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requiemmorrow said:
Yes, so please stop using “kure.” Don’t use command form Japanese like…ever. It’s rude, and it’s wrong.
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Idk it’s kinda sexy imo.
And 70 years old peace light smoking truck driver sounds adorable.


Cinnabums said:
I appreciate the same sex discount on startpage, great initiative!

Waiting for homophobes to call it discrimination.
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Wow, the gay couple are even white men! Haha.
 
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Alice said:
Idk it’s kinda sexy imo.
And 70 years old peace light smoking truck driver sounds adorable.
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If the mood is right and the speaker knows the weight of what they’re saying then sure…but I learned the hard way about using command form—as in it costing me a relationship. So I don’t use it unless I’m okay with said relationship ending.
 
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Is there a term for hotdogging/buttjob that Japanese escorts will understand? It's a kink that never really became as popular as paizuri, the butt version of it. And the tag for it is 尻コキ. Between the Cheeks JAV series was awesome for me because the butt grinding is exactly what I'm looking for. Even in most American porn there's always a fellatio scene, but there's rarely a buttjob scene in comparison to titfucks, even with the culture that loves big asses and twerking. How exactly should I request a buttjob from her? Or maybe just phrase it like "May I hump your butt?" in a way that she gets the gist of what I want.
 
SeeJay said:
Is there a term for hotdogging/buttjob that Japanese escorts will understand? It's a kink that never really became as popular as paizuri, the butt version of it. And the tag for it is 尻コキ. Between the Cheeks JAV series was awesome for me because the butt grinding is exactly what I'm looking for. Even in most American porn there's always a fellatio scene, but there's rarely a buttjob scene in comparison to titfucks, even with the culture that loves big asses and twerking. How exactly should I request a buttjob from her? Or maybe just phrase it like "May I hump your butt?" in a way that she gets the gist of what I want.
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Most stores that have that play as an option use the term AF. Which you can say as anaru or to a lesser extent i guess anaru fakku(even though this is the literal term it is more obscene). But then those are options mainly dependent on wether the girl is ok with it and i dont think you should go out requesting it unless it is agreed beforehand as a paid option(usually about 10000yen) or the girl exclussively offers it to you.

If the girl is ok with the play and you wanna get on with it i guess you could say "sorosoro anaru wo tameshitai" or "oshiri no ana ni iretai" or some other version you can find.

Edit. While i was adding the last note i realized you might not mean in ass but on ass like a "hotdog". Well youre on your own cause then i dont know. Lol
 
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SeeJay said:
Is there a term for hotdogging/buttjob that Japanese escorts will understand? It's a kink that never really became as popular as paizuri, the butt version of it. And the tag for it is 尻コキ. Between the Cheeks JAV series was awesome for me because the butt grinding is exactly what I'm looking for. Even in most American porn there's always a fellatio scene, but there's rarely a buttjob scene in comparison to titfucks, even with the culture that loves big asses and twerking. How exactly should I request a buttjob from her? Or maybe just phrase it like "May I hump your butt?" in a way that she gets the gist of what I want.
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you can ask before the service begins. if all words failed, image and video to do the explanation.
 
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SeeJay said:
the tag for it is 尻コキ.
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You just answered your own question - that’s the term. Shirikoki.

resiman said:
Most sites that have that play as an option use the term AF. Which you can say as anaru or to a lesser extent i guess anaru fakku
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Not - at all - the same thing. AF is anal fuck, and either means anal sex or occasionally is code for which girls will offer FS.

What OP was asking for is similar to sumata but done with the ass cheeks instead. Not penetrative anal sex.
 
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Sudsy said:
You just answered your own question - that’s the term. Shirikoki.
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Ah, so providers would know that's specifically a buttjob right? Thanks, I'm gonna use that. Some Japanese words can be vague and encompass things, so I had to ask.
 
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Not sure if this is the right place to ask, but I just found SL in Yoshiwara which almost every girl's photos has this sign. Anyone know what this means?
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resiman said:
Well i did get around a whole month mostly by myself last time and im doing the same this time, and the base might be anime but the same is true for my english which is my 2nd language being cuban and i studied and work in the us in english mostly. And also studied the japanese language even if 2 semesters is not that much.
And the time in japan is no measure by itself. Ive seen youtubers that have lived 10+ years there and honestly suck at japanese imo.

And for the kure it is just an informal kudasai, as i said in my last post i thought he wanted the phrase to snuggle with a gf not a provider and kudasai seems cold or distant when talking with someone you are dating, i think. And there are way worse words like sore wo shiro(do that) or just plain order like kocchi koi (come here) which do sound more demanding/commanding but could be playful depending on your tone.

Lastly i have no idea about the quote cause i dont smoke as well, but im guessing they are japanese and they use the word kure right, so ill keep my tone and demeanor nice and think about when to say stuff like kure.
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I have been in Japan a long time and have ahem had sex with a fair few Japanese men in my time.

What I have noticed is a tendency to just use the て form and a softer tone.

It could be because I’m not Japanese and it’s more casual / baby talk … but it’s still not too commanding and the ください is implied so I don’t imagine it’s that different when they are with Japanese women.

If it’s more asking for me to do something I think I have generally heard “てくれる？” or if asking for permission to do something “てもいい？” or just dropping the も “ていい?”

I’m not saying that these are definitely the way you should say things (or even grammatically correct) - it’s just what I have heard Japanese guys say during sex.
 
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I'm uncertain if this question has been addressed previously, but is there a distinction between 指名 and 本指名? I've come across reviews where individuals were billed for both, especially when selecting a particular girl, and that seems illogical to me.
 
mrrobot1994 said:
I'm uncertain if this question has been addressed previously, but is there a distinction between 指名 and 本指名? I've come across reviews where individuals were billed for both, especially when selecting a particular girl, and that seems illogical to me.
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The basic answer is:

指名 = You nominate at the shop or web, like a first time.
本指名 = You are a repeating client, have seen the same girl before.
 
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mrrobot1994 said:
is there a distinction between 指名 and 本指名?
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指名 = you choose the girl
本指名 = you have repeatedly chosen the same girl - some shops this is from the second booking onwards, in others it can be from the third or fourth.
mrrobot1994 said:
I've come across reviews where individuals were billed for both, especially when selecting a particular girl, and that seems illogical to me.
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Some shops separate the two charges (shimei with a honshimei surcharge) and typically the two charges are about the same.

In others honshimei includes the shimei charge, and is typically double the shimei charge.
 
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Sudsy said:
指名 = you choose the girl
本指名 = you have repeatedly chosen the same girl - some shops this is from the second booking onwards, in others it can be from the third or fourth.

Some shops separate the two charges (shimei with a honshimei surcharge) and typically the two charges are about the same.

In others honshimei includes the shimei charge, and is typically double the shimei charge.
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Forgive me if I am wrong, but most decent DH and soaps give the girls the shimei money, right?

I heard it’s supposed to be some incentive for them getting repeaters….? Anyway, the upcharge—however ridiculous—I believe is just a way to encourage/discourage certain choices by players.
 
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requiemmorrow said:
Forgive me if I am wrong, but most decent DH and soaps give the girls the shimei money, right?

I heard it’s supposed to be some incentive for them getting repeaters….? Anyway, the upcharge—however ridiculous—I believe is just a way to encourage/discourage certain choices by players.
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Always hard to tell, but I really hope the girls get the full honshimei charge. It's all their doing to make you repeat....
 
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requiemmorrow said:
Forgive me if I am wrong, but most decent DH and soaps give the girls the shimei money, right?
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Yes, and any option fees as well. Same holds true for any decent adult services business.
 
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If I want to get my golf pencil a hole in one whilst we’re lying on our sides I just go “スプーン！” and she immediately gives me the “I know you’re paying me to pretend to enjoy this but seriously wtf?”
And then she hands me some 割り箸 from the conbini bag holding our strong zeros and cheese puffs and says “sorry no spoons but use this?” as she goes back to playing with her phone.
 
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Sudsy said:
指名 = you choose the girl
本指名 = you have repeatedly chosen the same girl - some shops this is from the second booking onwards, in others it can be from the third or fourth.
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So basically it's a higher fee for repeat visits? Is it a bit strange that you are punishing repeat customers?
 
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Cinnabums said:
Rather, a higher fee for a guaranteed win since new girls are a gamble.
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Yes I get so but unless you're going so often they recognize you, why would someone volunteer to pay extra for hon versus doing the net shimei
 
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