How long does it take to cum, when you masterbate?

[Yuriko]

I noticed duration differs alot, by each guy, but just for my studies, I'd like to know how long you guyz take to get you cum, whilst you have to do it on your own?

I meet guys that normally takes 20-40 mins to cum by my hj and bj. About 15 mins are most welcomed but just wondered, timewise how you guys manage it.

Also, when you do it yourself, do you need porn video, or pussy pics for side dishes that you imagine you are enjoying it? Does it matters timewise, when not playing with pussy, makes it longer time, harder to cum?

Would be interested to hear various comments.
Thanks in advance.

 

[TokyoML]

5 minutes top if I masturbate myself. No porn needed but wouldn't mind looking at porn when masturbating.

Longer if I'm getting a hj from somebody else.

 

[MikeH]

I once read a study which claimed guys normally get off in just 2-3 minutes when by themselves.

Also many massage girls have told me they could easily finish almost anyone in five minutes or less. Though I expect if they'd do that there would not be too many repeat customers.

 

[Frenchy]

You are so romantic , Yuriko-san

Ok , my 2cts answer: usually less than with a lady (when not drunk !) . About 5-10mn.
Sometimes watching YouPorn, sometimes thinking about a lady I was very happy to know...

 

[Yuriko]

5 minutes top if I masturbate myself. No porn needed but wouldn't mind looking at porn when masturbating.

Longer if I'm getting a hj from somebody else.

Wow, so practical! But,.I guess when you are with a girl for sex or for bj, you take control to enjoy fully? Is that different? That's a mind blowing answer. Thanks.

 

[Yuriko]

I once read a study which claimed guys normally get off in just 2-3 minutes when by themselves.

Also many massage girls have told me they could easily finish almost anyone in five minutes or less. Though I expect if they'd do that there would not be too many repeat customers.

That's really surpring. Well, massage girls, I heard they use oil, so that guys can cum easily(heard from my client)? Yeah, if they finish that short, they would think the service was too expensive and would not want to waste money for next time for sure. Well, we do can control timing to extend the play time before pop off. But, most of my clients make me work 20-40 mins for a pop! 40 mins is pretty much full duty for me after a long day,,,but those guyz book 2 hours and get round 2...and second one is gladly much shroter. But what I can say is, they mostly say they had quite an intense orgasm, as the result.

 

[Triforce]

A good sloppy blowjob and I can come quickly but I try to hold on for long enough to enjoy.

If giving myself a handjob with some nice lube and porn or just wank bank memory cumming within 5 minutes is easy for me.

 

[Yuriko]

You are so romantic , Yuriko-san

Ok , my 2cts answer: usually less than with a lady (when not drunk !) . About 5-10mn.
Sometimes watching YouPorn, sometimes thinking about a lady I was very happy to know...

Am I? (๑╹ω╹๑ ) Merci.
Right, so that means, you guys take good control to extend the play time, when with a lady, and when not be as quick as possible.
Imagination of good memory with a girl, sounds like makes it more fun and creative! Thanks for sharing.

 

[Frenchy]

That's really surpring. Well, massage girls, I heard they use oil, so that guys can cum easily(heard from my client)? Yeah, if they finish that short, they would think the service was too expensive and would not want to waste money for next time for sure. Well, we do can control timing to extend the play time before pop off. But, most of my clients make me work 20-40 mins for a pop! 40 mins is pretty much full duty for me after a long day,,,but those guyz book 2 hours and get round 2...and second one is gladly much shroter. But what I can say is, they mostly say they had quite an intense orgasm, as the result.

I may be wrong cause I'm not ... typical. But guys don't necessarily want it to last so long. It's just that when we're young we usually come too soon and when older , too late (when with a lady)!
And usually we prefer to pop twice with shorter action each time , than once taking a long time.

If you want to make it less long but more pleasurable for the guy , try gently squeezing his balls or even better put a condom on your finger and stick it in his ass reaching for the male G spot (close to the prostate).

 

[Yuriko]

I may be wrong cause I'm not ... typical. But guys don't necessarily want it to last so long. It's just that when we're young we usually come too soon and when older , too late (when with a lady)!
And usually we prefer to pop twice with shorter action each time , than once taking a long time.

If you want to make it less long but more pleasurable for the guy , try gently squeezing his balls or even better put a condom on your finger and stick it in his ass reaching for the male G spot (close to the prostate).

Pop twice with shorter action is really most welcome!!! So, that's why I even manage within an hour for 2.

hmmm.. I'm not brave enough to use a cdm to stick my finger into Mr.browntown to reach guyz G, but I do play a lil around there, and lick balls fondly, which gives good reaction result. But rarely 3 % didn't work with some guys by some reasons. It's sad when that happens, but shoganai ne...

 

[Yuriko]

A good sloppy blowjob and I can come quickly but I try to hold on for long enough to enjoy.

If giving myself a handjob with some nice lube and porn or just wank bank memory cumming within 5 minutes is easy for me.

Some guyz seem to like that, but I noticed my style is not so sloppy. But when I try deep throat, it gets sloppy, though.

So, when you want practical, quicky cum, you know how. That's interesting! (*´∀`)♪

 

[e-smile]

I noticed duration differs alot, by each guy, but just for my studies, I'd like to know how long you guyz take to get you cum, whilst you have to do it on your own?

I meet guys that normally takes 20-40 mins to cum by my hj and bj. About 15 mins are most welcomed but just wondered, timewise how you guys manage it.

Also, when you do it yourself, do you need porn video, or pussy pics for side dishes that you imagine you are enjoying it? Does it matters timewise, when not playing with pussy, makes it longer time, harder to cum?

Would be interested to hear various comments.
Thanks in advance.

depends on many factors.
how long since last time
how exited I am when I start
how focused I am
what I'm using for it (soap, tissue, oil ...)
how I'm using my hand (rythm, tightness, on which part of my stuff does the movement focus)
if I am watching porn or not (it's not necessary to watch porn, it just make it better) and if I am it will depend on what I watch
if I'm in a hurry or not, I usually take my time but sometimes I focus to cum faster to go to sleep ASAP.

 

[Yuriko]

depends on many factors.
how long since last time
how exited I am when I start
how focused I am
what I'm using for it (soap, tissue, oil ...)
how I'm using my hand (rythm, tightness, on which part of my stuff does the movement focus)
if I am watching porn or not (it's not necessary to watch porn, it just make it better) and if I am it will depend on what I watch
if I'm in a hurry or not, I usually take my time but sometimes I focus to cum faster to go to sleep ASAP.

So, it's great that you can control and depends on the sourse you stimulate with! It might be interesting to take a poll oneday, as for my studies.
Thanks for sharing!!

 

[User#8628]

This is interesting.

If guys cum slowly with a girl, is it because they are holding back or because her technique in not good enough to finish them?
I often feel like especially blowjob its hard for me to actually finish a guy, but some guys say they cant finish from blowjob alone (without adding handjob) at all.

 

[MikeH]

If guys cum slowly with a girl, is it because they are holding back or because her technique in not good enough to finish them?

Those are not mutually exclusive at all. Though for most guys the trip is almost as great as the destination so many would try to delay the arrival.

Then again if the girl doesn't know what she is doing or, more often ime, is disinterested then arriving will be difficult. And of course if the girl then tries to hurry things up it usually makes everything even worse.

 

[User#8628]

Those are not mutually exclusive at all. Though for most guys the trip is almost as great as the destination so many would try to delay the arrival.

Then again if the girl doesn't know what she is doing or, more often ime, is disinterested then arriving will be difficult. And of course if the girl then tries to hurry things up it usually makes everything even worse.

True, not exclusive.
I also feel like its not always about being bad or bored, but if a technique feels good but is not consistent enough it can be hard for guys to really go over the edge.

 

[Durg50]

This is interesting.

If guys cum slowly with a girl, is it because they are holding back or because her technique in not good enough to finish them?
I often feel like especially blowjob its hard for me to actually finish a guy, but some guys say they cant finish from blowjob alone (without adding handjob) at all.

i never came direct from a blow job in my life until i came to japan. Now i can do pretty much everytime.

I also notice in western porn the male star needs to jack himself off into the girl's mouth for the money shot, whereas JAV it usually happens more as a direct result of the girl.

Either way, blowjobs are fucking great.

 

[Coda87]

I cam masturbate myself to orgasm pretty quickly if I want to, but then the orgasm won't be as strong/pleasurable. I prefer to bring myself to the very close to the edge several times, then it is more intense for the final release. It's easy to do that when it is yourself, because you can feel when you get close and back off. If your partner is doing it, you have to communicate it to them (sometimes its too late) Or I guess if they really know you well and can see the cues that you are about to cum, they can back off without being told. I think I only ever met one woman who could do that.

Sorry I changed the subject a little. I guess my point is cumming to fast seems like a waste, like gulping down glass of fine wine without enjoying it for a while.

 

[Yuriko]

This is interesting.

If guys cum slowly with a girl, is it because they are holding back or because her technique in not good enough to finish them?
I often feel like especially blowjob its hard for me to actually finish a guy, but some guys say they cant finish from blowjob alone (without adding handjob) at all.

Yes, it's interesting (๑╹ω╹๑ )
I think mostly guyz are holding back, don't wanna finish up quicky imo. Chemistry, or nervousness...also matters maybe?

I also hear some guyz can't finish bj only, but I make them cum well. 97% overall.
I guess for those they can't, they need more of stimulating contact. Playing with pussy or inter course, or too much stressed also cause can't release...

 

[Yuriko]

i never came direct from a blow job in my life until i came to japan. Now i can do pretty much everytime.

I also notice in western porn the male star needs to jack himself off into the girl's mouth for the money shot, whereas JAV it usually happens more as a direct result of the girl.

Either way, blowjobs are fucking great.

I bet!!!٩( ᐛ )و

 

[Yuriko]

I cam masturbate myself to orgasm pretty quickly if I want to, but then the orgasm won't be as strong/pleasurable. I prefer to bring myself to the very close to the edge several times, then it is more intense for the final release. It's easy to do that when it is yourself, because you can feel when you get close and back off. If your partner is doing it, you have to communicate it to them (sometimes its too late) Or I guess if they really know you well and can see the cues that you are about to cum, they can back off without being told. I think I only ever met one woman who could do that.

Sorry I changed the subject a little. I guess my point is cumming to fast seems like a waste, like gulping down glass of fine wine without enjoying it for a while.

I hear that often from my clients, and usually my clients give me when to slow down. But I can tell, when the dick gets fat up and smells sperm getting ready to shot out, then I know when guyz need to CIM and not to spill it. I often hear guyz say, they got the most intense orgasm lately. It makes me feel great accomplishment, when my clients say that. It's my trophy♪

Anyway, glass of fine wine without enjoying it, explains really well. Maybe a lady, who sucks also should feel like, when sucking cock, enjoying the taste of good wine!!! hehe. (๑╹ω╹๑ )

 

[Yuriko]

Those are not mutually exclusive at all. Though for most guys the trip is almost as great as the destination so many would try to delay the arrival.

Then again if the girl doesn't know what she is doing or, more often ime, is disinterested then arriving will be difficult. And of course if the girl then tries to hurry things up it usually makes everything even worse.

Another interesting explanation. ٩( ᐛ )و

 

[User#8628]

i never came direct from a blow job in my life until i came to japan. Now i can do pretty much everytime.

I also notice in western porn the male star needs to jack himself off into the girl's mouth for the money shot, whereas JAV it usually happens more as a direct result of the girl.

Either way, blowjobs are fucking great.

Are you saying that Japanese girls are better at bj than western girls? Lol
Just curious.

 

[e-smile]

True, not exclusive.
I also feel like its not always about being bad or bored, but if a technique feels good but is not consistent enough it can be hard for guys to really go over the edge.

there is what mike said but there is also the fact that being with a girl we don't focus the same way because we'll be concerned about her and not only ourselves as we do when we masturbate.

Are you saying that Japanese girls are better at bj than western girls? Lol
Just curious.

my experience is the opposite, the best BJ I had weren't from Japanese girls.

 

[Durg50]

Are you saying that Japanese girls are better at bj than western girls? Lol
Just curious.

Yes. But im absolutely open to you proving me wrong