Started using SD. I'm new to パパ活, but used wakuwaku and pcmax back in the day for some quick play. SD has been amazing so far.
That being said, my first two experiences were on extreme ends of the spectrum.
1) Girl had a great picture and her profile seemed interesting. She said for 2 she could meet up and go to a hotel (Red Flag 1 ). She ended up being an hour late (Red Flag 2), which I normally would have just gone home, but I happen to have been stuck in that area all day so I just did some errands until she arrived.
Oh, I should have left.... She was NOTHING like her picture. Overweight, and a less than average face. I immediately turned around and started walking away, but she grabbed my shoulder and started making a fuss. I sighed and decided to just head to a hotel with her.
The sex wasn't bad, but I walked out with a huge sense of dissatisfaction. I'm a bit pissed at myself since I saw the red flags, but decided against my gut.
2) Learning from my mistake I decided the 顔合わせ was important. Spent a good chunk of time screening this time around, and decided on a 28 year old that agreed to Adult stuff from 2nd time onward. She also had multiple pictures which looked good.
For the first round I invited her for drinks for 1 Man. At the meetup, she looked way better than her pics. Absolutely my type of woman. We went to a small bar, got good and liquored up, and the chemistry was good. Really great conversation, she didn't hold back on drinking. Passed her the allowance we headed out, and rather than heading back, I motioned towards the love hotel area. She said if I could do 3, we could go. Great!
Sex was great, you could tell she wanted to please. Her only bad quirk is that she wouldn't do kissing, had to be the kind where they don't open their mouth.
We finished up had a good chat, I decided to head out, but she stopped me and asked if we could hang out a bit more.
Great girl, overall damage of 4man, plus cost of drinks/hotel.
Having used older deai sites, I can say SD.jp is pretty refreshing. Seems like a lot of girls are on here. Out of curiosity, how often do you guys get unsolicited messages? I seem to be getting about 5-6 a day, which seems excessive.