I gave up internet to find sex friends long time ago, because the guys are pushy.
Also i'm satisfied with my number of sex friends at the moment, so i'm not actively looking. But if i'd go host club for shokai and a guy really wanted to see me outside of the club to be FSs i'd probably do if he's really handsome.
For sexfriends i care about attitude, like not being pushy, being able to do things as friends (not just sex), being cuddley and sweet... I like hosts or ex hosts because they know how to deal with women (especially SW) and they are not obsessed with sex because they had a lot of pressure from their job to perform well in bed.
I like Japanese guys, a good face, bit dominant but laid back and ok if i dont like something. Good haircuts and prefer dyed hair over black hair. I like it when they do effort like nice clothes, hairmake and colorcon but if they are naturally good looking its not a must.
Body type i like everything, chubby guys are cuddley, muscled guys are impressive, skinny guys need my protection.
Its not just Japanese women that look for love and not casual sex!
You guys on TAG always complain that its easy for women to get sex and hard for guys, but unlike many guys, women crave serious relationships and those are super hard to find because most guys are only interested in sex and play with us and use us!