Well I am going to respond.
Yes I penthouse forumed my reviews. I regret it honestly but there is some truth. I will admit that there is a solid chance that some if not all were just going along providing a fantasy and nothing happened.
First thing is first
Attitude, how do you approach the providers, do you view them as nothing more than a toy for your pleasure? Do you view this as purely transactional? Or do you view them as a beautiful woman that is about to spend time with you? Appreciate her company and actually talk with them? Almost every companion that I saw in Japan I know some sort of basic detail and elaborated with them about it for a little bit before we got to the main event. I also go over red lights, yellow lights and green lights.
Second, foreplay. Not everyone does foreplay, I do it regardless if it is someone I barely know or a SO. Do you kiss them(if it’s allowed) do you DATY if it is allowed and are you good at it? Do you put her pleasure above your own? From what I have seen putting my partners pleasure above my own has lead to some of the best experiences in my life.
Third, do you know the signs of an orgasm? Every woman is unique and every woman has tells. If she says “right there” or “don’t stop” or “keep doing that” is buzz words for two things, firstly don’t hammer down keep the pace and do EXACTLY what you are doing, if she gives you directions to speed up, deeper harder, slower, softer or whatever LISTEN! Those words she just uttered out loud is an indication that an orgasm is building and she is telling you to keep what you’re doing up in order for her to achieve her climax. Yes almost every provider and SO I have been with has done this. Are you aware of facial and chest flushing, vibrations of the body and pulsating of vaginal areas? Pretty good sign as well.
4th after play, do you take care of the person after? Don’t be a dick and just carry on, aftercare is essential no matter how vanilla the scene is!!!