Racial Preference In Dating & Sexual Partners

[Frenchy]

My 2 yens based on personal experience and biases and leaving aside for a while the fact that there are of course many more important criteria:
- as escorts/providers: Japanese (hands down)
- as girlfriends: American (whatever the race)
- as wives: (assuming you really want to be enslaved), not sure but certainly not the two above-mentioned
- to be avoided in any case: Brits and come to think of it most French too

 

[DocMcStuffins]

Wow - what is so great about American girlfriends?

 

[Frenchy]

Wow - what is so great about American girlfriends?

You would know if you see mine
(But of course it has nearly nothing to do with her country and ethnicity so really my ranking has zero statistical value!)

 

[Wwanderer]

My 2 yens based on personal experience and biases and leaving aside for a while the fact that there are of course many more important criteria:
- as escorts/providers: Japanese (hands down)
- as girlfriends: American (whatever the race)
- as wives: (assuming you really want to be enslaved), not sure but certainly not the two above-mentioned
- to be avoided in any case: Brits and come to think of it most French too

Obvious of course, but these are nationalities, not races.

-Ww

 

[Frenchy]

Obvious of course, but these are nationalities, not races.

-Ww

Ah ah, youre right, i even answered the wrong question!
Im color blind, i think that race per se is not important. Country and family/socio-economic backgrounds have more influence on a persons character imho.

 

[Shizumaru]

A bit complicated for me to explain but based on my own personal experiences, interests, and sexual preferences, I'm only really attracted to Asian women and mainly Japanese girls.

 

[Simonka]

I have a thing for Europeans. And generally Caucasians. (White American etc) I think I am a "similarity" kind of person when it comes to sexual partners. I like sexual partners to be similar to me but still a bit exotic. I have very smooth warm toned skin free of freckles, so moles, spots, freckles, pink undertones drive me crazy. Also that cute median fold you'd see in Slavic and Scandinavian eyes, especially blue and green eyes.. so cute. I've read a scientific study that says most people like someone still similar to themselves but a little different in hair / eye color. I guess I'm one of them. I like brown eyes too, depending on the person.

There are East Asians I find attractive too, if they have the right personality, but what I've listed above will drive me wild.

 

[RightOn6975]

I have a thing for Europeans. And generally Caucasians. (White American etc) I think I am a "similarity" kind of person when it comes to sexual partners. I like sexual partners to be similar to me but still a bit exotic. I have very smooth warm toned skin free of freckles, so moles, spots, freckles, pink undertones drive me crazy. Also that cute median fold you'd see in Slavic and Scandinavian eyes, especially blue and green eyes.. so cute. I've read a scientific study that says most people like someone still similar to themselves but a little different in hair / eye color. I guess I'm one of them.

Also it's easy for me to connect with them because I'd like to be on the same page with a partner about most things.

Well shit, that basically say no chance for me.

 

[User#8628]

I'm really into opposites attract as for looks.
I also want to be on the same line with life philosophy and future goal but i don't really find this a problem with young Asian men, the people i hang out with are not very conservative.

 

[jhingy567]

Personally I don't have any racial preferences. I grew up in a very multi-cultural environment, so i think I'd be able to see beauty in most races. I do find more hotties in the EastAsian/Caucasian (or in between) category though.

I have a thing for Europeans. And generally Caucasians. (White American etc) I think I am a "similarity" kind of person when it comes to sexual partners. I like sexual partners to be similar to me but still a bit exotic.

Careful there. You might lose all your Asian customers (jokes)
Edit: Haha I didn't see your edited post.

 

[RightOn6975]

I'm really into opposites attract as for looks.
I also want to be on the same line with life philosophy and future goal but i don't really find this a problem with young Asian men, the people i hang out with are not very conservative.

Ying and Yang approach. Something that I have not really fully appreciated or looked for. It seems to work for people regardless of the situation for a whole plethora of reasons though the big one is looks. Dad-bod, ugly, chubby etc..,

I have numerous friends who are in relationships that are 5 years if not longer because of this, and when asked of the attractive partner if they settled, the attractive one is usually the one who gets offended.

 

[Simonka]

Well shit, that basically say no chance for me.

Personally I don't have any racial preferences. I grew up in a very multi-cultural environment, so i think I'd be able to see beauty in most races. I do find more hotties in the EastAsian/Caucasian (or in between) category though.

Careful there. You might lose all your Asian customers (jokes)
Edit: Haha I didn't see your edited post.

Actually I don't have that many Asian clients 0_o

And clients are different. Their attitude is more important to me.

 

[ShowaJidai]

I grew up in a place which was almost exclusively people of Mexican heritage and always found the girls there extremely attractive. Then I came to Japan and have only been married to Japanese women.

I had dated a few Caucasian, American women but soon realized that I simply don't understand them unless they were rather explicit about what they wanted from me. I simply understand Mexican, Mexican-American, Japanese, and Chinese women better than American and European women so I tend to stick with what I know.

 

[Wwanderer]

the people i hang out with are not very conservative.

LOL! That’s putting it mildly!

-Ww

 

[rob040188]

Do you have a racial preference when it comes to dating people and/or seeing sexual partners? And do you think having racial preference is racist?

I don't think it is racist. Maybe it's more of a preference. Before discovering TAG, all my partners (not that i've had a lot) were south east asian (i'm from that part of the world. in my home country we are a mix of malay/chinese/spanish/american/japanese/and sometimes australian also german. Miss Universe 2015 is half german [this probably explained why I dated anna twice]. BTW It is very difficult these days to distinguish one race from another.). Now I have preference for caucasian (I know stereotypical asian guy), japanese, and south east asian (not necessarily in that order)

 

[Lamario00o]

I've felt the unease of being the less desirable because in black. but then I've also been guilty of being able to solely use the fact that im black. I also have been guilty of not being as sexually attracted to most (not all) black women or than I am with others

I too have preference i won't actively search for the type i don't want but if they cone attracted to me i won't immediately blow them off ill see what they have to offer.

 

[rob040188]

I've felt the unease of being the less desirable because in black. but then I've also been guilty of being able to solely use the fact that im black. I also have been guilty of not being as sexually attracted to most (not all) black women or than I am with others

I know how you feel...It is really difficult, in my case, to be of the "wrong" color or from the "wrong" country.

 

[MikeH]

I think only a Buzzfeed feminist would say that it's racist to have a type

The new law about discrimination and equality will state you need to have an equal amount of all races as your sexual partners during any 12 month period.

So by March I'll be looking for white girls who would agree to give me a hand job to balance things out. Sorry honey I need to find some Europeans before we can go out again.

Well, guess it's not that bad until they include the clause for gender equality in the law too.

 

[Simonka]

The new law about discrimination and equality will state you need to have an equal amount of all races as your sexual partners during any 12 month period.

So by March I'll be looking for white girls who would agree to give me a hand job to balance things out. Sorry honey I need to find some Europeans before we can go out again.

Well, guess it's not that bad until they include the clause for gender equality in the law too.

Waow. I've seen unenthusiastic hand jobs. But I've never met someone asking for them in such an unenthusiastic way.

 

[Sudsy]

Well, guess it's not that bad until they include the clause for gender equality in the law too.

I think I need to take you for a drink with a friend of mine....

 

[warubuta]

If a white man only likes white girls, yes MissInsomnia, that definitely means he is a racist. He should be subjected to electroshock therapy until he also likes brown and yellow girls too.

 

[warubuta]

And if a white girl only likes black men, well then she is not only a racist, she is not a Christain and not clean either. Not in my book anyway. She will be going to hell.

 

[warubuta]

To summarize, pretty much anything white men do is probably racist. If one of them does something that looks like it might not be racist, look again, I am sure we can find something racist there. And if a white girl has a preference for black men, according to white men, she is racist, not Christian and going to Hell. Interestingly, many white racist men in Japan like yellow girls which to them are kind of like white girls, only smaller, yellow, generally compliant, and more likely to laugh at stupid jokes. So, on the surface these white men in Japan don't appear to be racist towards yellow girls, but really they are. And they are sexists too because they really only like the yellow girls because they are compliant. There you have it.

 

[warubuta]

And to state my preference, race wise, I like da ladies wit da BIG BOOTY. That means I like Afro and Latino. It also means I am in the wrong fucking country. These Japanse ladies, as perfect as they are in most every other way, have a major deficit in the butt department. Butt if you look around enough you can find some ladies that got some.

 

[Frenchy]

The new law about discrimination and equality will state you need to have an equal amount of all races as your sexual partners during any 12 month period.

So by March I'll be looking for white girls who would agree to give me a hand job to balance things out. Sorry honey I need to find some Europeans before we can go out again.

Well, guess it's not that bad until they include the clause for gender equality in the law too.

Does your own hand qualify?