Hamerare
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Isn't there a group of girls who are really into you and want a proper relationship? Or I guess most women are clued up enough to realise what you are after and the limits of that?
Yes there are plenty of nice J girls out there who want affection and love
I don't know what kind of advice you been getting here because I blocked the posters who are mixing a bit of truth with a lot of fantasy. Even if it was all true, what works for one person won't necessarily work for another.
My advice if you meet a girl you are genuinely attracted to and want to know better is to forget the sex thing altogether and just concentrate on enjoying each other's company. The sex will usually come naturally and it will be the girl who initiates it. There are hundreds of shy gaijins married to OK J women who you cannot imagine ever having made the first move.
For example, your date might suddenly snuggle up close to you one evening. She might unexpectedly show up at your apartment one day. She might feign drunkenness and miss last train home. All these things have happened to me over 30 years in Japan.
And there are other J women who do not want a relationship because they have a boyfriend somewhere who they don't see very often but are confident of marrying. They often want the gaijin sex and it can be very painful for the guy when he learns he has been deceived.
Just take things at your own pace and forget all this bullshit you may be reading here. You should be happier for it