ShowaJidai
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Would you quote that if you were in San Francisco?"Men have a high tendency to like what they can have".
Would you quote that if you were in San Francisco?"Men have a high tendency to like what they can have".
Skinny "scarecrow" type of guy were the most handsome guy for all my female friends.
Maybe if you could pull off an ora ora look?I guess that was my main disappointment when dating Japanese girls. I used to be very sporty and outdoor type of guy, muscular and fit. Japanese women (most of the times) looked at me scared or even surprised. Although I am Asian (Japanese parents) I think I have a "westernized type of physique" tanned skin and trimmed facial hair. Some of Japanese people asked me if I was an Amateur Wrestler or Boxer. Japanese women do not like muscular or manly type of men. I realized that more feminine or androgynous type of men are the ones that Japanese women like.
Dear @SatoKM, (I don’t know how to tag you, man)
I assure you that in time you will find someone who appreciates a “manly” dude, toned or otherwise. It really does seem like more muscular guys tend to attract the attention of other dudes in the gym more than like, women we meet, but I assure you that as you matured/“get older” you may occupy a zone where “solidly built” and “gentle and stable” come together and the odds start to change.
When I was younger, I almost left Japan after the first year because the dating was so atrocious compared to what I was used to, but over time it’s not so bad.
That being said, in terms of representation I actually took a photo of this poster because it was the first time I’d seen a guy who looked even remotely like me (and of course, it’s a sumo wrestler, so I bet he’s still seen as “fat” by some circles), and then as I type that I have to lol because I’m proving my own point about toned dudes getting more attention from other dudes.
This look is something i can personally stand behind (and i love a good tan on a guy). He is a bit scary to some Japanese people but i think he’s considered handsome overall.Maybe if you could pull off an ora ora look?
Some popular boyband guys (exile, j soul brothers) tend to be tanned and with a bit tougher look, though still much more groomed than in the west.
I also kind of like it when a guy is not much taller than me and i feel like i would stand a chance against him physically (although I should really work out if I actually want to be able to do that).I prefer asian men or mixed. As a Latin woman I have broad hips....and a bbw I'm very thick and curvy...I can actually break one of these skinny guys. I'm also usually as tall as them. Lol their intimidation is so funny to me.
Seems more like a trust issue than preference tbh. I’m 190cm, and I’m harmless.I also kind of like it when a guy is not much taller than me and i feel like i would stand a chance against him physically (although I should really work out if I actually want to be able to do that).
The feeling that a guy can protect you is overrated imo, i want to have the feeling i can protect myself against a guy.
Not having preferences towards darker skin tone is not the same as believing that all dark skinned people have some characteristics that you dislike. So you’re in the clear.
So do guys who like spinners also have trust issues?Seems more like a trust issue than preference tbh. I’m 190cm, and I’m harmless.
I also kind of like it when a guy is not much taller than me and i feel like i would stand a chance against him physically (although I should really work out if I actually want to be able to do that).
The feeling that a guy can protect you is overrated imo, i want to have the feeling i can protect myself against a guy.
I like 'em human.
Actually I love big tall chubby guys because during these cold days they can protect me against the cold I love the feeling of the heat radiating from a soft tummy & love handles look so cute from behind ❤️