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Eliott Rodger. For those who don't remember or didn't hear, he was a rich kid in the US who thought he deserved sex from beautiful women just for being born, wearing nice clothes, having a nice car, and being traditionally attractive. In other words, everything society says "gets chicks". He didn't get laid, snapped, and went into a sorority, and killed a bunch of people.
Interestingly, he was a very active member of a forum called "PUAhate" ( http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/may/30/elliot-rodger-puahate-forever-alone-reddit-forums) , which is a platform for everyone who wants to talk about how PUA is a scam, all instructors are snake oil salesmen, that only looks, status, race, and money matter, and that there is no such thing as "learnable game". Actually, some people responding to these PUA threads on this site seem like they might be at home on PUAhate. If you are still interested in such a thing, you can check out a similar forum at http://sluthate.com/
If you can spend 20 minutes on that site without losing faith in humanity and having your eyes bleed, I'll personally buy you a beer... If you think PUAs are bad, these guys are 100x worse. Guys in these communities often identify as "incels" which means involuntary celibate, or basically "girls won't sleep with me and its THEIR fault"...
I had read about Eliott Rodger and mentioned him here, but didn't realize how far gone he was. Many guys are heavily under the false assumption that women will reward them with sex for "good behavior" or based on how "cute" they are without the man being proactive in any way. My interpretation of this misguided behavior and thinking, is socially effeminized males assuming female roles or behavior will work for them too. They mistakenly buy into theories that the sexes are the same, as if there aren't differences, or that men can do whatever women do. This is a lack of understanding of basic biology and masculinity.
It's also a trick of modern feminism, because they know women have certain inherent advantages over men that they can exploit. Access to sex or attaining money or resources by offering sex are some advantages women hold over men, and an always viable "plan B". So even when pretending to fight for equality by getting special legal privileges, they know women will "win" because they always have a "trump card". Sex!
A woman can setup a "honeypot" or "honey-trap", because male testosterone wires men's brains to seek out women and increases urges for sex. This even holds true, if women are artificially and repeatedly given testosterone injections. The higher his testosterone levels, the more likely he will have stronger urges and seek out women, and the more his brain has been changed for such behavior.
Many women (especially younger or prettier) can afford to wait for males to solicit and make offers, for sex or starting relationships. She can often increase or filter the number of males approaching her based on making herself more sexually appealing (makeup, hair, fashion, etc...) or based on how physically fit or curvy she is.
This strategy, however, doesn't work so well for men. A more masculine, muscular, or bigger male tends to intimidate females. They tend to fear him, more or as much as they are sexually attracted to him. A more effeminate, cute, weak, or smaller male tends to equally repel women or be seen as undesirable because of his lower status among other males, not physically fit, inability to protect her, or failure to satisfy any masochistic/submissive traits the woman might have. This is easily seen with primates and many mammals. We are dealing with millions of years of biological programming.
Consequently, there are a lot of men who are extremely sexually frustrated or unhappy, because they are not getting their needs met. And the more they attempt to use what are considered socially acceptable or effeminate methods, including groveling or even trying to be submissive to women, the more it often fails. Women are usually not reciprocating the favors or rewarding it with sex. So some men can take it as rejection of him as a person or his manhood. There are different coping mechanism: rage, violence, rape, buying women, withdrawing from talking to women (like a hermit), etc... None of these are usually socially acceptable nor do they alleviate the pain of rejection.
Men often don't have as many options to get what they want or what will satisfy their needs as women do, and some men like Eliott Rodger turn their frustration and rejection into violence. Young men like Eliott, never learned alternative paths or let their warped pride and views on the social sexual dynamic between men and women blind them to viable alternatives.