So sometimes I frequent girl's bars in the Ueno area when I holiday in Japan. This time, a girl from one of the bars asked me out for a meal. This... struck me as very odd because I've only "drank" with her twice, and both times were a single 'session' with only a handful of drinks. I'm a very average looking guy, so I'd almost never get asked out to a meal under regular circumstances, but from a girl working at a girl's bar, that does strike me as a bit... odd. Red flag? Orange flag? Definitely a "huhhhh?!?" flag.
I haven't answered her yet, since it's over LINE, I would love to hear anyone's input over this sort of thing.
I haven't answered her yet, since it's over LINE, I would love to hear anyone's input over this sort of thing.