Help! Libido getting lower

[Frenchy]

Sounds like you need to discover a new fetish. Go to a free streaming porn site and start watching stuff from all the different categories. Something new will float your boat sooner or later. You may eventually discover that you've an unrealized fetish for an Iranian ladyboy who dresses in a Chinese cheongsam who'll tie you up, spank your testicles with a japanese shamoji while shoving kim chee up your ass, only to be farted back out all over her massive fake boobs while she pisses slowly on your bare feet and then knocks you out for the finale. I find all sorts of new, intriguing things to drunkenly beat off to when the other half is out of town and my schedule permits me to come home and start drinking from noon.

But seriously, you lose 1-2% of your total testosterone every year after the age of 30. That was almost nine years ago for me, and even though I consider myself to be in very, very good shape, I'm still not humping and pumping like I could ten years ago when I was tapping 21yo asses in Osaka. You know what you should do? Fuck a really, really ugly girl. And then fuck her a few more times. When you finally get in bed with a pretty one again it'll be like Christmas morning again.

Original (if not entirely healthy) advices, thanks!

 

[Keihan]

Original (if not entirely healthy) advices, thanks!

But a word of caution, in the process of fucking ugly girls you may discover that this very act is a new fetish, in and of itself. The last time I tried this, I picked up a drunk, fat, borderline hideous Filipino girl in a bar and ended up fucking her in the sand behind the lifeguard stand down on the shoreline. I went home feeling both exalted and disgusted with myself...and then found myself trolling the bars looking for another fat Filipino girl the next week. And the next. And the next. It wasn't until a female friend of mine hijacked my phone and found pictures of me with one of my conquests, and then shamed me into promising I'd stop, that I forced myself to kick the habit. Got myself a nice normal Japanese girlfriend and was surprisingly aroused when I got into bed with her for the first time.

And then three months later I dumped her, got drunk and soon discovered that drunk, violent Puerto Rican women get me horny as shit.

 

[Frenchy]

But a word of caution, in the process of fucking ugly girls you may discover that this very act is a new fetish, in and of itself. The last time I tried this, I picked up a drunk, fat, borderline hideous Filipino girl in a bar and ended up fucking her in the sand behind the lifeguard stand down on the shoreline. I went home feeling both exalted and disgusted with myself...and then found myself trolling the bars looking for another fat Filipino girl the next week. And the next. And the next. It wasn't until a female friend of mine hijacked my phone and found pictures of me with one of my conquests, and then shamed me into promising I'd stop, that I forced myself to kick the habit. Got myself a nice normal Japanese girlfriend and was surprisingly aroused when I got into bed with her for the first time.

And then three months later I dumped her, got drunk and soon discovered that drunk, violent Puerto Rican women get me horny as shit.

I think the « friend » who shamed you should be ashamed herself. You did nothing wrong, if anything you brought a little joy to those Filipina ladies... I’m proud of you, young Padawan!

 

[Keihan]

You did nothing wrong, if anything you brought a little joy to those Filipina ladies... I’m proud of you, young Padawan!

Wouldn't be so sure of that. From what I can recall, all I brought them was about 45 uninspiring seconds of their lives they'll never get back, after which I jumped up and ran down the shoreline toward home, simultaneously trying to pull the condom off my withering dick that was still poking out of my zipper and giggling like a girl.

 

[Frenchy]

Wouldn't be so sure of that. From what I can recall, all I brought them was about 45 uninspiring seconds of their lives they'll never get back, after which I jumped up and ran down the shoreline toward home, simultaneously trying to pull the condom off my withering dick that was still poking out of my zipper and giggling like a girl.

Its ok, they could still brag having sex on the beach with a handsome Japanese guy speaking incredibly good English

 

[Frenchy]

Wouldn't be so sure of that. From what I can recall, all I brought them was about 45 uninspiring seconds of their lives they'll never get back, after which I jumped up and ran down the shoreline toward home, simultaneously trying to pull the condom off my withering dick that was still poking out of my zipper and giggling like a girl.

By the way, do you have a pic of that too?

 

[Keihan]

By the way, do you have a pic of that too?

If I did it would've been my avatar on TAG.

 

[Sudsy]

drunk, violent Puerto Rican women get me horny as shit.

Muy caliente - who doesn’t like a fiery Latina?

 

[Viggagadye]

Not to sound naggy, but diet, exercise and active stress reducing measures all have a positive effect. If it is a hormonal or physiological issue though, you probably need a doctor to investigate it.
My libido is at an all time low right now as well, and I'm guessing it's because work has been more stressful this year. Gotta take my own advice and make some changes.

 

[Frenchy]

Not to sound naggy, but diet, exercise and active stress reducing measures all have a positive effect. If it is a hormonal or physiological issue though, you probably need a doctor to investigate it.
My libido is at an all time low right now as well, and I'm guessing it's because work has been more stressful this year. Gotta take my own advice and make some changes.

Not naggy at all, also I resumed smoking a few months ago and it’s definitely not good for the libido...
Funny thing is I drank a lot of water today and now craving spicy stuff. This is what I bought for dinner...

 

[Mr Cat]

How about trying to date girls who you don't need to pay to be interested and attracted to you? Do you remember how to do?

 

[Frenchy]

How about trying to date girls who you don't need to pay to be interested and attracted to you? Do you remember how to do?

Oh don’t you worry about that ... the girls I pay don’t even pretend to be interested and attracted in me

 

[namae]

In a way maybe its healthy , like a curse being slowly lifted..

Very true ... in the context of libido. ED is a different issue though.

Some good advice above.

1. Take a break from sex.
2. Take a break from P4P/SB's
3. Replace the SB's with FWB's --- cheaper, but also seems less complicated, less effort.
4. Move onto a real relationship
5. Enjoy the RWC and male bonding, sport, pubs, beers.....let the women chase you.

 

[Frenchy]

Very true ... in the context of libido. ED is a different issue though.

Some good advice above.

1. Take a break from sex.
2. Take a break from P4P/SB's
3. Replace the SB's with FWB's --- cheaper, but also seems less complicated, less effort.
4. Move onto a real relationship
5. Enjoy the RWC and male bonding, sport, pubs, beers.....let the women chase you.

Well, if I want to let the women do the chase maybe the RWC, male-bonding sports and pubs are not the best places but apart from that , pretty solid advices, thanks

 

[MossBoss]

Thanks for the good advices guys!

Sounds like you need to discover a new fetish. Go to a free streaming porn site and start watching stuff from all the different categories. Something new will float your boat sooner or later. You may eventually discover that you've an unrealized fetish for an Iranian ladyboy who dresses in a Chinese cheongsam who'll tie you up, spank your testicles with a japanese shamoji while shoving kim chee up your ass, only to be farted back out all over her massive fake boobs while she pisses slowly on your bare feet and then knocks you out for the finale. I find all sorts of new, intriguing things to drunkenly beat off to when the other half is out of town and my schedule permits me to come home and start drinking from noon.

But seriously, you lose 1-2% of your total testosterone every year after the age of 30. That was almost nine years ago for me, and even though I consider myself to be in very, very good shape, I'm still not humping and pumping like I could ten years ago when I was tapping 21yo asses in Osaka. You know what you should do? Fuck a really, really ugly girl. And then fuck her a few more times. When you finally get in bed with a pretty one again it'll be like Christmas morning.

Original (if not entirely healthy) advices, thanks!

But a word of caution, in the process of fucking ugly girls you may discover that this very act is a new fetish, in and of itself. The last time I tried this, I picked up a drunk, fat, borderline hideous Filipino girl in a bar and ended up fucking her in the sand behind the lifeguard stand down on the shoreline. I went home feeling both exalted and disgusted with myself...and then found myself trolling the bars looking for another fat Filipino girl the next week. And the next. And the next. It wasn't until a female friend of mine hijacked my phone and found pictures of me with one of my conquests, and then shamed me into promising I'd stop, that I forced myself to kick the habit. Got myself a nice normal Japanese girlfriend and was surprisingly aroused when I got into bed with her for the first time.

And then three months later I dumped her, got drunk and soon discovered that drunk, violent Puerto Rican women get me horny as shit.

These comments are the most intelligent comments I have ever read on the InteRne
Mmm. Totally scarrry and frightening are the sane time:

 

[MikeH]

3. Replace the SB's with FWB's --- cheaper, but also seems less complicated, less effort.

Where is the belly laugh smiley when you need it?

 

[Simonka]

These days, everyone cites drinking water.

A long long time ago, salt pills were de rigeur. Then, similar to the false vilification of saturated fats => heart disease , with salt cast in a similar light ... salt tablets were deemed by many as unnecessary or even harmful.

However, if you follow this advice and hydrate liberally while restricting salt ( and other mineral intake) , the chance of heat stroke related symptoms , based on my limited experience , increases dramatically.

There are some ..not all, who are sensitive to salt ... and suffer high blood pressure. For some reason, mostly those who are African American ( not necessarily African ). The simple way to test is using a blood pressure measuring device ... take it to get a baselime. Then consume some salt ... maybe in water.... ? Most people find their b.p.actually remains more or less the same.

Anyways, if thinking lower libido might be due to high heat, dehydration .... then it’s not just water loss ... nor or is just sodium. You likely need to replace sodium, potassium, magnesium, zinc, phosphate, calcium ... there is a funky science that affects proper absorption and balance ... which is why if you can help it, try and consume them through natural food sources ( as much as a pain in the ass it may be).

He needs to eat Tzatziki.

 

[Frenchy]

He needs to eat Tzatziki.

Interesting. Does it work for you? I mean , not in a “wanting to please a client” way , which I’m sure (and experienced firsthand) you do very well as a professional, but really does it help you getting horny?

 

[Frenchy]

Where is the belly laugh smiley when you need it?

Well you may laugh but both Namae and Keihan Chikan are onto something .
Don’t you get more horny with your regular FWBs than with ladies you pay? (Other things being equal, which is rarely the case , granted... but just for the sake of argument).

And also have you never felt more lust for a less-than-perfect-body (without going to Keihan’s Filipinas extreme levels , lets say just plain) rather than a stunner?

I must admit over the past two months or so I was the horniest with... my ex-GF. OK I had great sessions with Simonka and K-Pop (but these two could easily make a sexless priest sin, and in the latter’s case that probably happened ). However the one that could make me rock hard and lustful with just hugging, cuddling, sweet words and no blue pills’ help... is a slightly overweight , older than me, American lady you would pay no attention to (and even less so , cash).

Desire is a really mysterious thing...

 

[Keihan]

These comments are the most intelligent comments I have ever read on the InteRne
Mmm. Totally scarrry and frightening are the sane time:

I just woke up and read what I wrote last night after too many highballs. And now I feel that Filipino itch coming back again.

 

[Frenchy]

I just woke up and read what I wrote last night after too many highballs. And now I feel that Filipino itch coming back again.

Pleeeease! I want to take that pic for you (escaping on the beach, drunk, dick dangling etc )

 

[stangbangr]

https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/dr-mike-hart/low-testosterone-levels_b_3486961.html TLDR:
1) Drink water from glass or stainless steel and avoid plastic Tupperware.

2) Avoid soy like the plague.

3) Limit your alcohol consumption.

4) Drink vodka on special occasions instead of beer.

5) Sleep eight hours at night in a dark room.

6) Eliminate stress when possible. Meditate, practice yoga, laugh and hang out with people who make you happy.

7) Decrease your body fat.

8) Eat foods rich in zinc.

9) Eat healthy fats

10) Think about sex stare at hot chicks watch porn

 

[MikeH]

Well you may laugh but both Namae and Keihan Chikan are onto something .

Well, I was just commenting on the idea that FWBs would be cheaper, less complicated and less effort. I must be doing something wrong as s mine are none of that.

Don’t you get more horny with your regular FWBs than with ladies you pay? (Other things being equal, which is rarely the case , granted... but just for the sake of argument).

Of course I do. That's why they have become regulars. Especially now when I don't have any regular p4p girls I easily get one blue bill worth better erections with my lady friends than in any p4p session.

But that certainly is comparing apples to bananas.

Desire is a really mysterious thing...

Dick wants what the dick wants. The path to happiness is not to fight it, but with it.

And here, of course, happiness means better erections.

 

[Frenchy]

Dick wants what the dick wants. The path to happiness is not to fight it, but with it.

You are a sex Yoda ! (Would be better with inverted words but Yoda-level nevertheless)

And yes, now I see what you meant re FWB vs P4P, and I concur

 

[Acid Burn]

You are a sex Yoda ! (Would be better with inverted words but Yoda-level nevertheless)