Cutting Edge

[Frenchy]

Damn how come I never heard about that movie? I love them both! Sacha has a convincing french accent and attitude here!

 

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Well I could sue but it would be long and shitty. 90%+ of divorces here are done through mutual consent (and if it doesn't happen they just stay married but separated , sometimes in the same house! Thank God at least I make enough money to avoid this kind of hell)

so you live separately in different houses ?
that what the friend I was talking about did before divorcing. that seems to be the best option if divorce get complicated.

 

[Frenchy]

so you live separately in different houses ?
that what the friend I was talking about did before divorcing. that seems to be the best option if divorce get complicated.

Yes, it is

 

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Oh in Japanese Japan they do too!
(And the wives as well, sometimes - of course responsibilities are never black and white in those cases ... for me it's above all the institution itself that sucks and badly needs to be replaced. We have "concubinage" in France ... living together for a while and making it official but without the chains of marriage , they should have this here too)

there is no need to make concubinage official in Japan.
you can live in concubinage in Japan, many of my friends do. it's not like the state would give more social care like in France.
but what is needed is for the Japanese culture to evolve about the concept of children born outside marriage as it's still something they view in an unfavorable light.

 

[User#18046]

there is no need to make concubinage official in Japan.
you can live in concubinage in Japan, many of my friends do. it's not like the state would give more social care like in France.
but what is needed is for the Japanese culture to evolve about the concept of children born outside marriage as it's still something they view in an unfavorable light.

Marriage as it's known today only began for the peasantry following the arrival of Adm. Perry, part of a sweeping movement to conform Japan to European norms following the 250 years of Edo Jidai isolation. Before then, the imperial and samurai had Shinto weddings (one wife, many concubines many of whom the wife chose) but the peasants had local types of common law marriage only.

Bored yet? I can go on.

 

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Marriage as it's known today only began for the peasantry following the arrival of Adm. Perry, part of a sweeping movement to conform Japan to European norms following the 250 years of Edo Jidai isolation. Before then, the imperial and samurai had Shinto weddings (one wife, many concubines many of whom the wife chose) but the peasants had local types of common law marriage only.

Bored yet? I can go on.

haha

well at least it's good that Japan's marriage didn't follow the american one in many legal aspects. for example if you buy a house with your own money it's still yours after you divorce, you don't have to share it with a wife who didn't pay for it. am I right ?

 

[Frenchy]

there is no need to make concubinage official in Japan.
you can live in concubinage in Japan, many of my friends do. it's not like the state would give more social care like in France.
but what is needed is for the Japanese culture to evolve about the concept of children born outside marriage as it's still something they view in an unfavorable light.

Yes, agreed

 

[Mischa Maxwell]

Very similar... been in Japan since 1994 with a few breaks. Japanese wife is done having kids so done with me, other than me opening jars and changing lightbulbs for her. I do a lot of very conservative P4P, so I don't home any souvenirs. Mostly happy massages or CBJ. Nothing a local salaryman wouldn't do.

As an escort, I hear exactly the same tale over and over again, especially in Japan.

Yes, absolutely it "takes two to tango". Both partners need to be kind to each other and make time for each other. However, I don't think that many wives (of any race) understand exactly how important sex is.

Sex is like the white cream in the middle of an Oreo cookie. Without it, you just have two dry biscuits rolling around in separate directions.

 

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As an escort, I hear exactly the same tale over and over again, especially in Japan.

Yes, absolutely it "takes two to tango". Both partners need to be kind to each other and make time for each other. However, I don't think that many wives (of any race) understand exactly how important sex is.

Sex is like the white cream in the middle of an Oreo cookie. Without it, you just have two dry biscuits rolling around in separate directions.

sex is the ultimate form of affection, and human need affection.