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Not all! Good rant! But J women have a lot more power than people give them credit for.
What Goldendalton was saying is a common criticism and attack on Western men that like Japan or Asian women in general. An example of such an attack is below-Wait, what? Seriously? I don't know how what the general feminist's stand-point is in the US (which is what I assume the country you're talking about) but the political climate in Sweden is really different. You'd get a lot of shit for saying that where I come from as it just sounds like a bunch of ignorant bigots with a deep inability to comprehense cultures other than their own. The same goes for sex-negative feminists whom believe prostitution is inherently damaging to women and men, when it's actually laws criminalizing and persecuting these people that's dangerous and hurtful. Of course the existence of sex slaves is a huge concern, but that is called trafficking and is something else entirely.
I believe Nina Hartley sums up my view on prostitution and sex-positive feminism perfectly:
"Sex isn't something men do to you. It isn't something men get out of you. Sex is something you dive into with gusto and like it every bit as much as he does."
I believe Nina Hartley sums up my view on prostitution and sex-positive feminism perfectly
Obi-wan Kenobi, Nina Hartley, & a young 21 year old sex positive feminist got me thinking...I was impressed that a 21yr old from Sweden knows about Nina.
Noted- I just didn't see your above post earlier.Again, the topic at hand is 'Things you would change about Japan'. Feel free to open another thread on "World sex politics" if you'd like. If we keep off-topic, I'll just lock this. Thanks.
What Goldendalton was saying is a common criticism and attack on Western men that like Japan or Asian women in general. An example of such an attack is below-
I can't imagine what "Sex positive " would mean?
[snip charisma man comic]
I cried the smallest tear. There's a difference between having preferences and coming over here swinging your dick at anything Asian looking because there aren't any Western women to tell you what a creep you are. If I could change something about Japan, it would be a hell of a lot fewer of these guys coming over to "escape the oppression of Western women". Whenever I hear this mantra, I think about how exactly NONE of it seems to apply to my personal situation. I'm still getting all the sex I want almost exclusively with Western women in Japan and without turning into a bitter Asian collector with a chip on his shoulder.
You can't even imagine?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex-positive_feminism
I don't think the foreign women (or anyone else) came out of that particularly well.That was always the point of Charisma man.
It was that the foreign women could see through the "superhero" to the guy underneath.
I don't think the foreign women (or anyone else) came out of that particularly well.
And it's really mean nasty hateful stuff.
Why do they need to do that?
What have I ever done to them?
You know what? I try to be polite and friendly with the foreign women I meet because, hey, it's nice to converse in my home language. Very often, I get the cold shoulder from these women I run into. Professionally, it works out fine... but it doesn't go beyond that. Note: I don't give them a snotty attitude back; because I just assume there's something else going on there.
My personal life is a story and half; but I'd love to have some American chick in the friends/fwb category to do stuff with and even just veg out on American tv stuff. lol -- It doesn't work with a Japanese girl 'cause they don't get it half the time. :/
For various reasons I have come back to wanting to date western men again - and have had some lovely lovers and FWB who are foreign men living in Japan.
It isn't unusual for Westerners to switch back and forth between dating Japanese and other Westerners, especially if they aren't married or got divorced and stayed in Japan.
I've had several periods of dating Japanese only, only other foreigners, and mixed combinations. I'm pretty much full rainbow now. It depends on the woman that I happen to meet, and our attraction and chemistry.
My pals are quite interesting. Some are very Japanese only types, and have a lot of animosity towards Western women, where others are into diversity and international relationships beyond just with Japanese.
Tokyo is such an international city. It can be very exciting dating people from all over the world, and it's often easier for foreigners to talk with each and there can be less cultural problems than with Japanese.
My experience has been that it usually depends on how long the Western women I'm dealing with have been in Japan and if they are married or engaged to a Japanese guy.You know what? I try to be polite and friendly with the foreign women I meet because, hey, it's nice to converse in my home language. Very often, I get the cold shoulder from these women I run into. Professionally, it works out fine... but it doesn't go beyond that. Note: I don't give them a snotty attitude back; because I just assume there's something else going on there.
My personal life is a story and half; but I'd love to have some American chick in the friends/fwb category to do stuff with and even just veg out on American tv stuff. lol -- It doesn't work with a Japanese girl 'cause they don't get it half the time. :/
Hmmm, I'm a white american just under 5-10.......