this mirrors my experience too.. If I date someone its either no interest or lets be bf/gfI have a question from ladies in this website.
When you are looking for a sex friend (without financial expectations), what is important for you, how do you select men to be your sex friend (face, muscle, big male organ, nationality, skin color, height, his message, ...). In sex friend websites, the number of men are much higher than the number of women, and it is not so that easy to attract a lady. Especially for guys who are not very handsome, without big muscles, and non-American and non-European. I am from middle east and I found that nationality is very important for some ladies and they don't like people from the middle east.
If ladies can give me some tricks to seduce a sexy lady, I will really appreciate it.
I am asking this question because it is difficult for me to find a sex friend especially Japanese or western. On "adultfriendfinder" website, I met a Japanese woman. But she didn't continue. She told me, "I found a boyfriend". I don't if it was real or just an excuse. On"ashleymadison", I found a friend from Cina, but she left Japan and I am looking for a new friend.
In both websites, some Japanese women replied me "I am looking for serious relationship". Even in sex website they are looking for a boyfriend.
It seems that Japanese women prefer relationship (not only sex). And if it is only about sex, they expect to receive financial support like sugar daddy/sugar baby. About western women, I didn't have any chance to meet. I just found that they don't like to meet middle eastern people.
I am student and I cannot afford to be a sugar daddy.
What is your recommendation: how/where to find a sex friend?
Thank you for your patience to read my post.
Isn't it logical that a girl wants to gain something from sex as well?
Either a steady relationship, money, a smoking hot guy...
Put differently, a guy who isn't hot should NOT expect to have casual sex for free with hot women
Isn't it logical that a girl wants to gain something from sex as well?
Either a steady relationship, money, a smoking hot guy...
Actually, many women don't see their boyfriend or sex-friend as a "friend". I've talked to many women about this, and find this interesting. It's often more about her considering him special, popular, or like an investment that might pay off later (like a replacement or plan B boyfriend).people tend to forget the word "friend" in the "sex friend" concept.
you can't have a sex friend if you don't have friends from the opposite sex (or the same if you want that kind of sex friend).
I would add, "unless he has something else to offer, such as a scintillating wit or killer sense of humour."
It seems to me that women place little / no value on physical intimacy (outside of a traditional relationship) and almost see it as meaningless
Or just be in a bandI would add, "unless he has something else to offer, such as a scintillating wit or killer sense of humour."
I get that but I meant you have to be "friends" at first or acquaintance, depending on how people define the word friend. I stick to the basic definition of people you tend to spend time with without being forced to.Actually, many women don't see their boyfriend or sex-friend as a "friend". I've talked to many women about this, and find this interesting. It's often more about her considering him special, popular, or like an investment that might pay off later (like a replacement or plan B boyfriend).
So I think the concept of "friend" has to be something mutually agreed on.
I think it's not common for a lonely person with no friends to miraculously find a sex friend.
If they like each other, all fine.I would add, "unless he has something else to offer, such as a scintillating wit or killer sense of humour."
is this comment aimed at someone in particular?If they like each other, all fine.
People have different taste of liking for both looks and character.
But if nobody is into you, then revaluate yourself.
You think women owe you a sexfriendship but you dont owe the women who were interested in you as a BF a relationship?
The more pushy and arelaxed a guy is, the less attractive it makes him.
OP and anyone who's not down for relationships but complains that women are not down for casual sex.is
is this comment aimed at someone in particular?
for someone who has FWBs you seem very.. Anti FWB?OP and anyone who's not down for relationships but complains that women are not down for casual sex.
Its fine to look for something but realize that other people may have different goals and accept it.
Its maybe hard to find women who look for casual relationships but for other women its a stuggle to find love becausr they keep getting played. I noticed many single guys actually like the thought of a serious relationship but don't go after it even though its not hard to get.. Maybe the old "dont put your dick in crazy" saying.
But its the same thing, if you think women who are desperately looking for a relationship are crazy, women will also think men who desperately chase loose sex are crazy and people to stay away from.
Cognitive dissonance or delusional?for someone who has FWBs you seem very.. Anti FWB?
for someone who has FWBs you seem very.. Anti FWB?
I personally have nice friends who do a lot more than just sex with me (more nintendo games than sex).Cognitive dissonance or delusional?
I have talked to many women that said publicly or initially that they wanted one thing, to find out they did or wanted the exact opposite. Often such women simply wanted to disguise their behavior, no accountability for their actions, or plausible deniability about what they do. NOT saying all women are like that, but do think many women have trouble with embracing the nature of their sexuality, either publicly or to themselves.