Minato Namikaze
Midsummer Photographer
- Joined
- Dec 24, 2014
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Getting a bf just for revenge sake is , to me , not a good idea. I believe in KARMA. Karma will take care of that.
I want a happy life , so if I get into a relationship, I'll make sure that I love him.
Very noble and right of you to say so. Revenge is a tough road to tread. You gotta dig two graves for that, too. Why bother? Let whoever God you worship deal with your situation and just focus on being happy and content. Remember, life is short for you to worry about things like that. There are plenty more opportunities to meet someone who will exceed your previous love. Life is full of both wonderful and painful surprises. It's your own book. Your grand adventure. Focus on the things that will make you happy in the long run. Your memories with him might be tough to forget at first, but time heals all things and you'll soon come out of that miserable feeling of sadness and betrayal and transform into a much better and stronger person. It's not your fault, it's his. He wasn't content and sought more. He failed to appreciate what he had and will soon come to the realization and regret of what he will lose. You loved him and fought for it, tooth and nail, and yet, it was all in vain. You did what you could. It's not your fault. He didn't deserve you. Don't let your feeling of anger and betrayal fester and rot inside you. It will make you even worse in the end. Trust me.
I felt that he is really hentai because he keeps buying DVDs of harem ( one man with a lot of young women doing him the service )
I have been separated from my ex-hubby for 17 years now. 3 yrs. ago I met him
Every man dreams of a harem. Powerful men from ancient times were often depicted in images where they are always surrounded by beautiful women. It's a symbol of male pride and power. Virility and strength. It's not a crime to fantasize about it but acting on it is a totally different question. Also, men are mostly hentai(perverted). Some are obvious, some are discreet and others are not very fond of showing it but it is the one thing that most men share. It's a natural response for men. Like I said, being perverted and fantasizing about certain things like harems and all that are pretty much harmless and purely fantasy. They are there to entertain the male mind. Why do you think sports was invented? Other than to promote nationalism? As a famous country singer once said, sports was invented to keep a man from thinking dirty thoughts all day.
A man can be perverted. He can fantasize about anything all he wants, but if he is extremely loyal to his lover, then his love for her will always triumph above everything.