Basically, asking for tips and advices. Easier to understand outline:
Yesterday I got 5 contacts in a bar, spending like about an hour per girl - getting along and seeing how far I can go. The hardest thing is when tommorow comes and they aren't replying/replying slow/next week everyone is busy. At the bar I was called kawaii and kakkoii, one time even charai, but I can't pull anyone outside for the happy ending and getting contacts as usual ends in nothing.
I sense that there is a problem in a conversation flow, its not easy to keep things rolling with girls who like Disney only or nothing at all(yeah, there are some who say they don't have any hobbies). Conversation is going like a pattern and I don't know how to keep it fresh, especially in cases where I can't see anything in common between us. I expect somebody posting "just become an interesting person" and he will probably be right, that's a one way to resolve the issue, but it won't really help just hearing this.
Any advices and tricks are welcome: how do you talk with girls you just met? What to talk about if your hobbies are different? Are there any pauses in your conversation, how fast you recover and what themes do you usually use?
I'm sorry for generalizing conversation flow with girls, it's just that I'm too new to all of this and still learning.
Ah, it's so hard to be young and green. Maybe next time I should try going to a club.
Yesterday I got 5 contacts in a bar, spending like about an hour per girl - getting along and seeing how far I can go. The hardest thing is when tommorow comes and they aren't replying/replying slow/next week everyone is busy. At the bar I was called kawaii and kakkoii, one time even charai, but I can't pull anyone outside for the happy ending and getting contacts as usual ends in nothing.
I sense that there is a problem in a conversation flow, its not easy to keep things rolling with girls who like Disney only or nothing at all(yeah, there are some who say they don't have any hobbies). Conversation is going like a pattern and I don't know how to keep it fresh, especially in cases where I can't see anything in common between us. I expect somebody posting "just become an interesting person" and he will probably be right, that's a one way to resolve the issue, but it won't really help just hearing this.
Any advices and tricks are welcome: how do you talk with girls you just met? What to talk about if your hobbies are different? Are there any pauses in your conversation, how fast you recover and what themes do you usually use?
I'm sorry for generalizing conversation flow with girls, it's just that I'm too new to all of this and still learning.
Ah, it's so hard to be young and green. Maybe next time I should try going to a club.