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Another silly hang-up / grievance about SBs

I usually give people three days..
Replying back within 24 hours is the most polite thing to do, but 48 hours is still acceptable. (Assuming they had an exhausting day at work and took some time to rest..)
72 hours or more means they’re either not interested, in jail or dead.

In return, when they take a while to respond, I have to be careful not to respond back to them so quickly. Don’t want to appear too eager. Do you have any idea his hard that is for a punctual person like me?
 
No, you’re not the only one...
there’s nothing wrong with expressing your frustrations about it politely but clearly , better than building up resentment about it (writes the guy who did exactly the opposite many times :()
Totally agree with my Gallic comrade here. I too am guilty of letting the resentment build.
It just leads to misery.

But on the other hand, the older I get, the more my short term memory fails me. If she doesn't reply quickly, I generally forget I sent the message, and I get a happy surprise when I get a response.
Now where are my car keys.
 
Totally agree with my Gallic comrade here. I too am guilty of letting the resentment build.
It just leads to misery.

But on the other hand, the older I get, the more my short term memory fails me. If she doesn't reply quickly, I generally forget I sent the message, and I get a happy surprise when I get a response.
Now where are my car keys.

ah ah, same here... and even worse I am the one forgetting to answer now... but she’s a sweetheart and doesn’t care much about it
 
I just got a phone call from Marina the midget who ghosted me about 6 months ago. Couldn't answer but texted her back with a smirky responce that it must have been a mistake. She answered saying yes and sorry. (she didn't have to reply if she ghosted me like that but......maybe............)
 
Sorry had to correct this.
100,000 a month.
she was planning on making a trip up to see me but I don’t see that happening.
good thing about this one is she’s hot and she’s a drinker.
Sorry to quote my own message, but in line with the talk about resentment etc.

I'm in the middle of what I think is a break up with this girl. 6 months on and I've only seen her 3 times.
Admittedly meeting was difficult because of corona, but we've only met 3 times since, twice have been fantastic, once was good fun but she had been having health issues.

So i let the resentment build, rather than communicating like an adult, and the result is this is probably over.

I'm really conflicted about it. Some days I just want it to be over, other days I miss her a lot.

Ideal thing would be to go back to a per meet basis, but I'm not sure if that is possible.
 
Ideal thing would be to go back to a per meet basis, but I'm not sure if that is possible.

that would be my advice too... and the circumstances justify it

Look, most of these ladies are into revenues-optimization vs time-spent. Like lawyers , but usually with better boobs. If she’s playing the « we can’t meet as often as before but I want you to pay me the same anyway » card you can be sure this freed-up time is used for other guys.
 
I am stealing that one!

can you imagine a smoking hot female lawyer also moonlighting as SB or escort?
Time-optimization champion for sure
Come to think of it that could be my ex Chinese-Aussie. She must have her law degree by now. Such a smart cookie and great bod. Aaaahhh ... if only she was not living that far
 
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I finally let SB#2 go. We met for the last time today. While I enjoyed our play together the sex to money ratio was decidedly in her favor. @Frenchy you were right. Tell them you no longer have the money, and they disappear.
Glad to hear you came to your senses Dave. Good luck with #1
 
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