Frenchy
Peace, Love and Camembert
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I choose having a SB because I enjoy having a mental as well as physical relationship with that person, getting to know them over time, even if not a traditional boyfriend/girlfriend situation.
But forming an attachment is part and parcel of that, meaning it is hard when it comes to an end, no matter how much you know it is going to finish at some time.
I have an ex-SB that ended our arrangement when she met someone she wanted to settle down with. I was really happy for her, but at the same time it was hard to let go as we had been together for about 2 years. We had one last dinner and haven’t communicated since.
I’m extremely grateful to have had those couple of years and wouldn’t change anything - I have lots of fun times and great memories to remember.
Lucky man!
Didnt you try to at least stay friends?
Tried with mine, even gave her a small job for a few weeks which she liked and I paid well. I was feeling guilty for the way I treated her in the end, and really wanted to reconcile.
Alas another thing happened which pissed me off again and now we don’t communicate anymore.