1&3. Yes, I totally understand your perspective. I feel the same way even when doing regular shopping for clothes. Choosing a provider of your choice is such a personal and intimate thing you could do for yourself. There's a whole spectrum of adult providers offering so many varied services and varying price points, clearly independents in Tokyo are just not suited for you.
I just don't feel that there's a need to speak so unkindly about the independents that you have met. "Fat, sagging and unsexy boobs", "Two big bags under the eyes" is just really mean and uncalled for. I'm pretty sure you're aware that it's ugly behaviour, hence you are setting up an anonymous account to say all this.
I just hope that you don't forget that some escorts set such prices because they are trying to actually make a living too, especially in a country like Tokyo where the standard of living is high.
Regarding expectations, this is where I feel that reading reviews are a double-edged sword. While they help to lend credibility to a provider and her biz reputation, it also has the inadvertent effect of potential clients going into the date with the expectation that xyz is going to happen just because it happened with another client. I feel like negative experiences where clients did not feel that their expectations were met are inevitable, just because it's impossible to please and/or appeal to every single person. It is just the way us humans are wired. Not to mention the almost infinite factors that play a part in how we interact with others at any given point in time.
