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Hi everyone!

I just moved to Japan and I've never done things like that before. So I found TAG and could read a little more about this universe.

I am a little insecure about my body since I am chubby and my penis is short. Also, I suffer from a kind of anxiety. This way, my penis get hard easily and sometimes I cum really fast. So I feel a little unconfortable doing these things because I may disappoint the girl.

Anyway, thanks TAG for everything and for this space, where I can talk about this and, to be honest, it's kinda relaxing.

Cheers :)
 
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mrkjp said:
This way, my penis get hard easily
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Everyone hates braggers! :p

and sometimes I cum really fast.
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Well, I think the TAG record is something like six times in an hour so are you up to the challenge? :eek::D

because I may disappoint the girl.
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The only way to really disappoint an escort is to cancel just before the meeting. Believe me they have met all shapes and sizes and will be able to handle anything.

And if it is a non-p4p setting then the love hotel time limits are 3 or 4 hours; you have plenty of times to have a short rest and then have a new take on anything you or she will think of. :p

Welcome to the board and let's be careful out there.
 
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MikeH said:
Everyone hates braggers! :p



Well, I think the TAG record is something like six times in an hour so are you up to the challenge? :eek::D



The only way to really disappoint an escort is to cancel just before the meeting. Believe me they have met all shapes and sizes and will be able to handle anything.

And if it is a non-p4p setting then the love hotel time limits are 3 or 4 hours; you have plenty of times to have a short rest and then have a new take on anything you or she will think of. :p

Welcome to the board and let's be careful out there.
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Well, thanks for your words. They made me realize that I'm not that bad after all.

Sure I'll try to break this record but it won't be easy hahahah

You are very kind, really appreciated your kind words

Cheers!
 
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When meeting clients (especially new), they aren't concerned about being sexually satisfied. Safety and money are more important. And for good escorts, satisfying the client is also a priority - Since this can lead to more money down the line.

Also if it makes you feel any better, you aren't the only chubby guy who has a modest size, gets hard and cums quickly.
 
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Welcome. Try not to stress over issues that aren't really issues with an escort. Just book and enjoy. Had I known about these legal services in Japan when I was in my 30's I would've come to Japan sooner. All I can do now in my 50's is enjoy while I have the funds and my "slave master" still functions, lol.
 
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In the P4P scene in Japan having a normal or smaller cock is better than a large one. You won't get turned down or downgraded to a HJ at first sight and you don't have to work - and worry that it's more than she can handle - to get it all in.

I will never forget how one of the most stunning SWs I've ever seen here came to service me, took one look, then called another girl to come and service me. I'm no porn star, just a bit more than average in the US, but it creates problems here.
 
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jhingy567 said:
When meeting clients (especially new), they aren't concerned about being sexually satisfied. Safety and money are more important. And for good escorts, satisfying the client is also a priority - Since this can lead to more money down the line.

Also if it makes you feel any better, you aren't the only chubby guy who has a modest size, gets hard and cums quickly.
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Wow, nice to read that. Made me feel MUCH more confident now.

And I think that kind of person is not hard to find, after all, huh?

Thank you, jhing567!
 
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Welcome. Try not to stress over issues that aren't really issues with an escort. Just book and enjoy. Had I known about these legal services in Japan when I was in my 30's I would've come to Japan sooner. All I can do now in my 50's is enjoy while I have the funds and my "slave master" still functions, lol.
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I think I will not stress about it anymore. Will just enjoy as much as I can!

And you should do it too! I'm sure some ladies here will enjoy your experienced friend :D

Thanks hawaiianhawk!!
 
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User#8628 said:
Don't worry about it :)
Like Mike said, those girls have seen everything.
Just make sure to go for a session where multiple pops are allowed and you'll be fine :)
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You have no idea how important was your message. Coming from someone like you is definetly something I can't ignore and makes me more and more confident on booking for the fist time!

Thank you so much, Alice!
 
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ShowaJidai said:
In the P4P scene in Japan having a normal or smaller cock is better than a large one. You won't get turned down or downgraded to a HJ at first sight and you don't have to work - and worry that it's more than she can handle - to get it all in.

I will never forget how one of the most stunning SWs I've ever seen here came to service me, took one look, then called another girl to come and service me. I'm no porn star, just a bit more than average in the US, but it creates problems here.
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Really? So I am a lucky guy? Hahahah

This must have been so hard to see and so disappointing... hope you can get the one you want next time ;)

Thanks ShowaJidai!
 
you listen to 1980's song - Frankie Goes to Hollywood

Relax don't do it
When you want to go to it
Relax don't do it
When you want to come
 
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mrkjp said:
Hi everyone!

I just moved to Japan and I've never done things like that before. So I found TAG and could read a little more about this universe.

I am a little insecure about my body since I am chubby and my penis is short. Also, I suffer from a kind of anxiety. This way, my penis get hard easily and sometimes I cum really fast. So I feel a little unconfortable doing these things because I may disappoint the girl.

Anyway, thanks TAG for everything and for this space, where I can talk about this and, to be honest, it's kinda relaxing.

Cheers :)
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Shorty here too, and congratulations for not hiding it (well , in words at least). Sometimes I feel that in a world where everybody bitch and moan about being too this or not enough that and victims of discrimination and abuse for pretty much anything... we are truely the only minority (?) who always get laughed at and must endure their fate silently. Modest Cocks of the World, Unite! :D

You will only disappoint the girl if you don’t show up or forget to pay or have bad hygiene and manners. And I suspect that overall they prefer an easy time with a guy that won’t hurt them nor spend too much time pumping like an oil derrick .
Have fun! :)
 
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mrkjp said:
Hi everyone!

I just moved to Japan and I've never done things like that before. So I found TAG and could read a little more about this universe.

I am a little insecure about my body since I am chubby and my penis is short. Also, I suffer from a kind of anxiety. This way, my penis get hard easily and sometimes I cum really fast. So I feel a little unconfortable doing these things because I may disappoint the girl.

Anyway, thanks TAG for everything and for this space, where I can talk about this and, to be honest, it's kinda relaxing.

Cheers :)
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Welcome!

As you can tell already, TAG is chock full of friendly, non-judgmental (but often judged mental) helpful, misfits, so you'll fit right in.

Not saying you are a misfit-just speaking for myself.
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Trust me, it can be trained, only if you have medical history.
i used to like a girl in school time, i was fat and she was athletic, for her i slim down 25kg, thou we did not make it(or can said dun even start), i got this gift from her(to become a marathoner) and cherish it till now for 30+ years, i get back something at least for my pure innocent heart.
you just need to put in some effort, and train fit, it can be done.

btw, Frankie Goes to Hollywood- relax, listen to the song when i was a teenage in 1980, the time we call music.
only 'wlelcome to the pleasure doom' was allow to radio broadcast, duuno y was banned in my place that time, i dun even noe what the song was about then, haha.
 
ah toh said:
Trust me, it can be trained, only if you have medical history.
i used to like a girl in school time, i was fat and she was athletic, for her i slim down 25kg, thou we did not make it(or can said dun even start), i got this gift from her(to become a marathoner) and cherish it till now for 30+ years, i get back something at least for my pure innocent heart.
you just need to put in some effort, and train fit, it can be done.

btw, Frankie Goes to Hollywood- relax, listen to the song when i was a teenage in 1980, the time we call music.
only 'wlelcome to the pleasure doom' was allow to radio broadcast, duuno y was banned in my place that time, i dun even noe what the song was about then, haha.
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Ha!!!

Admittedly, I am envious of everything about you.

Still, you would not be so confident if you encountered any of that *green stuff*!!!

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*green stuff* is a metaphor for all the maladies we mere mortals constantly suffer.
 
roots reggae said:
Ha!!!

Admittedly, I am envious of everything about you.

Still, you would not be so confident if you encountered any of that *green stuff*!!!

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*green stuff* is a metaphor for all the maladies we mere mortals constantly suffer.
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haha.
my training is not from sex, thou i spend quite a number of times in soaplands, but that doesn't train me anything.
wat i wanted to say, is a lot of times we have to depend on ourself, rather on some medication .
if we want to do something good, put in some effort to phyiscally train up(not sex), then to hope something turn up good in an easy way out.

oh, bw, the first version of relax was damn funny, the fat slob stripped naked and show his cock, haha.
 
Hey man, modest size here too, but with the opposite problem than you: sometimes takes me a while to get hard and to come

I was worried too before going to a soap, but actually it made me feel more confident than before! She was really great at handling it - not pretending it was the best thing in the world, not looking disappointed, just being... "nice" with it, I don't know how to explain. Normally sex has so many feelings involved, worries on both sides, insecurities on both sides, but in a soapland sex is so normal and nice and relaxing... I don't know, makes me more comfortable with my own body, and actually makes my regular sex life better :)
 
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Welcome and don't worry, even the most perfect looking person have insecurities.
 
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PureAngel said:
*Especially* the most perfect looking person
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Speak for yourself: my Beautiful One is perfect in every way and the only securities I hold are stocks and options.
 
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