Frenchy
Peace, Love and Camembert
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20 years, plus 3 dating before marriage, and we've basically been roommates (in terms of desire) for at least 10. This, I think, is consistent with most post-children Japanese wives.
If she even knew I was a member of a site like this, we would have a problem.
I don't want to make this thread too serious-- it was a drunken attempt at humor not a cry for help -- but I'll say we've discussed divorce before and rather seriously the last time, but child custody would be a sticking point and since I provide all the money, house, etc., it would not be in her best interest to go quietly (to say nothing of the fact that she would not accept any responsibility for the unhappiness that led to divorce).
I, in turn, envy your lack of hangover (assuming you are not hungover).
"she would not accept any responsibility for the unhappinessthat led to divorce": exactly same with mine. Not that I put all the responsibility on her of course, I did and said my share of stuff I regret. But it's this stubborn arrogance of not accepting any single fault , even minor, even proven and blatantly obvious , which I can't understand. Well to be honest once she admitted that she was not grateful enough (but only because a Japanese counselor- a lady- explained her that... and she never wanted to see her again!)