whocares
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I might not have explained myself well...
I think people believe the power in the relationship is with the dude...and it really isn't...like...the gal arrives, you give her money and at that point you are largely at her mercy...if she does not want to do something she isn't going to...if you mess with her, a giant six foot five monster is going to knock on your door (in North America at least the escorts are driven to outcalls and picked up by a giant dude who will fuck you up if you give him reason to...and I am certain the cops will side with a [Redacted] lady over an evil foreigner every day of the week)...and if you are unhappy, what are you going to do? Sure you could post on TAG but TAG's are niche groups and, I imagine, a relatively small percentage of mongers read reviews on these sites...
So, for me, it's an illusion that the dude is in charge...so any domination fetish of the "aww yah, swallow my cum, bitch" rings hollow to me...the reality is that she could take your cash, walk out and what are you going to do? assault her? Call the cops?
As to the control...it's an interesting question...I imagine that these ladies get desensitized pretty quickly...so, even there, I think most of the time the lady is probably "meh" on the whole thing...like she may well provide an option but I doubt that after the first week, they really care all that much? if that makes sense...so, she certainly is likely to have a preference, but, frankly if your job is to fuck guys you'd never fuck in your personal life and pretend they are the greatest, is there really that far to go from CIM to swallow?
I think people believe the power in the relationship is with the dude...and it really isn't...like...the gal arrives, you give her money and at that point you are largely at her mercy...if she does not want to do something she isn't going to...if you mess with her, a giant six foot five monster is going to knock on your door (in North America at least the escorts are driven to outcalls and picked up by a giant dude who will fuck you up if you give him reason to...and I am certain the cops will side with a [Redacted] lady over an evil foreigner every day of the week)...and if you are unhappy, what are you going to do? Sure you could post on TAG but TAG's are niche groups and, I imagine, a relatively small percentage of mongers read reviews on these sites...
So, for me, it's an illusion that the dude is in charge...so any domination fetish of the "aww yah, swallow my cum, bitch" rings hollow to me...the reality is that she could take your cash, walk out and what are you going to do? assault her? Call the cops?
As to the control...it's an interesting question...I imagine that these ladies get desensitized pretty quickly...so, even there, I think most of the time the lady is probably "meh" on the whole thing...like she may well provide an option but I doubt that after the first week, they really care all that much? if that makes sense...so, she certainly is likely to have a preference, but, frankly if your job is to fuck guys you'd never fuck in your personal life and pretend they are the greatest, is there really that far to go from CIM to swallow?