Ok, so my long-term sex friend is now pressuring me into a serious relationship with her. She is also married and she knows I'm married as well. She keeps asking me if I love her and if I love my wife. She also asks if I love her or my wife more. She always says sorry and she doesn't want to pressure me, but she always has this evil smirk on her face.
Just recently, she told me that another foreigner she knows proved his love for her by getting divorced and he proposed to her. She said that she rejected his proposal, but that I would get divorced and propose to her too if I really loved her? Then I explained that even though I have feelings for her, I still can't just divorce...especially if she has told me she will never get divorced herself? It all just seems like some sort of mind game to her.
As for the blackmail...she has told me that she doesn't like giving oral, but does it anyway to make the guy happy. She somehow thinks this means I forced her to give me oral...even though I really wanted it, but never forced her in any way? She seems to think that it was kind of like rape because she actually didn't want to do it...although she willfully chose to do it after I asked her to?
I went to an izakaya with her a couple nights ago and we talked for a long time. She kept asking me if I want to cut ties or try to continue a relationship. Of course, she knew that I knew that she knew that if I were to say I want to cut her off, she would probably cry rape against me. There is absolutely no evidence for her claims, but it still worries me as it is a serious claim. What makes it more insane is that she forces me into situations where I have to keep with her. So, during our talk, I turned the tables and asked her if she would rather cut ties or continue. This is where more of her mind games come into play. She pretended to think on it for a while and then said well, maybe it is better to cut ties and that it might be our last time meeting...so maybe we should spend more time together and go to a love hotel.
So after the izakaya, I felt like I was forced to go to a love hotel with her. I was just laying on the bed next to her, since I didn't want to touch her. I secretly recorded some of our conversations about the same crap again, since she always talks about the same things and pressures me about the same things over and over. She finally made moves on me and I secretly audio recorded us kissing and starting to have sex on my phone.
I plan to slowly break it off with her rather than suddenly to stay on the safe side (if there is a safe side). I also have a saved screenshots of messages she sends me saying she loves me, misses, me, wants to make love, etc.
I just want to ask if I'm ever in a situation where this woman wants to cry rape against me...will I be prosecuted and found guilty even if she has no evidence and I have a lot of evidence against her? I have heard that Japan has a much better legal system than most other countries in Asia...but this is still Asia...and I'm not Asian.
I know that many people on this forum have lived in Japan a lot longer than me and know a lot more about Japan as well. I just figured I would ask. I will be consulting with a lawyer and show the evidence I have as well.