that he just knows that he loves someone. The lady on the other hand is still not convinced that love just happen to you.
In return, I asked her this question.
What is your favourite food? Sushi, she said. So, tell me, why do you like Sushi?
She stopped for a while and was silent. She couldn’t say anything.
I see this as a chance so I followed up.
See? that’s the same with love. You know you like Sushi, you could say you like the taste, but can you say exactly why you like the taste? You could say you like the sourness of the rice, but why? You could say you like the texture, but again why?
Her face lit up, and she said “Thank you for that. That’s a really good example. Now I started to understand a little what you mean by love has no reason”
So I said back to her. Thank you for your compliment. Now I believe you have never fallen in love with someone, have you?
Instead of a sad face, she smiled back and said profoundly “No”
I smiled back at her and say “I wish it will happen to you one day. Keep on looking”
So, what’s love for you?
Related to my post about what is sex for you? I also had a conversation with the same girl about what is love for her, during the same session. I can’t recall exactly how we get into this topic of what love is. What I recall was, she asked me if I have ever been in love.
Without thinking I just reply yes, actually I am currently in love with this girl. The sad news is she doesn’t love me back but that’s fine. I am still having sex with her anyway. She has got a boyfriend, and I don’t really care. In fact, I am currently in love in a different way with many girls and all of them are possibly having relationships with other guys too.
Her follow-up question was equally interesting.
What’s love for you, how do you know if you are in love with someone?
Again, without thinking much I just tell her
Love has no reason, you just know 愛には理由がないです
It sounds cliche, but that’s just how I feel above love these days. It is just something that happens to you. There are probably reasons why you feel love for someone but you just cannot describe it.
This seems to bring back some of her past. She told me that a guy used to tell her that he love her. When she asked for a reason, the guy couldn’t say exactly why. It seems she didn’t really like that answer so she was saying to him, it must be something like the way I look, the way I say things, the way I act, etc. Tell me something. His reply was “You don’t understand, Your description of love is so childish”
I don’t think that her way of thinking is childish, but I also do understand his feeling that he just knows that he loves someone. The lady on the other hand is still not convinced that love just happen to you.
In return, I asked her this question.
What is your favourite food? Sushi, she said. So, tell me, why do you like Sushi?
She stopped for a while and was silent. She couldn’t say anything.
I see this as a chance so I followed up.
See? that’s the same with love. You know you like Sushi, you could say you like the taste, but can you say exactly why you like the taste? You could say you like the sourness of the rice, but why? You could say you like the texture, but again why?
Her face lit up, and she said “Thank you for that. That’s a really good example. Now I started to understand a little what you mean by love has no reason”
So I said back to her. Thank you for your compliment. Now I believe you have never fallen in love with someone, have you?
Instead of a sad face, she smiled back and said profoundly “No”
I smiled back at her and say “I wish it will happen to you one day. Keep on looking”
So, what’s love for you?
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