How long does it take to cum, when you masterbate?

Yuriko said:
I guess, it is guys fantasy, to get bbbj + CIM, then. I believe, it can be an alternative to love making, but still with mouth and hands, provide "closeness" and caring featured.
Once you seek the opportunity, surely you'll get a chance.
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it's not really a fantasy for me to have bbbj+CIM, that's something I had with girls I was in a long term relation ship with and I wouldn't do that with a sex worker or in a one night stand.
in my previous post I wasn't talking about bbbj nor CIM, I was taking about getting hard in a girl's mouth which has never happened because I usually get hard before removing my clothes.
 
User#8628 said:
That is uncommon indeed! Most sex partners i've had came quickest from doggie!
Cowgirl is expected to take longer, especially if the girl decides the rythem.
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I love DS the most but I don't come quickly that way, missionary is way easier and CG is indeed slower especially when the girl decides the rhythm.
 
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e-smile said:
it's not really a fantasy for me to have bbbj+CIM, that's something I had with girls I was in a long term relation ship with and I wouldn't do that with a sex worker or in a one night stand.
in my previous post I wasn't talking about bbbj nor CIM, I was taking about getting hard in a girl's mouth which has never happened because I usually get hard before removing my clothes.
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Okay.
 
RandomTokyoGuy said:
Sperm kiss, cum swap... whatever you call it. Can't be too uncommon as at least in Europe and number of websites for providers to advertise have that as a standard technic.
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Okay.
 
MacMackerson said:
Masturbate = 2 mins if I am in a hurry, haven't already that day and am somewhat horny

The below is for professionals. I normally do 90 mins and aim to pop twice

BJ = 5 mins would be the fastest and maybe 30 would be slowest ( steady with a relatively quick pace and no long breaks key for me popping)

FS = less than a minute fastest ( this girl makes me cum 4 times in two hours dependably) and maybe 40 minutes slowest. First pop should be about 10 mins if the chemistry is good. Basically 0% failure rate unless the girl is super tight or looks miserable.

About 5% of the time I am just off and even if everything else is perfect it just takes forever
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As fast as 2 min. masterbate! Wow, very practical.
And with a girl, you can extend, accordingly. It's very interesting how guys are made. But 10 mins pop, I like that! I don't like too long ones... tbh.
 
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alexleaud said:
Depends a lot. If I'm watching some really hot AV, then pretty fast, like within 5-7 minutes.
From a blowjob usually like 12-15 minutes but it totally depends. If the girl opens her mouth and keeps showing me her tongue or moaning then probably faster.
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hmmm...interesting! (*^_^*)
 
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hawaiianhawk said:
Hi Yuriko - For myself, I can come from jacking off anytime, sometimes in a minute, sometimes over an hour with videos or without. It's just what I'm in the mood for. With hj, bj or both, I usually last a long, long time because of the girls technique and the fact that I rather get the woman off multiple times than getting off myself. Lots of times for me the rapid sucking action or fast handjob like you're trying to pull my dick off just doesn't work. Don't get me wrong, it feels great just like a womans pussy, but even then I last a long time cause I want them to have multiple orgasms before I do.

First time trip to Japan recently and first time to hire an escort anywhere. She was working over 1.5 hours both hj and bj before I decided to pop. She was very good, but I wanted her to get off many times before me. After 1.5 hrs I could sense she was trying her hardest and I was overworking her, so I decided to cum.
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Hi, sorry for noticing yours and others comment a week later...
You got to pay alot to the girl, if you last long long time, by bj! BBBJ actually consumes lots of energy, mouth gets sored, tastes bad inside the mouth, that you might made the lady sick, afterwards. Big applause to that lady, for doing it 1.5 hours straight, and you decided to cum. But probably, she couldn't work for next a couple of days by swollen mouth, get some rashes, etc,sounds a bit violent to be honest. To me, if the time hits 40mins, I'm wanting my client to start count down,.get ready to cum, as my service rate is not FS, and I dedicate seriously, I perform after full time office job, when it's on weekday nights. It's a pretty hard assistance job.
Thank God, this is Tokyo and I don't get tortured by long bbbj. But I find French, Italian and seldom Americans are toughest nations to suck them off.
But I do handle it.

I do understand, it feels great, as great as in a pussy. That's what with my clients seem.

Thanks for sharing your experience here.
 
If I masturbate by hand or grind against my bed it takes between 5 to 10+minutes.

I was given a couple HJ's by my ex-gf but I didn't feel anything. She did it around 10 minutes and I was stiff as a rock, but strangely enough it didn't give me any pleasure or feeling like popping. Maybe I'm too used to my own hand, I have no idea....
I had no problems when we had sex. I could last longer than 30 minutes

But that may change when I get more get more experience with someone one day.
 
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MediPlank said:
If I masturbate by hand or grind against my bed it takes between 5 to 10+minutes.

I was given a couple HJ's by my ex-gf but I didn't feel anything. She did it around 10 minutes and I was stiff as a rock, but strangely enough it didn't give me any pleasure or feeling like popping. Maybe I'm too used to my own hand, I have no idea....
I had no problems when we had sex. I could last longer than 30 minutes

But that may change when I get more get more experience with someone one day.
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Hmmm...thanks for sharing an interesting experience! Maybe some people like it, and some don't. But when it's by my hands and mouth, who knows. (^_−)−☆ That's what guys seek for Yuriko. haha.

I realised, you can pull it pretty hard and bang, bang towards the body, makes guyz go crazy. Well, by mouth, as well. And that's what guyz do to pussy, for sex right? (*^_^*)
 
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User#8628 said:
This is what i meant, its actually hard to make a guy cum with a BJ. Its a good way to get a guy hard as foreplay, and it can work in combination with HJ or if the guy is very excited and takes the lead a bit, but i've tried for a long time to finish guys with only BJ and have mostly been unsuccesful without using a "helping hand". :(
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Have you tried adding some dirty talk in the mix to get more successful ?
 
User#8628 said:
I'm really not a crude person.
Of course i moan in a cute way but dirty talk would come out wrong and unnatural for me.
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I am not a specialist in dirty talk - lol - but a few even soft words well timed can do wonders :) even
without playing the dirty slutty bitch.
You might launch a thread to sample the type of words men like though :D
 
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Yuriko said:
Hmmm...thanks for sharing an interesting experience! Maybe some people like it, and some don't. But when it's by my hands and mouth, who knows. (^_−)−☆ That's what guys seek for Yuriko. haha.

I realised, you can pull it pretty hard and bang, bang towards the body, makes guyz go crazy. Well, by mouth, as well. And that's what guyz do to pussy, for sex right? (*^_^*)
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Hehe right! ^^
Oh I didn't dislike it. It was fun! But it's probably my dick that disagrees. But I think that receiving HJ's by someone needs to happen a little more often, maybe I need to get used to it.
 
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Yuriko said:
I noticed duration differs alot, by each guy, but just for my studies, I'd like to know how long you guyz take to get you cum, whilst you have to do it on your own?

I meet guys that normally takes 20-40 mins to cum by my hj and bj. About 15 mins are most welcomed but just wondered, timewise how you guys manage it.

Also, when you do it yourself, do you need porn video, or pussy pics for side dishes that you imagine you are enjoying it? Does it matters timewise, when not playing with pussy, makes it longer time, harder to cum?

Would be interested to hear various comments.
Thanks in advance.
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WTF, dear Yuriko, but its very intimate what you ask now...

Imagine, i ask you:

i noticed that some females providers came in 10 mn and other need in about 30 mn... And you how much time you take before simulate?
 
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Karbon said:
I am not a specialist in dirty talk - lol - but a few even soft words well timed can do wonders :) even
without playing the dirty slutty bitch.
You might launch a thread to sample the type of words men like though :D
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Something like, "I am made to suck your cock." "My pussy needs your long, hard dick" "Your dick gets really hard, because of this slave".

This is indeed a good one! (^_−)−☆
>
You might launch a thread to sample the type of words men like though
 
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Kulbutor said:
WTF, dear Yuriko, but its very intimate what you ask now...

Imagine, i ask you:

i noticed that some females providers came in 10 mn and other need in about 30 mn... And you how much time you take before simulate?
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MediPlank said:
Hehe right! ^^
Oh I didn't dislike it. It was fun! But it's probably my dick that disagrees. But I think that receiving HJ's by someone needs to happen a little more often, maybe I need to get used to it.
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Good that it was fun, and just your Mr.dick didn't agree.,,something like a cat tail, that sometimes looks incontrolable...just flip flops...(｡･ω･｡)
 
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Kulbutor said:
WTF, dear Yuriko, but its very intimate what you ask now...

Imagine, i ask you:

i noticed that some females providers came in 10 mn and other need in about 30 mn... And you how much time you take before simulate?
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Actually, that might make an interesting thread!
 
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it's still a mystery to me why it can be so quick and pleasurable with lady left hand and sometimes so long (to the point of not even fun anymore) or not happening at all with someone.
maybe i have some deep-seated guilt to cheat on my left hand
 
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BTW all... if you want to last longer, try promescent spray (I think that's how you spell it).

I tried it with full fast masturbation and my duration went from 1 min (can last longer if needed) to 6 min.

Downside is that it was harder to keep erection. Will try with 1 or 2 spray instead of 3.
 
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naruac said:
BTW all... if you want to last longer, try promescent spray (I think that's how you spell it).

I tried it with full fast masturbation and my duration went from 1 min (can last longer if needed) to 6 min.

Downside is that it was harder to keep erection. Will try with 1 or 2 spray instead of 3.
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I dont get it: you can last longer but with a more fragile erection? What's the point of this? :pompous: (Btw i have no clue what most of those emojis mean but i find them cute)
 
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Completely agree with the emoji.

Longer play is funner play. The erection still stays - just have to adjust.

Also there are many men out there who can't last very long.
 
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