An update, so I called up the new student this morning and sweet talked her for a while and invited her to a hotel with me. She was super nervous and kept saying that she couldn't go with me. She kept making different excuses. At first she said it is a taboo thing to go to a hotel with someone, but when I said that is not true and that going to love hotels is something Japanese people do all the time. Then she said that she knows a lot of people in the city and she is afraid they will see us walking to the hotel together. I told her she is just thinking too much and that nobody would see us. Then she admitted that she is nervous.
About an hour after the call, she sent me this message:
So...By the way,
when I was still single, I often went to a relaxing hotel with my boyfriend,
even if it's one night-lover.....(^_^*)
I feel It's nostalgic.....I am pleased that you invited me. Thank you for having a small hope.
So although that call didn't work out, she is still not only interested in continuing the lessons with me every Monday, she is still down to drink beer with me during the lesson!
She even told me that she usually drives to the class, but she can borrow her mother's bicycle to ride there so we can drink together.
It sure seems like she is putting a lot of effort into making drinking with me possible on Monday night...maybe there is still a chance something could happen. I have a feeling she is just nervous and would maybe be down to hook up or at least make out if she has a little alcohol in her system to relax her.