Japanese women are attracted to foreign men, because they think foreign me are more chivalrous, makes the women look more "cosmopolitan" and many other factors... the catch is.... when they marry the foreign guy then they change their mentality to "wife" mode and don't think they need to do all the things they did while dating (maybe true for the guy too) and this is where the decline in the relationship begins... (or so I've been told) Alternatively, during dating she get's pregnant and it becomes a shotgun wedding and after the baby comes the wife resent the man and the man recent the woman... Just based on what I've heard from mates that have married J-girls...