The meaning of "cum", when you produce with a provider

ShowaJidai said:
I agree that swallowing feels very intimate for the male to see.
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I must be the exception because I really don't care at all. I have some friends who swallow and one of them also always proudly shows her empty mouth like in porn movies. For me it's more cute to see her that exited than sexy.

But sometimes I like to finish in mouth and I still haven't met a girl who would think that it is cold or bad. I occasionally like it because I use condoms for all FS and sometimes want to come without it; because it feels better and sometimes because it is difficult to come with one on. Though usually that is then the last shot of a session; so usually 3rd or 4th.
 
I have to agree with Showajidai. In my experience, all my girlfriends have eagerly performed bj to CIM without hesitation, it's just they will not swallow. Like when I performed oral on them to orgasm (over and over) it makes me feel fantastic that I can give them so much pleasure, my girlfriends felt the same way. Then from there it is on to lovemaking and after lovemaking a final bj to make sure she's milked me dry.
 
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hawaiianhawk said:
I have to agree with Showajidai. In my experience, all my girlfriends have eagerly performed bj to CIM without hesitation, it's just they will not swallow. Like when I performed oral on them to orgasm (over and over) it makes me feel fantastic that I can give them so much pleasure, my girlfriends felt the same way. Then from there it is on to lovemaking and after lovemaking a final bj to make sure she's milked me dry.
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Most women that practice cunnilingus on told me that they didn’t like the taste of their pussy when I kissed them. They preferred that I washed my face and gargled before moving back to kissing and on to other pleasurable things.
 
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jhingy567 said:
imagine telling a girl to do this after she gave you a bj.
Might be the end of any 'fun'
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Well now in a defunct thread, I read that some guys like that and prefer to just enjoy the flavors of the sex juice. Now if it were ass juice, I’d object and agree. I’m pretty sure that there is a term for when a woman takes CIM and deposits the man’s own sperm into his mouth. I can’t remember but that’s a fetish for some men. Not me per say, but I never noticed that after a blowjob and getting kissed later that there was a difference in taste. To each their own in this case. My point is that in the end, spitting out sperm should be no problem unless you know that the client has a problem. Most will say. For women who don’t care about tasting their own vaginal secretions and don’t interrupt the play to wash up, for those that do mind, I oblige them.
 
ShowaJidai said:
I don't think that BJ to completion in a relationship is all that unusual. Not too much different from me going down on her until she has an orgasm. What's unusual about that? I know that outside a relationship women don't accept oral from a man as easily as men would accept oral from a woman - but that's one thing about the universe I would change if I had that power (I would love to have a 90% success rate in offering random women oral sex! Even if that was the only thing that would probably happen.)

I agree that swallowing feels very intimate for the male to see. But I guess that if spitting is the only option I prefer to see her spit into her hand like it meant something rather than spit into a tissue like it was something to be disposed of as quickly as possible. I also don't care to see her play with it or rub it on somewhere unless she really seems to enjoy doing it for her own reasons.
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Our experiences seem very different.
Men usually need recovery time after a shot, so rather than "wasting" it on one sided oral, its better to have real sex in a relationship.

I also dont see why a woman wouldn't accept oral sex outside of a relationship. The problem seems rather that men in one night stands dont want to go down on girls, not that girls dont want this.
 
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User#8628 said:
I also dont see why a woman wouldn't accept oral sex outside of a relationship.
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I have met some working girls who say it feels too intimate. Also some like it but don't want to come as it makes them too tired to work later so they either don't allow it at all or cut it short.
 
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MikeH said:
I have met some working girls who say it feels too intimate. Also some like it but don't want to come as it makes them too tired to work later so they either don't allow it at all or cut it short.
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That's interesting. I guess it depends on the person. This one provider I saw recently at a massage parlor asked me if I wanted to eat her pussy because she likes to cum too.

I was like :eek:
 
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User#8628 said:
Our experiences seem very different.
Men usually need recovery time after a shot, so rather than "wasting" it on one sided oral, its better to have real sex in a relationship.
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Sex for me in a relationship - as much as possible - goes for hours and should be multi-pop for both of us. Of course there will be times when we both just hold each other for a while. In my experience most women also prefer to stop or slow down after having an orgasm.

User#8628 said:
I also dont see why a woman wouldn't accept oral sex outside of a relationship.
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I've been with a number of women who are not comfortable or confident about how they look down there and it took a while before they would let me get so close to their vaj.
 
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ShowaJidai said:
Sex for me in a relationship - as much as possible - goes for hours and should be multi-pop for both of us. Of course there will be times when we both just hold each other for a while. In my experience most women also prefer to stop or slow down after having an orgasm.
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That is nice and all and i used to have something like that as a teenager with a boyfriend i only saw on the weekend (his record: 11 pops in 24 hours!) but realistically, you both have jobs and/or other activities and are tired at the end of the day.
 
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Lukes said:
Outside the world of porn, swallowing doesn't seem to be a common practice. As hot as it is to watch a girl show you the cum in her mouth and then make it disappear, most men don't expect that.
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I've been with lots of women who swallowed but none who put on a show about it. They just swallowed it as it filled their mouth.
 
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if a woman I was involved with privately or who I paid to suck my cock ever compared my cum to piss to my face, it would be over immediately. Fuck you, get out, good by, never darken my door again.
 
jhingy567 said:
but sore testicles :inpain::dead:
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For me 11 pops would pretty much mean straight sex for the whole 24 hours so I would be more worried about the girl. Most probably would need to provide her a wheelchair to get back home.
 
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Yuriko said:
Do you feel something, after you cum and released pretty thick cum, with a provider? I can't take those cum, as I meet pretty much alot of men a month, that I feel I shouldn't swallow it. Swallow cum is such a sacred action.

It must be such an energy, such a work to cum. I truely thank you for those, who provided to me. But,. I feel sorry and sentimental, when I think of my action, as to spit... Never done but should I spit on my body, and spread it on my legs or something like a body cream? I like sylopping onto your dick, but I'm sure not for certain guys.

Tissue is not enough to clean...

Should I say something like, Thank you for your hard work!! I love cumful of mouth!

Or...

I guess, the best thing is say thank you for your hard work.

What is the best thing, really?
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For me personally it's not necessarily the fact that the woman would swallow that makes the experience nice.

It's just that i want to feel my dick deep inside her mouth when i come.

Like when the girl is deepthroating and i feel i am so deep inside that my dick is in her throat and when i come i know i will shoot right in her throat is what makes the feeling more intense.

But having your dick milked passionately when you are coming is also fine.
 
Recently I was out with an occasional playmate, turned out she was on her period and only willing to give a bj. She's decent at it, and anyway I prefer penetration so we'd only used oral as a warmup. But man, this time... just as I'm about to cum she says "don't cum in my mouth!" and finishes with her hand, making a mess on my shirt! I was so pissed, needless to say an instant demotion to the very bottom of the list.
 
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vargas said:
Recently I was out with an occasional playmate, turned out she was on her period and only willing to give a bj.
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A real trucker drives in any kind of weather. That's when you select a room with a large bath and a mat.

But yeah, a girl who don't do CIM even in a pinch is not my kind of a girl.
 
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MikeH said:
A real trucker drives in any kind of weather. That's when you select a room with a large bath and a mat.

But yeah, a girl who don't do CIM even in a pinch is not my kind of a girl.
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LOL yeah but the sort of girl who won't take a load in her mouth is usually the same sort who won't do period sex either in my experience :ROFLMAO:
 
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I enjoy seeing the girl open her mouth, showing the cum on her tongue and in her mouth - then letting it ooze out of her mouth and run down her chin onto her body. She could also let some of it ooze onto my body and cock. I would like to try snowballing at least once.
 
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