Help! Libido getting lower

[Frenchy]

Perfect!
(real Mikey looks better though)

 

[Sudsy]

He needs to eat Tzatziki.

And they said the perfect woman doesn't exist....

 

[Sudsy]

(real Mikey looks better though)

You misspelled older.

 

[Frenchy]

You misspelled older.

Oh come on, for once I was being nice and all... do you want to take my place as TAG’s Resident Asshole or what?

 

[Sudsy]

Oh come on, for once I was being nice and all... do you want to take my place as TAG’s Resident Asshole or what?

I never thought of you as an asshole.

A dingleberry maybe....

 

[Frenchy]

I never thought of you as an asshole.

A dingleberry maybe....

Thanks for the new addition to my Eigo vocabulary!

 

[Sudsy]

Thanks for the new addition to my Eigo vocabulary!

For a usage example, pay attention around 3:46

 

[UnicornHunter]

Thanks for the new addition to my Eigo vocabulary!

Had a female co-worker who didn't understand that word...kept calling the female owner of the company that to her face, all the while thinking it was harmless. We eventually let her know what it means...after a while

 

[MikeH]

I never thought of you as an asshole.

Me neither! Because I like assholes.

Though not so much ones that do not provide penetration.

 

[Frenchy]

Me neither! Because I like assholes.

Though not so much ones that do not provide penetration.

Note to self: penetrate Mikey someday, dude really wants it apparently

 

[MikeH]

Note to self: penetrate Mikey someday, dude really wants it apparently

You can't fool me, you are just saying that because you want to see the BO raw.

But if you did then you at least had a good reason why your libido suddenly gets lower.

 

[Frenchy]

You can't fool me, you are just saying that because you want to see the BO raw.

But if you did then you at least had a good reason why your libido suddenly gets lower.

Nah, I will carefully avoid watching the 8th marvel of humankind... and I will use my fist (With love and light, as always)

 

[Ddddd]

4. Move onto a real relationship

That only works for a limited amount of time. You could ask a big part of the members of this forum.

 

[Frenchy]

That only works for a limited amount of time. You could ask a big part of the members of this forum.

Also... what’s « real » anyway?

 

[namae]

Also... what’s « real » anyway?

Compare and contrast:

(1) a road trip down the Cali coast with a woman that genuinely wants to spend time with you; and

(2) a woman who says something like, "......do you really think I would have gone on an all expenses paid trip to Okinawa with YOU! without being adequately compensated for my time."

Nothing wrong with (2) in moderation, as long as you remain detached, cynical and get your half of the business transaction. Your posts suggest you struggle to do that.

 

[Ken1988]

I think it’s good time to mobilize your yoga experience to practice no-hands masturbation.

 

[Frenchy]

Compare and contrast:

(1) a road trip down the Cali coast with a woman that genuinely wants to spend time with you; and

(2) a woman who says something like, "......do you really think I would have gone on an all expenses paid trip to Okinawa with YOU! without being adequately compensated for my time."

Nothing wrong with (2) in moderation, as long as you remain detached, cynical and get your half of the business transaction. Your posts suggest you struggle to do that.

Damn, my little trips seem to attract attention ! Although to be fair libido was OK with (2) as well, and despite all the later noise, trip period was agreed from the start as out of the arrangement.
But yes, it feels much better to be desired than just consented (or barely tolerared), I get what you mean

 

[Frenchy]

I think it’s good time to mobilize your yoga experience to practice no-hands masturbation.

... and etheral long-distance non-ejaculatory sex

 

[MikeH]

... and etheral long-distance non-ejaculatory sex

Maybe the whole problem is caused because you run out of the healing organic coconut oil?

 

[Frenchy]

Maybe the whole problem is caused because you run out of the healing organic coconut oil?

It’s not a problem anymore : I decided to stay pure and virginal for my next sweetheart
(And I use only lavender oil for my best-selling, signature massage)

 

[C4ssandra]

Agree with hydration and destressing as suggested above, but its hard to not be stressed and get 8 hours of sleep and do yoga..sometimes even keeping enough water around is a challenge, so I'm going to suggest edging! A few days of edging + orgasm denial= body full of lust

 

[hkAlone]

Don't tell me it's the first time it happens to you?
I used to be a stallion who could have sex days and nights and getting hard just thinking about it.
It was a good decade (and a half) ago....
Now I just can't understand myself anymore.
I'm going to the gym a few times a week, drinking less and less, sleeping more than before.
Neverthelessy my libido has its own cycles... Ups and downs... I gave up on trying to make some sense of it. At least when it's down, I have less distractions.

 

[Frenchy]

Don't tell me it's the first time it happens to you?
I used to be a stallion who could have sex days and nights and getting hard just thinking about it.
It was a good decade (and a half) ago....
Now I just can't understand myself anymore.
I'm going to the gym a few times a week, drinking less and less, sleeping more than before.
Neverthelessy my libido has its own cycles... Ups and downs... I gave up on trying to make some sense of it. At least when it's down, I have less distractions.

Yes, I used to freak out a bit when it happened but less so now. It is a blessing too , more free time and more time for free!

 

[greenhawk]

There is little science to this, but I am 31 and started this at 30 before I saw my first escort. The week before having sex just eat a lot of testosterone boosting foods. Tuna, Salmon, Broccoli, Vitamin D milk, dark chocolate, olive oil, eggs, and beef are what I ate. At the same time don't masterbate or watch porn for a week as well. That works for me easily and I weigh 188 lbs. If someone were to weigh less and also exercise I am sure they would get even better results.

 

[taketaketake]

I have found that too much porn and masturbation to be problematic. It becomes difficult to stay hard if one becomes too used to a more extreme form of stimulation.

For me at least, if one gets too used to the "hand", the hand can often be much tighter than the real thing. And with a condom , there is not so much sensation compared to the "death clamp" hand. Also pornography is usually in the 3rd person point of view, so the actual real point of view may not be as stimulating..