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This was an interesting debate recently among my friends where we were helping various guys new to Japan. One significant bit of advice, was not to wear or at least be very wary of heavy cologne, deodorant, or lotions. The reason for this is that many Japanese, unfamiliar with the smell of such, can assume the foreign person stinks.
It's arguably better to wear no cologne at all or the kind that smells like soap/soapy. Same for deodorant, better the kind that kills any smell or body odor, but has a neutral smell itself, versus any kind of heavy fragrance. And this is the case for lotions. Better unscented or neutral smelling lotion, versus any heavy fragrance and especially flowery types. In various cases and too often, while the cologne/deodorant/lotion might smell good at first, after a few hours or interacting with sweat, it can smell odd or bad.
Now this is in addition to proper hygiene, so not saying to go without showering daily and using soap and shampoo, or not to make sure your clothes are washed and clean smelling. The point is the additional things many people put on themselves, which can have a much different affect on the nose of many Japanese than the foreign person thinks. Some foreigners, particularly men (but some women too) can swear that X cologne or perfume smells so good and is popular back in their country, but in Japan, people will react like they just took a shit in their pants. The unfamiliar smell, may not be received well by the locals.
The "rules" are a bit different for men, as oppose to women. A pretty woman, is much more likely to get the benefit of the doubt, when it comes to smell. Particularly from the opposite sex. However there are limits, and foreign women new to Japan might want to be aware of such and think about their choices in products and perfumes too.
In addition to this, foreigners should be aware that they are not usually given the benefit of the doubt where any strong smells are concerned. For instance, if you are coming from a bar with lots of alcohol or cigarette smoke, various Japanese can too often assume that you stink. Where if smelling another Japanese coming out of the same bar, they can be more distinguishing about the nature of the odor, and detect it's cigarette smoke or alcohol. Same can be if you are coming from a yakiniku restaurant ( the meat and smoke) or pizza with lots of garlic. While it seems unfair, it's something my friends and I have observed over many years in Japan. If you want to remove the alcohol or tobacco smell from your clothes, you can use products in Japan like Gatsby wipes or various types of deodorant/disinfectant wipes.
It's arguably better to wear no cologne at all or the kind that smells like soap/soapy. Same for deodorant, better the kind that kills any smell or body odor, but has a neutral smell itself, versus any kind of heavy fragrance. And this is the case for lotions. Better unscented or neutral smelling lotion, versus any heavy fragrance and especially flowery types. In various cases and too often, while the cologne/deodorant/lotion might smell good at first, after a few hours or interacting with sweat, it can smell odd or bad.
Now this is in addition to proper hygiene, so not saying to go without showering daily and using soap and shampoo, or not to make sure your clothes are washed and clean smelling. The point is the additional things many people put on themselves, which can have a much different affect on the nose of many Japanese than the foreign person thinks. Some foreigners, particularly men (but some women too) can swear that X cologne or perfume smells so good and is popular back in their country, but in Japan, people will react like they just took a shit in their pants. The unfamiliar smell, may not be received well by the locals.
The "rules" are a bit different for men, as oppose to women. A pretty woman, is much more likely to get the benefit of the doubt, when it comes to smell. Particularly from the opposite sex. However there are limits, and foreign women new to Japan might want to be aware of such and think about their choices in products and perfumes too.
In addition to this, foreigners should be aware that they are not usually given the benefit of the doubt where any strong smells are concerned. For instance, if you are coming from a bar with lots of alcohol or cigarette smoke, various Japanese can too often assume that you stink. Where if smelling another Japanese coming out of the same bar, they can be more distinguishing about the nature of the odor, and detect it's cigarette smoke or alcohol. Same can be if you are coming from a yakiniku restaurant ( the meat and smoke) or pizza with lots of garlic. While it seems unfair, it's something my friends and I have observed over many years in Japan. If you want to remove the alcohol or tobacco smell from your clothes, you can use products in Japan like Gatsby wipes or various types of deodorant/disinfectant wipes.