I dont think what people say in a moment of anger is always the same as what they REALLY think of you.I like to hear what she really thinks of me
I dont think what people say in a moment of anger is always the same as what they REALLY think of you.I like to hear what she really thinks of me
I'm pretty sure this is the reason.I wonder whether Chinese guys cope with that kind of shit because they're demographically at a disadvantage towards women
I dont think what people say in a moment of anger is always the same as what they REALLY think of you.
It might be exaggerated but it does reveal something that might never come out otherwise.
first one called me one night, told me she hates me and that was that...
If she said that without you asking about it, she most likely misses you back.The only contact I've had from her was an angry email, calling me a coward, and how happy she was with someone new. Deleted Line, WhatsAp, Wechat contacts. Only way to contact her now is by email.
I still care very deeply about her, and miss her a lot.
I can relate to that... I've done what you call the cowards way...usually because I know the girl is a bit of a nutter... so best to send from afar. However, I prefer to remain friends... it's my personality... it takes longer to get over if I know I was a coward or dick and they hate me. I still get over it, but it takes longer. I've been dumped over LINE... I think I responded you are dumping over LINE ? That's great lets me know even more what kind of person you really are..... In the end... there are nice people and not nice people... in our travels through this live we end up with both and break ups are just part and parcel to life... We can develop a breakup ritual like TokyoJoeBlow - light a smoke and order a drink... or whatever suits us.. but if you have a "fall back" position or routine, it won't make it quite as difficult I think. IMOFor me, the cowards way is best, as it generates enough hatred to ensure the relationship dies.
Trying to end things as friends just doesn't work for me.
Strangely my most recent experience was with a Chinese woman too. Been together for 18 months with a few ons and offs, but always got back together.
Something happened that made me realize that no matter how much I liked her, I was not good for her.
We'd always got back together, so the break had to be something final. So I took the cowards way out and LINEd her.
Now she really hates me with a passion, which was the goal. The only contact I've had from her was an angry email, calling me a coward, and how happy she was with someone new. Deleted Line, WhatsAp, Wechat contacts. Only way to contact her now is by email.
I still care very deeply about her, and miss her a lot.
But she never buys stupid shit and she treats my hard-earned money with respect. These girls who expect you to buy them expensive handbags and nonsense like that, you see one of those, just act like you stumbled on a tiger in the jungle. Don't look in their eyes, and walk backwards slowly.
The guy who took my V card dumped me by text me by text message a month later. The reason he gave was that i had said about one sentence that really felt as pushing him to do something (being more adventurous with a part of our sex life) and thats "the thing he hates the most". PffffI've been dumped over LINE...
WutThe guy who took my V card dumped me by text me by text message a month later. The reason he gave was that i had said about one sentence that really felt as pushing him to do something (being more adventurous with a part of our sex life) and thats "the thing he hates the most". Pffff
No, we experimented a bit with SM, and he said we shouldn't go further than we actually went and i said we should get into it a bit more. It involved a bit risky things like choking and slapping, but it was by no means cutting off each others limbs and drinking our blood...Wut
By adventurous: did you suggest involving other guys or something ??
By adventurous: did you suggest involving other guys or something ??
Sorry,.....can someone explain this?If she said that without you asking about it, she most likely misses you back.
It depends on the person, I guess. I’d assume the latter reason is correct.Sorry,.....can someone explain this?
My Mum sometimes rings Dad out of the blue to tell him how happy she is with her new husband. He doesn't ask for the phone call and Mum definitely DOES NOT miss him. Probably does this just to rub it in his face.
Yes, i think in many cases they miss their partner.It depends on the person, I guess. I’d assume the latter reason is correct.
I’ve done it before back when I was really immature in my relationships. That’s how I know it can be like that.. and it seems like Anna and Alice agree with me, so it’s a good possibility.
You shouldn't have been so rough on him Alice... some boys are very sensitive and from the sound of things... maybe you should have slapped and choked him harder. If he took you V card and knew about it...and did that...No, we experimented a bit with SM, and he said we shouldn't go further than we actually went and i said we should get into it a bit more. It involved a bit risky things like choking and slapping, but it was by no means cutting off each others limbs and drinking our blood...
I also like the classy young babes who look like money. I used to love to take a hot yound thing to Barneys in Shinjuku and blow a wad on her. Style rather than fashion. Pretty rare these days. Back in the day there were more of them around. Of course back in the day I also had a closet full of Hugo Boss suits. Nowadays I wear mostly Patagonia and Nike. Fuck what happened?I agree, particularly for serious relationships, someone who can’t save and spends frivolously is going to wreck your life and have a miserable future unless you can really keep them under control.
But man, I’ve definitely got a big thing for girls with great taste in expensive clothing and accessories. The perfectly dressed and made up sort you occasionally see walking around in Ginza, generally wearing very expensive foreign brands like Hermès. Around 25 or younger but dressed like someone with decades of experience, perfect makeup, style much closer to a European model than that crap you see in Harajuku, but still Japanese.
I’d take one of those girls over ten of any other sort and no problem keeping her in style. But the hostess sort who has a Chanel habit? Hell no.
Think it's the other way around here.You shouldn't have been so rough on him Alice... some boys are very sensitive and from the sound of things... maybe you should have slapped and choked him harder. If he took you V card and knew about it...and did that...
I also like the classy young babes who look like money. I used to love to take a hot yound thing to Barneys in Shinjuku and blow a wad on her. Style rather than fashion. Pretty rare these days. Back in the day there were more of them around. Of course back in the day I also had a closet full of Hugo Boss suits. Nowadays I wear mostly Patagonia and Nike. Fuck what happened?
Of course back in the day I also had a closet full of Hugo Boss suits. Nowadays I wear mostly Patagonia and Nike. Fuck what happened?