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- Jul 5, 2015
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I've been wading in the sugar lake since last Oct and have not had a lot of success on SA.
Here's my track record to date.
1. Had arranged to meet up with a young woman twice. First time she cancelled on the day of the meeting, 2nd time she said she'd been out with friends to 5 AM and wanted to change our lunch date to an evening one. So I bailed on her as I can't see her having any respect for time, or me.
Is this common with 20ish SB?
2. Met 3 times. First time was just for dinner and seemed nice. So agreed on terms (per date fee) and met her 2 other times. I enjoyed the 2nd date and was looking forward to the 3rd. But on the third date all she would talk about was how hard up she was and the date was all about money. After that she kept texting me about money and in the end I just gave up and broke it off.
Question here is do SB often trey to renegotiate the deal?
3. Total disaster. Met twice and then she started to scam me. Claimed her husband found out and had divorced her, and he was going to sue me for damages if I didn't pay up within 24 hours.
Scary shit I can tell you.
Also had a couple of first meets that I decided not to pursue.
Trying to figure out if I should be trying for the 30-40 year olds with whom I have more in common or just go young and hot.
I'm looking for someone to have meals with, and also do a bit of traveling with.
Any advice is welcome (esp from the SB community)
Here's my track record to date.
1. Had arranged to meet up with a young woman twice. First time she cancelled on the day of the meeting, 2nd time she said she'd been out with friends to 5 AM and wanted to change our lunch date to an evening one. So I bailed on her as I can't see her having any respect for time, or me.
Is this common with 20ish SB?
2. Met 3 times. First time was just for dinner and seemed nice. So agreed on terms (per date fee) and met her 2 other times. I enjoyed the 2nd date and was looking forward to the 3rd. But on the third date all she would talk about was how hard up she was and the date was all about money. After that she kept texting me about money and in the end I just gave up and broke it off.
Question here is do SB often trey to renegotiate the deal?
3. Total disaster. Met twice and then she started to scam me. Claimed her husband found out and had divorced her, and he was going to sue me for damages if I didn't pay up within 24 hours.
Scary shit I can tell you.
Also had a couple of first meets that I decided not to pursue.
Trying to figure out if I should be trying for the 30-40 year olds with whom I have more in common or just go young and hot.
I'm looking for someone to have meals with, and also do a bit of traveling with.
Any advice is welcome (esp from the SB community)