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I'm sorry if i miss tape something or have grammar errors here and there.
I know that it is probably a mistake to ask advice over strangers in the internet, but i would like to know more about my situation seeing from the outside..
Be me, 28yo living togheter by 3 years with a 27 yo jp girl.
She espect to marry in the future (really near one) and to have childs, but she kind of accept that in my country and culture we don't do childs often when we are on our 20s and we don't marry too on most of the cases.
She has a lot of cool features, and i like her body too.
Ofcourse after 3 years sex became stale, and sadly, she is not soo much into making it on a daily basis as i would like (she don't particulary enjoy sex either, a problem she had in every relationship even on her past) that's is a big thing for me..
On the last months i did even seen many things of her character i dislike.. As she became more and more selfish (maybe she was always, but was hiding it?) But overral our life togheter is not a bad one.. But is not even an exciting one..
I could continue to live like that ofcourse.
But i really feel "i'm just settle for it", but on the same time i could and should have a more exciting life.
And i'm not sure if i will never accept the compromise to make a family with a person, that i love yes, but.. That i don't see the person i would like to stay for all the life.
Then after all that, i'm thinking i should just gave up on the relationship.
In the end, i'm wasting her time, if she want to have a family.. And the girl's age is a real deal in japan..
Did you came accross something like that in your life experience? And how did you handle it?
I know that it is probably a mistake to ask advice over strangers in the internet, but i would like to know more about my situation seeing from the outside..
Be me, 28yo living togheter by 3 years with a 27 yo jp girl.
She espect to marry in the future (really near one) and to have childs, but she kind of accept that in my country and culture we don't do childs often when we are on our 20s and we don't marry too on most of the cases.
She has a lot of cool features, and i like her body too.
Ofcourse after 3 years sex became stale, and sadly, she is not soo much into making it on a daily basis as i would like (she don't particulary enjoy sex either, a problem she had in every relationship even on her past) that's is a big thing for me..
On the last months i did even seen many things of her character i dislike.. As she became more and more selfish (maybe she was always, but was hiding it?) But overral our life togheter is not a bad one.. But is not even an exciting one..
I could continue to live like that ofcourse.
But i really feel "i'm just settle for it", but on the same time i could and should have a more exciting life.
And i'm not sure if i will never accept the compromise to make a family with a person, that i love yes, but.. That i don't see the person i would like to stay for all the life.
Then after all that, i'm thinking i should just gave up on the relationship.
In the end, i'm wasting her time, if she want to have a family.. And the girl's age is a real deal in japan..
Did you came accross something like that in your life experience? And how did you handle it?