DJProfessorK
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On the SA front - after wasting time with bunch of scammer chicks and semi-pros, I finally managed to find a decent SB - 24yo, very cute with an amazing athletic body ...
Compared to SD (in Japan), SA (in US) was more work and it took longer to get to meeting in person. Most girls seem to refuse meet-and-greets too, which was surprising to me. One explanation I heard is that they also get a lot of fake / no-show guys and they don't want to waste time. I guess it makes sense, but makes it harder to shake out the semi-pros.
I'm also discovering that compensation ranges have gone up compared to few years ago ... Damn inflation everywhere!
I'm glad to hear that you've landed a date.
A few things: The price of dates on SA (in the US) has most certainly risen. And I think it will continue to rise as sugaring becomes more and more mainstream in the states. There's most certainly a considerable amount of legwork (chatting/making her comfortable/making her realize that you're not weird or violent) that has to take place. Even the hottest chicks I've met on SA have been ghosted, stood up, yelled at, and some even borderline assaulted. Most women on SA never actually meet anyone because they get bombarded with gross messages, get yelled at when they won't offer free dates (I don't know why some guys attempt to use it for vanilla dating), or they get stood up one too many times and they simply stop logging in.
Acting like a regular human being, having straight forward/vanilla desires, and doing what you can in order to make her comfortable works wonders.
When you land a chill SB who you enjoy hanging out with, and it's mutual. Almost to the point where she'll just hang for free, you know you've hit the jackpot. Outside of M&G's, all of my dates are intimate, but with some chicks, you might just want to hang out with them. I've been to the movies, parties, and get togethers with plenty of SB's. As long as you're not old enough to be her dad, this happens more often than you think.