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@BB0523 and @Sudsy, the stories of specific relationships with sex workers that you described above seem to me to agree with the general observation from my post quoted above. The problems you encountered were either not associated with or not at all unique to the fact that the woman in question was a sex worker. Would you agree?
Correct. I had honestly considered quitting my day job and going into night work (bartending/bouncing) again to spend more time with her, but that would have been taking a huge personal step backwards in my own development... I spent a lot of time getting OUT of that groove.
On the schedule issue you mention @Sudsy, I have been in serious relationships with four women (including two nurses) whose schedules were as bad worse and far less flexible than those of any sex worker I've known.
Nurse schedules are absolutely insane, a dear friend of mine is a nurse, and despite being a beautiful, intelligent and funny woman, she's been single for her entire adult life. No guy has ever been able to tolerate the schedule for more than a few weeks, she's stuck in a long cycle of short term dating.