Everyone is being so dramatic with the whole "sex workers can't control their spending and they do sex work because they don't have a choice" thing. I can see where those judgements are comming from, certainly your standard oppai club or pinksalon girl in Japan is pressed for cash. And of course there is this traditional western view of women who don't see another way. But i think in modern society there is a growing number of confident women with a passion for their job, and good reasons to work hard and make bank and have a future.
Since my sexuality started to develop i have always loved the concept of sex work, and just like going to Japan, the reality was even BETTER than i could imagine. The sweet seduction game makes about everything that i have been shunned for (sexy clothes, intense look in my eyes, sleazy smile) a positive point.
By having a killer body without putting time and attention into it, having youth by my side and having the exotic look down after moving to the other side of the world, i feel like i have everything going for me.
It reflects in my clientele. I thought guys would be cold but the MAJORITY of guys i meet are mesmerized by me and carry me on their hands. I thought i would feel used but i have never felt more adored, more loved. I'm assured the connection i have with my clients is real. This can indeed be threatening to a partner, but i do believe in commitment and i think a confident man would trust in me to aways but h first and come back to him. I believe i have enough love to give.
This rush that escorting gives me is something thats far more important to me than money. Do i believe i'm a perfect goddess or something? Not really. But with getting caught up in a game of love, lust, friendship and passion for life, any woman can be a goddess, which is why there are providers with all kinds of looks and from all walks of life. Our job is to adore and be adored and to create a chemistry that makes us rise up from the ground!
Although money doesn't come first for me, it's essential for me to charge to make a selection, make the game more intense (because any game becomes more intense when we play it for money!) and most importantly to secure my future.
I'll admit that i'm no investment tycoon and that i can make mistakes and may not always optimize my savings.
But i'm not a person who throws money around or spends money she doesn't have. I like the finer things in life and have a work hard, play hard mentality, but i'm a person for savings, not a person for depts.
And which guy wouldn't like a woman who can earn well by herself and still have time for him? If you don't want a woman with an escort's salary and talents, you're the one missing out, not her.