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@Ches - I'm just getting caught up after reading your first post in this thread in its entirety...... all i can say is WTF?!
In sugar dating there is mutual chemistry and attraction, respect and care, there is open communication and you actually talk to each other about yourself about who you are and what you do. There is trust and you know he won't do things that aren't part of your deal. Prostitution is more like fuck and go, no respect and you probably don't even know each other's name.
I definitely don't want a young handsome broke boyfriend anymore, been there done that, I don't know about his exact height it's been a while since out first and last dinner lol. Why were you curious? HahaLooks like you should look for a caring boyfriend instead. In my opinion, sn is no more than embellished prostitution.
How short was the ugly short arrogant dude?!
I can understand such thinking, to an extent. Don't worry, I'm not your judge or jury. Do what is best for you.
I'm just pointing out what is summed up by the popular expression, "Don't mix business with pleasure." Can create a lot of confusion.
The issue is not really about his height, I honestly don't care if he the guy is midget or what, I just hated that he has this need of putting his hands aroung my shoulders that I needed to stoop down to his level while walking, it is do obvious that I am taller, he just needed to feel dominantJust look for a boyfriend with a decent job that can pay for dinner instead of a sugar daddy!
I was curious about how short is too short for you.
Yes, sugar dating usually means more interaction and communication with the paying customer. But this is usually pretense and a facade, rather than real love or a real attraction. It's still sex provider and paying customer, at the core of the relationship. The man can't be sure if you like him or like his money.
Here are my tips for using Seeking Arrangement:
- Make it clear on your profile what you are looking for...
many don't read profiles, despite what you write
- Give a per date amount that is similar to what you would expect as escort to ask for. Do not meet them for free. If you are essentially doing the same thing as an escort, you deserve to be given the same amount.
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Remember, this is a sugar dating website, not a regular dating website. You should not be out of pocket for anything.
Thank you so much for these, it gave me clear insights, I was very apprehensive about the entire process as I am a beginner and that's probably the reason of my WTF dates haha, thank you so much for these, will definitely consider these ^_^Here are my tips for using Seeking Arrangement:
- Make it clear on your profile what you are looking for e.g. short or long term relationship.
- Ask how long they will be in Tokyo for to determine short or longterm (many don't read profiles, despite what you write). Lots of people come to Tokyo for just a few nights and try to use Seeking Arrangement to find non-professional escorts or to pay less for an escort service.
- If a guy seems like a jerk in messages, chances are he is a bigger jerk in person. It is not worth your time.
For long term (several months):
- When someone messages you, give them an allowance per date or per month that you are looking for. Doing this in person can be a big waste of time as you might have wildly different expectations, especially as it sounds like you have to travel far to meet someone.
- Arrange to meet for coffee only for the first meeting and ask for your travel cost for this to be covered, but no allowance. Make it clear that you will not being going into private together this time.
For short term (one or two meetings):
- Give a per date amount that is similar to what you would expect as escort to ask for. Do not meet them for free. If you are essentially doing the same thing as an escort, you deserve to be given the same amount.
- Make it clear that you need to leave at X time, maybe 11.30pm to catch the last train.
Remember, this is a sugar dating website, not a regular dating website. You should not be out of pocket for anything.
Also, I have found the average date amount to be 50,000 yen and transport for coffee only dates is 10,000 yen. For a one time date (short term arrangement) I would suggest a minimum of 70,000. Of course, this might depend on your photos and profile.
I met him through TAG
I met him through TAG
Men pretending to have something to get a girl actually has nothing at all.
That is spot on!Here are my tips for using Seeking Arrangement:
- Make it clear on your profile what you are looking for e.g. short or long term relationship.
- Ask how long they will be in Tokyo for to determine short or longterm (many don't read profiles, despite what you write). Lots of people come to Tokyo for just a few nights and try to use Seeking Arrangement to find non-professional escorts or to pay less for an escort service.
- If a guy seems like a jerk in messages, chances are he is a bigger jerk in person. It is not worth your time.
For long term (several months):
- When someone messages you, give them an allowance per date or per month that you are looking for. Doing this in person can be a big waste of time as you might have wildly different expectations, especially as it sounds like you have to travel far to meet someone.
- Arrange to meet for coffee only for the first meeting and ask for your travel cost for this to be covered, but no allowance. Make it clear that you will not being going into private together this time.
For short term (one or two meetings):
- Give a per date amount that is similar to what you would expect as escort to ask for. Do not meet them for free. If you are essentially doing the same thing as an escort, you deserve to be given the same amount.
- Make it clear that you need to leave at X time, maybe 11.30pm to catch the last train.
Remember, this is a sugar dating website, not a regular dating website. You should not be out of pocket for anything.
Also, I have found the average date amount to be 50,000 yen and transport for coffee only dates is 10,000 yen. For a one time date (short term arrangement) I would suggest a minimum of 70,000. Of course, this might depend on your photos and profile.