I’m not sure if etto is still reading this, but your man here
is pretty much bang-on with the references. In his next post he references dating women from the Miss Campus series; I’m not surprised - there are excellent, well-rounded people there.
In regards to low language barriers to entry, Miss Campus (though not Maru No Uchi; maybe they just forgot) has now affixed a full English translation of the rules, with a very clear “don’t touch girl’s pussy” right there on top, so that there really can’t be confusion about “well it says don’t touch below, but everyone is touching legs so...”
It also goes on to state you can kiss and “lick boobs”, and that any activity at all is at the girl’s discretion. Finally, there is an immediate response should you break these rules, they will call the cops, they will issue a ¥500,000 fine. At that, enjoy your time.
I spoke to tencho about it and said “that’s pretty clear. I hope you weren’t having problems that you needed to have this,” and he explained there’s a clear difference between dudes who can hack it and those who are wandering up for the first time, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re going to get turned away. Before I’ve spoken to women here, they had assumed I was not fully communicative... all of this is a very long way to say “be cool, Pay attention, and give them a chance to say ‘ok’.”
This group seems to be doing everything else very well, so I would be surprised if they didn’t have enough overall experience to judge an English-speaking first-timer as acceptable and then proceed to choose staff who could entertain him rather than have a simple but manageable ban on all “foreigners.”
Have fun.