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Ghosting is a national sport here even with regular relationships so if they don't even know you, you matter even less.
Wow, I'm surprised to hear that. Is this because of deposits?In Australia, there is no ghosting on an escort when you book her. It just doesn’t happen.
Wow, I'm surprised to hear that. Is this because of deposits?
I'm the same. I dont know why I do it. Its not the difference in cost. The amount means nothing to me. Or I should say, its a rounding error in Warubuta's Personal Slush Fund for Fun. But.... I somehow think a good fuck really shouln't cost more than 20k. It just shouldnt. That is half of it. The other half might be that I kinda like the sleazy low end. The dank room etc. The adventure and uncertainty is part of the fun. Every now and then I find a a real gem at a good price. But anyway, I have resolved to stop being silly about this and to start laying down the 30 or 40 required for a hot young thing, proper hotel etc.So this afternoon on my lunch break I banged a Chinese escort staying in a DANK ASS motel room. I wasn't expecting much to begin with but the room straight up smelled like wet dog. I almost cut and ran but she seemed nice and I had already made two abortive attempts in the preceding days, was horny as fuck and just downed two shots of whiskey in the parking lot upon arrival so I was too committed to stand down.
So she did the perfunctory two minute massage with plenty of teasing, sucked my dick for a minute and then I pounded her. The experience was half-decent but left me asking myself why do I keep doing this shit instead of paying more for better quality.
Anyone ever have moments like that?
left me asking myself why do I keep doing this shit instead of paying more for better quality.
I'm the same. I dont know why I do it. Its not the difference in cost. The amount means nothing to me. Or I should say, its a rounding error in Warubuta's Personal Slush Fund for Fun. But.... I somehow think a good fuck really shouln't cost more than 20k. It just shouldnt. That is half of it. The other half might be that I kinda like the sleazy low end. The dank room etc. The adventure and uncertainty is part of the fun. Every now and then I find a a real gem at a good price. But anyway, I have resolved to stop being silly about this and to start laying down the 30 or 40 required for a hot young thing, proper hotel etc.
Sometimes people need quick release.
I occasionally get asked if I provide 30 minute one shot service at a cheapest hotel.
I actually did think about adding a new 40 minute incall course.
Now That would make things so much better. I mean reviews aren't everything but at least it tells you something. I always look for reviews before booking but often have no choice but to take the leap of faith.I wish there were reviews on ALL the advertisers (female) on backpage (cracker) available. I'm assuming that the good ones are kept private and the bad ones aren't talked about in fear of embarrassment.
I'm a few steps down the food chain compared to you guys but I thought something similar as I was fucking a girl for free last week after video chatting with her for about half an hour. She looked a lot rougher in reality than on screen. Fucking is ok but frenchkissing is hard when you're really not attracted to someone. I should really start paying for sex and just accept that nothing comes for free in life.
Monsieur est grand seigneur !Well she was explicitly looking for a hookup. I didn't have much convincing to do, after a few messages my line was full of naked pics of her. I fucked her mostly because it's my policy that 1. everybody deserves to get laid from time to time and 2. it's rude to turn down a super horny chick no matter how rough she looks.
Monsieur est grand seigneur !
Whatever gives you satisfaction and feels right is fine. I sometimes chat up girls when I notice they look lonely or nervous. Not because I want something but because I feel bad I guess.As far as sex is concerned I'm a socialist. That blurb on the Statue of Liberty " "Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses..." and all that, I should get that tattooed on my genitals.
Back when I was younger and I would go clubbing, I would often turn down relatively pretty girls and instead focus all my attention on the ugliest one in the place. I don't know why I got kicks out of that.
it's rude to turn down a super horny chick no matter how rough she looks
Indeed. Consider yourself an honorary Canadian with that level of politeness.
Going back to your earlier post, if you can get sex for free and it gets the job done that's great. But sometimes things are free or cheap for a reason. I wonder how seeing a good provider would compare.
Depends what your motivations for having sex are. Mine are:
1. Physical pleasure (10%)
2. Getting the frustration out of my system (30%)
3. Curiosity (10%)
4. Furthering my understanding of how the female body works (20%)
5. Improving (or lowering) my self-esteem (from knowing that someone finds me attractive enough to do it with me) (from -30% to +30%)
A professional will provide me with items 1, 2 and 3 (50% of my motivation) while free sex will provide me with items 1, 2, 3 and 4 (70%) modified by item 5 (how attractive/repulsive the person is) for a total ranging between 40% and 100%.
So I'd say I prefer a provider to a super unattractive hookup but an average to somewhat lower than average hookup is preferable for me to a provider. The problem is that hookups are not always easy to find. Super horny chicks don't necessarily always wear their libido around their neck, especially in Japan.
But.... I somehow think a good fuck really shouln't cost more than 20k.
Ain’t that the truth! You hit that on the nail!That's about the price of a good love hotel for night in Tokyo. So even free might cost that much.
But in general it's funny how the price doesn't have any relationship to the value in escorting. You can pay X for a one-pop session and the next girl wants one fifth of that and decides to spend the whole night and asks herself for a parting fuck in the morning. Life is full of mysteries.
That's about the price of a good love hotel for night in Tokyo. So even free might cost that much.
But in general it's funny how the price doesn't have any relationship to the value in escorting. You can pay X for a one-pop session and the next girl wants one fifth of that and decides to spend the whole night and asks herself for a parting fuck in the morning. Life is full of mysteries.
Exactly. And I have no economics-based rationale for thinking 20k is what it should cost.That's about the price of a good love hotel for night in Tokyo. So even free might cost that much.
But in general it's funny how the price doesn't have any relationship to the value in escorting. You can pay X for a one-pop session and the next girl wants one fifth of that and decides to spend the whole night and asks herself for a parting fuck in the morning. Life is full of mysteries.
Exactly. And I have no economics-based rationale for thinking 20k is what it should cost.