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Simonka said:
Speaking of neurologists, I would like to know their opinion on the widespread squealing and convulsions in the Japanese fuzoku and porn industry
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And the answer is that they THINK it turns people on. I've been with a few providers that try to do the whole JAV squealing thing and all it does is make me want to experiment with breath control play....

So... what are things that people do that they THINK will turn you on, but actually do nothing or worse, have the opposite effect?
 
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MissInsomnia said:
Licking inside of my ears. I listen to music on my way home from appointments :(
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The worst is when I'm at an massage parlor or 'apartment massage parlor' and the provider does various things to force my orgasm, either acting like she's about to come (after 3 minutes) and wants me to come with her, etc. When a provider does that, it both kills the mood and distracts me and does exactly the opposite of what she intended.
 
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1. I like to start the kiss from the bottom lip. We can include the tongue at some point, but a gentle first start by sucking on the lips is more romantic. So when someone sticks out their tongue in the crawling warm motion it’s such an “eek” moment for me.
2. JAV style fingering. I can only speak for myself but I don’t think a majority of the girls take any pleasure from the aggressive fingering. Actually if the nails are not properly trimmed it hurts a lot and may cause cuts or soreness. On the contrary, I love palm pressing and gentle massaging with the fingers. Slow strokes are much more fruitful for arousal in my case.
3. Nipple twisting or the “radio frequency searching” motion. Just no.
 
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Simonka said:
I like to start the kiss from the bottom lip. We can include the tongue at some point, but a gentle first start by sucking on the lips is more romantic. So when someone sticks out their tongue in the crawling warm motion it’s such an “eek” moment for me.
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Same here... I like to ramp up, not dive in!
 
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I actually love it when a lady makes an effort to turn me on, even if it’s not what I like. Theres nothing wrong with saying “baby you’re amazing but you dont need to do that” instead of having someone super passive or who just goes through the motions, and having to tell her everything.
Outright lies and faking would turn me off though (or make me laugh... once a girl felt obliged to say sthg like “fuck me with your big cock” and I bursted in laughter... could not get it up again though :()
 
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Rusty Trombone said:
Nipple play!
Way overrated! It's like instant soup before a wagyu steak
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There aren't enough people quoting this! But this so much! If they try to do some nipple play I'll usually let them even though I don't feel a thing but there are some girls that spend WAY too much time there and I eventually have to tell them to move on.

All this talk about faking noises reminded me of the time some chinese lady kept saying "kimochii" in the most monotone voice ever. When I turned to look at her while in mish, she told me how amazing I was in the same voice and even gave me 2 thumbs up.
It was the most boner-killing and strangely motivating moment of my life.
 
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eman said:
There aren't enough people quoting this! But this so much! If they try to do some nipple play I'll usually let them even though I don't feel a thing but there are some girls that spend WAY too much time there and I eventually have to tell them to move on.

All this talk about faking noises reminded me of the time some chinese lady kept saying "kimochii" in the most monotone voice ever. When I turned to look at her while in mish, she told me how amazing I was in the same voice and even gave me 2 thumbs up.
It was the most boner-killing and strangely motivating moment of my life.
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How motivating? Thats rather counter-intuitive isnt it?
 
Whatever, I’ll take all your nipple play and you can have my sexy school girl or shy whatever type role plays.

I didn’t realize people actually twisted nipples like radio knobs. That’s just so tacky, especially when you can put your head to their chest and act like you’re opening a safe.
 
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Saitama said:
Perhaps he, like me too often, has thought “what do I need to do with my life to make sure I am never here again?”
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Ah yes, very true...
“what doesnt kill you makes you stronger” kind of experience :)
 
eman said:
All this talk about faking noises reminded me of the time some chinese lady kept saying "kimochii" in the most monotone voice ever. When I turned to look at her while in mish, she told me how amazing I was in the same voice and even gave me 2 thumbs up.
It was the most boner-killing and strangely motivating moment of my life.
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You need to pivot into a mind control / hypnotism / sex robot fetish scenario. Just make it work somehow.
 
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Frenchy said:
I actually love it when a lady makes an effort to turn me on, even if it’s not what I like. Theres nothing wrong with saying “baby you’re amazing but you dont need to do that” instead of having someone super passive or who just goes through the motions, and having to tell her everything.
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Bingo. Shy girls who are insecure and afraid to try anything because of fear of doing the wrong thing are just so frustrating. Just try everything and look for the reaction or if you can’t tell, I will tell you to move on to something else. No hard feelings and so much better than having to constantly make suggestions. Giving her outright commands would also work for me, but the girl has to volunteer for that from the get go.
 
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eman said:
There aren't enough people quoting this! But this so much! If they try to do some nipple play I'll usually let them even though I don't feel a thing but there are some girls that spend WAY too much time there and I eventually have to tell them to move on.

All this talk about faking noises reminded me of the time some chinese lady kept saying "kimochii" in the most monotone voice ever. When I turned to look at her while in mish, she told me how amazing I was in the same voice and even gave me 2 thumbs up.
It was the most boner-killing and strangely motivating moment of my life.
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two thumbs up sounds epic!
 
I guess nipple play usually doesn’t do it for western guys, but i know at least one Japanese guy who much prefers it over blowjobs so don’t knock girls in Japan who spend a lot of time doing it, just try to subtly move to the next thing if they take long.
 
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surak said:
two thumbs up sounds epic!
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This at least used to be very common in Singapore but haven't seen it since. Except couple of weeks ago with a Chinese girl who didn't have much of either Japanese or English. So instead of talking about modern art or music we just went for it.

After the deed was done she looks at me with a wide smile, puts two thumbs up and says "your dick, number one". Totally cracked me up.
 
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