How long does it take to cum, when you masterbate?

[RandomTokyoGuy]

It's usually not easy for me to come from a bj. The main problem is the girl changing rhythm or whatever at the wrong moment. For pressure, there is too much and too little. Teeth are definitely a killer.

It's also somewhat discouraging for me, if I know that the first thing the girl will do after I'm cumming will be to run to the bathroom to get rid of it. It's not that I'm that much into swallowing, but it just makes it so clearly, that everything is a job only.

 

[Yuriko]

by myself usually about 5 mins, takes a bit longer when I am putting on a show.

Thanks for sharing. It's really interesting to learn men's mechanism! (๑>◡<๑)

 

[Yuriko]

protip: touch less frequently with a lot less pressure. Another issue may be pulling the penis down at a right angle to the man's body, try to keep it around 45 degrees or so. What separates the skilled from the everyday professional handjob is tempo and pressure: a light touch and constant tempo and I'm done in less than 10.

Lower-body exercise for the man (elliptical bike for example) a few hours before play time increases both blood flow and sensitivity.

Thanks for sharing the tips! I'll use this strategy form, to apply when at my next session! （╹◡╹）WWell noted! right tempo and pressure really matters. I feel like, "is it okay to pull that hard? for somethimes, when men shows he he wants hj done? I'm better bj than hj, I think.
Many thanks for the tips! （╹◡╹）

 

[Yuriko]

It's usually not easy for me to come from a bj. The main problem is the girl changing rhythm or whatever at the wrong moment. For pressure, there is too much and too little. Teeth are definitely a killer.

It's also somewhat discouraging for me, if I know that the first thing the girl will do after I'm cumming will be to run to the bathroom to get rid of it. It's not that I'm that much into swallowing, but it just makes it so clearly, that everything is a job only.

Right. Maybe it's similar like, when you get shampoo done at the hair salon, and you get uncomfortable of how she or he handles it... when it's done at the right timing, it works well, but when not...
hmmm...

It's shoganai tbh, to go and spit at the sink, as you don't want to keep the cum in your mouth...tissue can't take some of full cummers...and no intension to swollow, which I used to, when I did it to my partner in the past, but...I don't know much about a client, and it's a personal thing...what can you do...sorry...

 

[DocMcStuffins]

what can you do...sorry...

I guess he can try snowballing, to create intimacy and up the excitement level.

 

[User#8628]

It's usually not easy for me to come from a bj. The main problem is the girl changing rhythm or whatever at the wrong moment. For pressure, there is too much and too little. Teeth are definitely a killer.

This is what i meant, its actually hard to make a guy cum with a BJ. Its a good way to get a guy hard as foreplay, and it can work in combination with HJ or if the guy is very excited and takes the lead a bit, but i've tried for a long time to finish guys with only BJ and have mostly been unsuccesful without using a "helping hand".

 

[e-smile]

This is what i meant, its actually hard to make a guy cum with a BJ. Its a good way to get a guy hard as foreplay, and it can work in combination with HJ or if the guy is very excited and takes the lead a bit, but i've tried for a long time to finish guys with only BJ and have mostly been unsuccesful without using a "helping hand".

This a fantasy for me, I wish I could get one of those one day. I don't want it to sound like "why am I so lucky" false complain but I've always been hard too soon for that to happen.

 

[wraithfive]

This is what i meant, its actually hard to make a guy cum with a BJ. Its a good way to get a guy hard as foreplay, and it can work in combination with HJ or if the guy is very excited and takes the lead a bit, but i've tried for a long time to finish guys with only BJ and have mostly been unsuccesful without using a "helping hand".

I honestly can't remember a single time in my life that I've ever ejaculate from a BJ. Not that they aren't great, and I've had a few women with whom it gets very intense and honestly I get the same sort of endorphin release, and I get just as sensitive and need the same break. As far as I'm concerned it's very much an orgasm, it's just well, fluid free lol. As I recall, you are definitely part of this small group.

Most women don't really believe me when I try to explain this though. They just can't believe a guy can orgasm without ejaculation. Which, for all I know I might be the only one. Mostly they seem to come away with the impression that I'm just being nice about a bad BJ.

 

[wraithfive]

Oh, I also forgot to mention in my previous post that like others have stated, alone, I can usually pop in just a few minutes. But it's not got the same satisfaction as with a woman and it's nowhere near as intense. Good things take time so I think that's why it can sometimes take much longer when with a woman. Your building up to that intensity and release that you don't get with masturbation. I'd also suspect biology/psychology comes into play a little. I'm not sure which one, but what I'm getting at is that most men understand that it takes more effort for a woman to get off and that prolonging the experience is beneficial to that goal.

 

[e-smile]

Most women don't really believe me when I try to explain this though. They just can't believe a guy can orgasm without ejaculation.

True. And even some guys don't know that ejaculation and orgasm are two different things although it most often come at the same time.

 

[MikeH]

True. And even some guys don't know that ejaculation and orgasm are two different things although it most often come at the same time.

In this time and age it's strange to think that anyone with an internet browser wouldn't know that a guy can have ejaculation without orgasm and orgasm without ejaculation. There is definitely a need for a driving license for sex

 

[wraithfive]

In this time and age it's strange to think that anyone with an internet browser wouldn't know that a guy can have ejaculation without orgasm and orgasm without ejaculation. There is definitely a need for a driving license for sex

Government bureaucrats have too much involvement in who, what, when, where and why I can have sex already! Don't encourage them!

 

[MikeH]

Government bureaucrats have too much involvement in who, what, when, where and why I can have sex already! Don't encourage them!

I haven't noticed this, except of course when I am having sex with a government bureaucrat. Then she definitely can tell me what to do; I take orders much easier when naked than in clothes.

 

[Supafake]

This is what i meant, its actually hard to make a guy cum with a BJ. Its a good way to get a guy hard as foreplay, and it can work in combination with HJ or if the guy is very excited and takes the lead a bit, but i've tried for a long time to finish guys with only BJ and have mostly been unsuccesful without using a "helping hand".

well I must be one of the lucky ones, I can cum from a BJ with, or with out hand. I usually try and hold out because they feel so good, there are few things that equal cumming deep into her mouth.

 

[meiji]

I haven't noticed this, except of course when I am having sex with a government bureaucrat. Then she definitely can tell me what to do; I take orders much easier when naked than in clothes.

Hopefully she doesn't make you "fill her out in triplicate". That would wear me out.

 

[MacMackerson]

Masturbate = 2 mins if I am in a hurry, haven't already that day and am somewhat horny

The below is for professionals. I normally do 90 mins and aim to pop twice

BJ = 5 mins would be the fastest and maybe 30 would be slowest ( steady with a relatively quick pace and no long breaks key for me popping)

FS = less than a minute fastest ( this girl makes me cum 4 times in two hours dependably) and maybe 40 minutes slowest. First pop should be about 10 mins if the chemistry is good. Basically 0% failure rate unless the girl is super tight or looks miserable.

About 5% of the time I am just off and even if everything else is perfect it just takes forever

 

[monalisaoverdrive]

Depends a lot. If I'm watching some really hot AV, then pretty fast, like within 5-7 minutes.
From a blowjob usually like 12-15 minutes but it totally depends. If the girl opens her mouth and keeps showing me her tongue or moaning then probably faster.

 

[hawaiianhawk]

Hi Yuriko - For myself, I can come from jacking off anytime, sometimes in a minute, sometimes over an hour with videos or without. It's just what I'm in the mood for. With hj, bj or both, I usually last a long, long time because of the girls technique and the fact that I rather get the woman off multiple times than getting off myself. Lots of times for me the rapid sucking action or fast handjob like you're trying to pull my dick off just doesn't work. Don't get me wrong, it feels great just like a womans pussy, but even then I last a long time cause I want them to have multiple orgasms before I do.

First time trip to Japan recently and first time to hire an escort anywhere. She was working over 1.5 hours both hj and bj before I decided to pop. She was very good, but I wanted her to get off many times before me. After 1.5 hrs I could sense she was trying her hardest and I was overworking her, so I decided to cum.

 

[Yuriko]

I guess he can try snowballing, to create intimacy and up the excitement level.

Actually, it was fun, when I openned my mouth after cum, and cyloped it on a client's cock. He seemed to like that. Also, some guys send me inquiry saying that, "can you kiss me with CIM?"
I just don't get this kinda wild fantasy, but something I should think of what to do with cum liquid and finish the play. I'm too bj kink..maybe..haha.

 

[Yuriko]

This is what i meant, its actually hard to make a guy cum with a BJ. Its a good way to get a guy hard as foreplay, and it can work in combination with HJ or if the guy is very excited and takes the lead a bit, but i've tried for a long time to finish guys with only BJ and have mostly been unsuccesful without using a "helping hand".

It is hard to make guys cum by bj. Some guys requires me to not use hands. Some good training from a guy may do. I did get a fundamental training in my 20's, that worked for many guys and spoiled them. And now, the more I do,the more I get refined. My servicis is bbbj + CIM. Not sex. So,
that's my service style. I succeed 95% out of 100%. Unsucceed reasons are mostly men's condition. They need to play with pussy but I don't let them. or guys need intercourse to cum. or their body nervoursness reaction.
Would be fun, if you can get to master bbbj+CIM Alice, as that's also some guys fantasy.(*^_^*)

 

[Yuriko]

I honestly can't remember a single time in my life that I've ever ejaculate from a BJ. Not that they aren't great, and I've had a few women with whom it gets very intense and honestly I get the same sort of endorphin release, and I get just as sensitive and need the same break. As far as I'm concerned it's very much an orgasm, it's just well, fluid free lol. As I recall, you are definitely part of this small group.

Most women don't really believe me when I try to explain this though. They just can't believe a guy can orgasm without ejaculation. Which, for all I know I might be the only one. Mostly they seem to come away with the impression that I'm just being nice about a bad BJ.

I truely understand, guys can get "intense orgasm" by good bj. I make my clients go crazy. That's my escourt job is about! haha. Some said, "I didn't have this much of orgasm, for a long time〜〜〜". So, I do understand what you're trying to explain!

I realised, guys love that noisy, dirty sound when it makes, getting deep down there, and pleasures the guy's turn on spot. I bang many times towards client's body, and that seemed like an extreme.
That's why, I set my title is as you may understand, what I meant. (^_−)−☆

 

[naru]

For me it's a bit strange.

If I masturbate, get HJ, very tight BJ, or missionary I am very quick... <1 min to 3min... (so sad)
If cowgirl, I am 5min to 15min
If i do doggy, I can do 5min to 2 hours.

Once in a blue moon, it's difficult for me to cum.

Would love some tips! (starting to do kegel)

 

[User#8628]

For me it's a bit strange.

If I masturbate, get HJ, very tight BJ, or missionary I am very quick... <1 min to 3min... (so sad)
If cowgirl, I am 5min to 15min
If i do doggy, I can do 5min to 2 hours.

Once in a blue moon, it's difficult for me to cum.

Would love some tips! (starting to do kegel)

That is uncommon indeed! Most sex partners i've had came quickest from doggie!
Cowgirl is expected to take longer, especially if the girl decides the rythem.

 

[RandomTokyoGuy]

Actually, it was fun, when I openned my mouth after cum, and cyloped it on a client's cock. He seemed to like that. Also, some guys send me inquiry saying that, "can you kiss me with CIM?"

Sperm kiss, cum swap... whatever you call it. Can't be too uncommon as at least in Europe and number of websites for providers to advertise have that as a standard technic.

 

[wraithfive]

Cowgirl is expected to take longer, especially if the girl decides the rythem.

In general, I agree, cowgirl can take a while, but it's still my favorite position because I enjoy watching my partner get off. In my late mid-late teen years I was with a girl for three years who had the cowgirl position figured out in a way I've never experienced since. She could get us both off in 3 minutes or less every time. I don't know how she did it but it was damned convenient as teenagers seeing as getting more than 5 minutes alone was damned hard.