Sexually Transmitted Disease (std) Talk

Durg50 said:
Think context and delivery are pretty important here
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Would it be more tactful to talk with the tencho/shop about their testing intervals or something? This just seems like a mood killer otherwise, unless you're booking through the girl's social media.

With indies though, I'd imagine it's perfectly reasonable to ask during the initial communications. It's good way to gauge how seriously they take their health in the first place.
 
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byebibears said:
With indies though, I'd imagine it's perfectly reasonable to ask during the initial communications. It's good way to gauge how seriously they take their health in the first place.
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And what are you going to say when they ask you back, when was YOUR last test? People seem to choke on this point when the ball is put back in their court.

(and for the independents, here on TAG at least, they care very greatly about their health and get regular tests)
 
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atmsanchez said:
Is it rude to ask a girl if she is clean?
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Well you can ask politely and in a way that shows that you care, for her and for you.

Unfortunately you (she) can as well in some cases show no symptoms at all. It actually happened to me once with Chlamydia. And by the way, it was with a regular girl I dated and not a provider ;)
 
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uhm they dont teach this at school? lol

anyway I think the question is meaningless. and way to ruin the mood
 
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Airnest said:
No glove, no love. Stay safe out there!
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Not wearing a condom is the same as not greeting. 😆

atmsanchez said:
Is it rude to ask a girl if she is clean?
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It’s slightly annoying, and what do you expect her to answer “no dude, I have syphilis”.
Call me naive but I think people spread diseases because they don’t know they are infected, not on purpose.
Also it would be illogical to not get yourself treated if you did find out you had something.
 
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TAG Manager said:
And what are you going to say when they ask you back, when was YOUR last test? People seem to choke on this point when the ball is put back in their court.

(and for the independents, here on TAG at least, they care very greatly about their health and get regular tests)
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This for sure. And yeah we greatly appreciate when clients test regularly as well.

Hughty said:
Well you can ask politely and in a way that shows that you care, for her and for you.

Unfortunately you (she) can as well in some cases show no symptoms at all. It actually happened to me once with Chlamydia. And by the way, it was with a regular girl I dated and not a provider ;)
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Yes, very common for girls to not have symptoms at all actually. Guys would have symptoms in most cases (not all) and I can’t fathom why they would want to play while having those symptoms but I guess sometimes the horniness just drives people crazy.

atmsanchez said:
"Do you have any STDs?" To a provider
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That would make her an STD provider.



But yeah all jokes aside I have definitely inquired as well with guys on some occasions that had me a bit worried (condom breaks for example) and in their case it can be reassuring if they don’t have a very active sex life. (Not that I mind guys enjoying themselves a lot though, I love that).
But yeah the question itself is meaningless, especially when playing with a girl with a busy schedule. Test and wrap up and go for shops and girls who are known to test at least monthly.
 
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In the past, I’ve always been to places that offers fs like soaps and the shinchis, which means protection has always been worn. However, recently I had my first healths session and it got me wondering, wouldn’t sumata be a high risk for std? The girl was literally using the front of her vagina and her hand to simulate an actual intercourse. Id assume you can pass on stds between the clits and the head of the penis. Any thoughts on this??
 
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Enoki said:
In the past, I’ve always been to places that offers fs like soaps and the shinchis, which means protection has always been worn. However, recently I had my first healths session and it got me wondering, wouldn’t sumata be a high risk for std? The girl was literally using the front of her vagina and her hand to simulate an actual intercourse. Id assume you can pass on stds between the clits and the head of the penis. Any thoughts on this??
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https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/can-you-get-an-std-without-having-sex
 
Enoki said:
In the past, I’ve always been to places that offers fs like soaps and the shinchis, which means protection has always been worn. However, recently I had my first healths session and it got me wondering, wouldn’t sumata be a high risk for std? The girl was literally using the front of her vagina and her hand to simulate an actual intercourse. Id assume you can pass on stds between the clits and the head of the penis. Any thoughts on this??
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It is far superior to CFS when done right.

Def std risk, also def risk of not saying no if the lady asks to slip it in. Or not saying stop when she just slips it in without asking. Or having 3 further rounds of bbfs afterwards because ‘fuck it, we’ve done it now anyway’.

Btw when done really well no hands are required.
 
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Durg50 said:
It is far superior to CFS when done right.

Def std risk, also def risk of not saying no if the lady asks to slip it in. Or not saying stop when she just slips it in without asking. Or having 3 further rounds of bbfs afterwards because ‘fuck it, we’ve done it now anyway’.

Btw when done really well no hands are required.
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And def risk of writing a bunch of panic posts on here because you got an std.
 
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I guess my question was if it’s the same risk as bbfs, why bother doing sumata. These girls would be safer just offering cfs. Or perhaps the sumata session I just had was not normal (using clits part to rub). i had assume they wouldve just use their thigh.
 
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Back then, that is what sumata used to be, but the "modern" use of it is something closer to mimicking the feeling of a vagina without genital to genital contact by using their hand and often getting on top of you to mimic cowgirl, but there are some girls/staff who don't know about that, so they do what you're talking about

2/3 providers I asked for sumata did what I just described. The 3rd and final one just stuck it in
 

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TAG Manager said:
And what are you going to say when they ask you back, when was YOUR last test? People seem to choke on this point when the ball is put back in their court.

(and for the independents, here on TAG at least, they care very greatly about their health and get regular tests)
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The simplest way is to proactively send your negative test results to her with a comment like “just want you to know I take your and my safety and health seriously, really looking forward to meeting!”

She may or may not respond with her own results. Life is about taking risks. Have fun.
 
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I've never had sumata that felt good, but tbh after like the third time it was offered and I wasn't a fan I just stopped ever bringing it up or asking for it.
 
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SealedTears said:
Like boob jobs, it looks way hotter than it actually feels.
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3p belongs in the same category as you can only be in one hole at any one point in time. Not to mention porn positions like doggy with girl upright or fucking upwards in cowgirl.

LastExile13 said:
Surprised to find out feet felt better... Still unsure how I feel about that revelation.
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Same!
 
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