I have been reading this forum among a few others for guidance in the dating scene in Tokyo for months and I keep seeing people repeat how gaijin don't have a hard time finding available j girls for dating. Seen a lot women posting about how harder it is for western women than men. I've been here for months and haven't had the least amount of luck meeting women than I have anywhere else in the world. I've been to Roppongi, Shibuya, the bars, the clubs, the malls, coffee shops, business circles, friends of friends. This place is a desert, like I've never seen in all my life anywhere. After reading about the country's birthing situation I am not the least bit surprised with how disinterested people seem to be with one another. Sorry for the rant but after many months of being patience and carefully studying and searching I had to rant.