When was the last time you had sex?

[sugarcatwhite]

I am sure this kind of question is pretty common.

Men ask me often when I had last time sex.

They are SD / ppm/ vanilla.
It’s a very private question so I don’t tell them the truth.

Anyway, even ask the girl you can’t know if it's true and why does even care?

This was from a female perspective and maybe girls do ask that kind question to the male?

Well, maybe I should tell them Next time that “ my last time was 15 min before I met you”

 

[TAG Manager]

Men ask me often when I had last time sex.

Why? Do they have no life of their own?
You should answer:

“I had sex 2 hours before meeting you.”


Savage level attained.

 

[Hellotokyo69]

I am sure this kind of question is pretty common.

Men ask me often when I had last time sex.

They are SD / ppm/ vanilla.
It’s a very private question so I don’t tell them the truth.

Anyway, even ask the girl you can’t know if it's true and why does even care?

This was from a female perspective and maybe girls do ask that kind question to the male?

Well, maybe I should tell them Next time that “ my last time was 15 min before I met you”

I get this as well! I get so confused as to whether they want to hear that you had sex earlier that day/yesterday/whatever as a turn on or the opposite like you’re a sex starved saint.

 

[Frenchy]

I am sure this kind of question is pretty common.

Men ask me often when I had last time sex.

They are SD / ppm/ vanilla.
It’s a very private question so I don’t tell them the truth.

Anyway, even ask the girl you can’t know if it's true and why does even care?

This was from a female perspective and maybe girls do ask that kind question to the male?

Well, maybe I should tell them Next time that “ my last time was 15 min before I met you”

lol... actually have the opposite issue of a SB volunteering this type of information (and way more) without being asked
She can talk about her latest sexcapades the same way she would talk about a day trip or shopping etc... zero shame and zero taboo.
the result is hilarious , especially when its during a dinner at a restaurant or just walking together on the street and people around can hear

 

[sugarcatwhite]

.[/QUOTE]

Why? Do they have no life of their own?
You should answer:

“I had sex 2 hours before meeting you.”
Savage level attainedI got that!

I get this as well! I get so confused as to whether they want to hear that you had sex earlier that day/yesterday/whatever as a turn on or the opposite like you’re a sex starved saint.

Is such Dummy question

I will say 2 h ago to see reaction to only non-SD

 

[AMcguyver]

Or wiggle in your chair and tell him “actually I’m almost done”

 

[Anna Summer]

For some reason mostly Japanese guys ask me this. I usually tell them that I don’t remember and that it doesn’t really matter

 

[Frenchy]

For some reason mostly Japanese guys ask me this. I usually tell them that I don’t remember and that it doesn’t really matter

As you should ...
But seriously whats the matter with those Japanese guys? They meet girls they know are in the biz , and still expect all sorts of virgin-like BS?

 

[CharlieSimms]

I would imagine the more common intent of an inquiry into recent sexual activity is to acquire a larger volume of jollies through the uncovering of greater freakiness, not less. And no activity to report would be sadly boring.

Sir Kanye described the concept himself in his 2018 anthem:
”I'm a sick fuck, I'm inappropriate
I like hearin' stories, I like that ho shit
I wanna hear mo' shit, I like the ho shit
Send me some mo' shit”

Yeah, men can be strange animals. But I get myself why this question would be asked.

 

[Frenchy]

I would imagine the more common intent of an inquiry into recent sexual activity is to acquire a larger volume of jollies through the uncovering of greater freakiness, not less. And no activity to report would be sadly boring.

Sir Kanye described the concept himself in his 2018 anthem:
”I'm a sick fuck, I'm inappropriate
I like hearin' stories, I like that ho shit
I wanna hear mo' shit, I like the ho shit
Send me some mo' shit”

Yeah, men can be strange animals. But I get myself why this question would be asked.

Kanye was more fun back in those days

 

[joeking]

You should say, 'about 5 years ago, it was with a ... Oh, I thought you said 'real good sex'....'

Make the questioner think they have a really high bar to get over...

 

[Frenchy]

I would imagine the more common intent of an inquiry into recent sexual activity is to acquire a larger volume of jollies through the uncovering of greater freakiness, not less. And no activity to report would be sadly boring.

Sir Kanye described the concept himself in his 2018 anthem:
”I'm a sick fuck, I'm inappropriate
I like hearin' stories, I like that ho shit
I wanna hear mo' shit, I like the ho shit
Send me some mo' shit”

Yeah, men can be strange animals. But I get myself why this question would be asked.

speaking about Kanye I once played and sang on Gold Digger during a session with an escort and she thought it was totally inappropriate and it killed the mood

did the same thing with another who thought it was great fun and sang along while she was Cow-Girling me (is that a verb?)

i preferred the latter

 

[sugarcatwhite]

As you should ...
But seriously whats the matter with those Japanese guys? They meet girls they know are in the biz , and still expect all sorts of virgin-like BS?

Is not only Japanese.
Man are curious

 

[Frenchy]

Is not only Japanese.
Man are curious

I know but whats the underlying intent?
Maybe I’m wrong but I guess that 80% of the time with foreigners its because they want to hear that “ho shit” as @CharlieSimms eloquently explained
And I bet you that for 80% of the Japanese its the opposite

 

[sugarcatwhite]

You should say, 'about 5 years ago, it was with a ... Oh, I thought you said 'real good sex'....'

Make the questioner think they have a really high bar to get over...

Awwwwww That was great!!!
I can’t wait to see the reaction.

 

[Anna Summer]

Is not only Japanese.
Man are curious

but why? I can’t think of any benefit knowing such information

 

[sugarcatwhite]

but why? I can’t think of any benefit knowing such information

I am not man but let’s me think:
........
......
....
..

Because they are dummy.


I guess some man want know and hear how was that sex and give us better performance sex then last man. thinking positivity)

They want make us cry hard

 

[Frenchy]

I am not man but let’s me think:
........
......
....
..

Because they are dummy.


I guess some man want know and hear how was that sex and give us better performance sex then last man. thinking positivity)

They want make us cry hard

ok I will tell you the truth about men but keep it secret
Its because if it happened during the previous 24h we have a special hormone in our brains making us think its like we have sex with the guy you just had before.

Some find it gross, other endearing , a spiritual 3P if you will
But shhhhhhh

 

[majimekun]

I'd say it depends on the context.

If you ask this in order to know whether the person is a "player" or not, then it's a dumb question.

If you ask this to your new partner in order to decide when is the best time to do a STD test together, then it's a crucial question.

 

[Anna Summer]

I'd say it depends on the context.

If you ask this in order to know whether the person is a "player" or not, then it's a dumb question.

If you ask this to your new partner in order to decide when is the best time to do a STD test together, then it's a crucial question.

Getting tested for STD’s should be a mandatory thing in general and not something you do after hearing when the other part had sex last time.

 

[Frenchy]

Getting tested for STD’s should be a mandatory thing in general and not something you do after hearing when the other part had sex last time.

By the way a lady I’m supposed to meet this weekend says she’s on PreP. I understand it’s a preventive drug so it should be a plus, safety-wise, to hear that. Yet I have a icky feeling its not just about prevention...
whats the consensus among SWs about PreP?

 

[Hellotokyo69]

So most commonly I get this from one guy during sex and I know he comes from a very boring (by his own admission) relationship. I think on one hand maybe he enjoys the idea of being with someone sexually charged and and lacking inhibition even when talking about sex but saying this I’m still to nervous to reply honestly in fear that I’m wrong at its a huge turn off and he does want someone that waits only for him because he’s amazing.

 

[Hellotokyo69]

By the way a lady I’m supposed to meet this weekend says she’s on PreP. I understand it’s a preventive drug so it should be a plus, safety-wise, to hear that. Yet I have a icky feeling its not just about prevention...
whats the consensus about SWs about PreP?

Typically I only hear of gay men taking this. Maybe she does a lot of anal? I don’t have any reservations around it.

 

[Hellotokyo69]

Typically I only hear of gay men taking this. Maybe she does a lot of anal? I don’t have any reservations around it.

That or she is a intravenous drug user. Which I’m doubting, especially in Japan.

 

[Frenchy]

Typically I only hear of gay men taking this. Maybe she does a lot of anal? I don’t have any reservations around it.

Thanks. Well she’s into gym-freaks/ male models types of guys so your answer makes sense