MikeH
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Pretty sure he’s talking about me.
I know he is not talking about me as he said "appear to be doing something useful".
Pretty sure he’s talking about me.
Jacking off is product… oh wait. I see.I know he is not talking about me as he said "appear to be doing something useful".
Surely people have days off from work.
If you're genuinely asking:Students, freelance creatives, predator photographers, English teachers on day off....
I'm more curious on, WHY. Whyyyy, spend hours cold-approaching 40 girls, just to get ~5 Lines, to get 1 who replies, with slim chance for a date that's unlikely to end on a lay... why do they think that's good math.
Yeah there are plenty of things like that.It's one of those things that you would be amazed how much it actually works for some people.
To be fair, most people will decide to give someone a go or not based on if that’s their type, not on the incredible original opening line.Oh thanks for actually replying, but sorry mate, that's not really new or unknown info, and I was mostly dissing :d
I'm not surprised by their free time, but I'll be surprised if I ever get a good explanation for... their poor math, for using the world's most robotic cold approaches (really, a recruiter mail is more creative), for the wanna-stand-out-so-bad fashion (obligatory white pants, long Zara coat...), and for over the years turning most of Shibuya night venues into sausage fests. Or did they expect most girls would keep enjoying going to places they'd hear "oneesan" for the billionth time.
I'm more curious on, WHY. Whyyyy, spend hours cold-approaching 40 girls, just to get ~5 Lines, to get 1 who replies, with slim chance for a date that's unlikely to end on a lay... why do they think that's good math.
Hot girls on apps get 100% of attention and overwhelmed by 100 likes a day. Odds of getting a date w a girl on apps is very low -- too much competition.
On the street girls get hit on less - a hot girl maybe a few times a day MAX - it may take 40 tries but you can score a hot one.
That's my experience and honestly if you pick carefully it's prob more like 8-10 pickup attempts to score one keeper.
Impressive, but let me still challenge the math even for you and those who get a hottie in -10 approaches; What would you define a keeper?
App game course looses by far from day game... so how about daygame vs basic social interaction. One is standing an hour (less or more depends I guess) on a street with the sole goal to cold approach a girl. The other is attending some place/event (exhibit, bar crawl...) just because you enjoy it and not because you plan to nampa, and there you can find a girl you like and can rapport easily since you are likely to have same hobbies.
Keeper is attractive and nice?
Agree if you can find parties and events that is also great (and I don't mean disco clubs). I'd say events are a great way to meet a nice girl as well. Right now my social network is dead so finding events has been hard!
Hey, not like it's an irreversible condition in most cases. Getting fit is hard work, but it really pays off.I haven't tried dating in Japan yet but I'd guess being fat is an even bigger handicap there.
I’m working on it! Last year I went from wishing I could lose weight to wishing I could lose weight -faster-. I lost a ton but there’s still a lot of damage to revert in 2024.Hey, not like it's an irreversible condition in most cases. Getting fit is hard work, but it really pays off.
Good stuff, and remember, slow and steady is the way to go for a sustainable and long lasting change!I’m working on it! Last year I went from wishing I could lose weight to wishing I could lose weight -faster-. I lost a ton but there’s still a lot of damage to revert in 2024.
I became a fat fuck a few years ago (was always chubby but peaked after the pandemic) and have gotten in pretty good shape/get asked for weight loss advice often now so it's definitely doable with persistence and small lifestyle adjustments so rooting for you!Interesting thread. As a fat ass I don't think any app would give me anything other than making me feel like a piece of shit, or getting screenshotted to be made fun of on twitter. I haven't tried dating in Japan yet but I'd guess being fat is an even bigger handicap there.
For less photogenic people like me touching grass and going to real life spaces, where people actually want to get approached and socialize, is much much better. Even if I don't get any (the usual outcome, ha) I still get to have fun with failed flirts and just talking to cool people in general, and that's almost a given unless you're very socially inept. Hell, even in my virgin-est I got a friend and a date out of two Kansai Gaidai chicks at university just by being at places and being an easy guy to talk to. I didn't get laid because I was a dumbass, but I could have. Probably? It was still more fun than sitting at my dorm jerking it to some random japanese AV star to relieve the frustration, which I also did. 🤣
My point is you get much more chances in real life just by virtue of being there physically instead of getting a millisecond of attention from girls who are probably overwhelmed by gigachad and bot matches at that exact moment. And being anywhere other than inside a shitbox apartment is good for you sometimes.
Interesting thread. As a fat ass I don't think any app would give me anything other than making me feel like a piece of shit, or getting screenshotted to be made fun of on twitter. I haven't tried dating in Japan yet but I'd guess being fat is an even bigger handicap there.
For less photogenic people like me touching grass and going to real life spaces, where people actually want to get approached and socialize, is much much better. Even if I don't get any (the usual outcome, ha) I still get to have fun with failed flirts and just talking to cool people in general, and that's almost a given unless you're very socially inept. Hell, even in my virgin-est I got a friend and a date out of two Kansai Gaidai chicks at university just by being at places and being an easy guy to talk to. I didn't get laid because I was a dumbass, but I could have. Probably? It was still more fun than sitting at my dorm jerking it to some random japanese AV star to relieve the frustration, which I also did. 🤣
My point is you get much more chances in real life just by virtue of being there physically instead of getting a millisecond of attention from girls who are probably overwhelmed by gigachad and bot matches at that exact moment. And being anywhere other than inside a shitbox apartment is good for you sometimes.
I don't really do the online dating thing anytime recently, but from what I have read is girls say they don't want that stuff, but reality is matches tend to go up when guys add a photo like that (if they are actually fit)upload the douche shirtless mirror pics but I don't